Little to Show For It.

Contributor: ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
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It is SAT. night and the last input to the general forum was 27 mins ago. That is good. That means that people are still out, having fun or home and having sex. For me, the soon to be ex-wife is drunk and asleep one story below me. I am in the attic and I wish I had a lover tonight. Almost twenty years and much of that growing apart will lead to our soon demise. The daughter has the car at work and I am home tonight with a laptop and a desire before me. All in time. I never cheated. I have my morals but I am ready. Sex, 3 years ago. I have only been with two women in my life. When I was 15 (two years with a married women) and my wife at 27. I was always the like you as a friend guy and I have a great fear of rejection. However, my parts and thoughts yearn for love, sex, it is natural. I would rather try to satisfy a Women more than go to an all you can eat buffet. I am not successful with women. I try to hard. I don't have any disease, I am faithful to the T. I have needs, wants and desires. I am Scotchirish. Let me know. I have 40-50 more years to live. There must be someone for me, somewhere. I am stocky, she can be stocky or less. What the hell am I doing wrong. I see women fight with guys that are total jerks all the time. I would put them on a pedestal and take care of them. I am not a freak, convict or stalker. I want love, I want to be loved. I want nothing else. Well, sex 4/5 times a week. Is that really bad? I am not the only lonely heart in America tonight. I don't want Freudian answers. Two women in 46 years. C'mon. I have a lot to give I am no Gigolo but jeeze. If no one answers in ten minutes, I am going to bed. Thanks for your consideration.
06/19/2010
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Contributor: Sir Sir
Edenfantasys isn't really a place to look for relationships, it's a sex toy store. I do understand how you are feeling though, and I think that the best thing for you to do is maybe worry about your own needs rather than say how much you have to offer a "woman." Some women honestly just want to be treated as a man's equal - not be put on a pedestal and worshiped. That might be part of your problem - perhaps you are too giving, and do not worry about yourself as much as you should.

What exactly are your interests in terms of women? What do you like for yourself? Are you interested in sports, the arts? What do you like to do in your free time? What do you do for work? These are all things that might help you in finding what you want in not only a woman, but in life and in a companion. If you are not particular, then you need to find what you want, first and foremost. To have a relationship, a good, healthy, OPEN one, both partners need to know what is expected and what they expect of one another.

Life is good. Do not wait for a person to come and find you, because it's not always the case that they will - find them, be firm, know what you want. You'll find the right person someday, you will.
06/19/2010
Contributor: ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
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Originally posted by ScotchIrish
It is SAT. night and the last input to the general forum was 27 mins ago. That is good. That means that people are still out, having fun or home and having sex. For me, the soon to be ex-wife is drunk and asleep one story below me. I am in the attic ... more
Well, America. I hope you are all enjoying great sex tonight. I waited. Not a single comment. I wish you all the best. It is Sat. night. Have a great weekend. I am going to bed. ALONE, AGAIN. NATURALLY.
06/19/2010
Contributor: ScotchIrish ScotchIrish
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Originally posted by Sir
Edenfantasys isn't really a place to look for relationships, it's a sex toy store. I do understand how you are feeling though, and I think that the best thing for you to do is maybe worry about your own needs rather than say how much you ... more
Thank you, I know it is a sex toy sight, but some of the forum really gets going. I have my faults, but I am basically just looking for suggestions. I don't have the experience that some on this sight have and I implore their education. I love this sight. The toys, I do not know what half of them do. But, with the right women down the road. TEACH ME TONIGHT.
Thank you.JLW
06/19/2010
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by ScotchIrish
Thank you, I know it is a sex toy sight, but some of the forum really gets going. I have my faults, but I am basically just looking for suggestions. I don't have the experience that some on this sight have and I implore their education. I love ... more
You can explore things on your own too, you know! There are a number of different things that you can do for your specific anatomy and try out on your own to see what you might like to further explore with a partner, like anal stimulation, cock rings, BDSM toys, etc.
06/19/2010
Contributor: El-Jaro El-Jaro
I think a lot of people can relate to your situation somehow or another; heck, I've sung a similar tune from a different album.

It seems like you really have two options in front of you: stay home or go out. Whichever you pick, it sounds like you just really need to distract yourself.

One thing I learned from a counselor: There are lots of habits in the world, even thought patterns are habitual. One thing will remind of you something else.

And, if things do start to get really dark or negative...Go to bed. Extra sleep can be good too.
06/19/2010
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Good women like you are looking for do the things good women are known for. hey do laundry, they shop for themselves, they go to movies, they go to bookstores in short they live their lives looking for good men.

If you have had few relationships and they haven't been satisfying you might think about talking to a therapist or even just a religious counselor (like a Priest or Minister). They might be able to point out some areas you need to work on to attract the kind of partner you are looking for.

Best of luck.
06/20/2010
Contributor: Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
I think a lot of people can relate to your situation somehow or another; heck, I've sung a similar tune from a different album.

It seems like you really have two options in front of you: stay home or go out. Whichever you pick, it sounds ... more
I have to agree with this. Especially the distract yourself part. We've all had (well everyone that I know has) times where we can't find someone special. And we want someone sooo bad that we go searching and the more you search the less you find. You need to live your life the way that you want to live it, be happy in whatever way you can, go out and meet new people, open your world..but don't go just searching for the perfect person. I know it sounds cliche but the best things do come when you're not looking for them.
06/20/2010