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Contributor: kittikat17 kittikat17
sometimes after long periods of intercourse my man cant get off any ideas how i can help ive tried everything i can think of oral vaginal anal at a loss. he gets frustrated and so do I not to mention sore afterwards? help
07/19/2012
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Contributor: Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by kittikat17
sometimes after long periods of intercourse my man cant get off any ideas how i can help ive tried everything i can think of oral vaginal anal at a loss. he gets frustrated and so do I not to mention sore afterwards? help
Can he not ever? Or just only if you have been having sex for a long time?


I don't know what to recommend really, it all depends on the situation...

Maybe try something new? a new lube some, sort of role play, maybe some sexy new lingerie or something?
07/19/2012
Contributor: Beck Beck
He should talk with a Dr. There could be a reason he can't ejaculate. Consulting a Dr is a wise decision.
07/19/2012
Contributor: Incendiaire Incendiaire
Quote:
Originally posted by kittikat17
sometimes after long periods of intercourse my man cant get off any ideas how i can help ive tried everything i can think of oral vaginal anal at a loss. he gets frustrated and so do I not to mention sore afterwards? help
Is it that he only can't get off after you've purposely had a long period of intercourse, or does the intercourse only go on for so long because he's unable to get off and just keeps trying?

If it's the former then in the short term you should try to shorten the period of penetrative sex to only what he needs to get off, and lengthen the foreplay to compensate for you. Either way it's probably worth consulting a doctor, he may be having prostate problems or anything depending on his age.
07/19/2012
Contributor: kittikat17 kittikat17
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Originally posted by Incendiaire
Is it that he only can't get off after you've purposely had a long period of intercourse, or does the intercourse only go on for so long because he's unable to get off and just keeps trying?

If it's the former then in the short ... more
Thanks for the advice he is 25 as am I. and to answer your question it goes on so long because he cant finish. Its not always that way but we do have sex quite frequently and it happens once or twice a month its always the same every time, sometimes he has no problems at all then out of nowhere he just cant. The doc says everything looks to be in working order and that he might just be stressed or tired from work.
07/20/2012
Contributor: clockwork451 clockwork451
Maybe try a tingling, cooling, or warming lube.
07/21/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
Has he seen a doctor? Sounds like he should.
10/27/2012
Contributor: Laurinnichole Laurinnichole
guys should be able to know before they even have sex if they are able to cum or not. some guys cant cum because of how wet the girl gets, getting hot etc.
11/05/2012
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
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Originally posted by kittikat17
sometimes after long periods of intercourse my man cant get off any ideas how i can help ive tried everything i can think of oral vaginal anal at a loss. he gets frustrated and so do I not to mention sore afterwards? help
def have him c a doc first just to rule out any medical causes. after that, talk with him about it and see if u can help him figure out what to try. some medications as well as recreational drugs and drinking can cause this issue.

if it's not physical or medication/drug related then maybe mix things up a bit if you aren't already. lingerie, toys, role-play etc

i know its prob stressful for both of u. i've been there. and unfortunately the stress makes it worse.

have the two of u talked about it?
11/05/2012