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Contributor: EdenJP EdenJP
Okay so obviously I own toys because I am on Edenfantasys but do they do more harm in the bedroom than help? I personally haven't had any negative reactions or results from using toys. The toys have enhanced my sex life but according to some of my friends who have been in their relationship for 5 years they say that they ruin your sex life and you become dependent on them, is that true?
02/16/2012
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Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
It's a myth - a common knee-jerk response from people who either don't understand or disapprove of sex toys.

There's plenty of couples here on Eden who have happy, fulfilling sex lives that have either not been hurt or have been improved by the introduction of toys.
02/16/2012
Contributor: charletnarouh charletnarouh
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Originally posted by EdenJP
Okay so obviously I own toys because I am on Edenfantasys but do they do more harm in the bedroom than help? I personally haven't had any negative reactions or results from using toys. The toys have enhanced my sex life but according to some of ... more
I've never had sex toys cause a problem in a relationship. I try and balance my use of toys in partnered sex with organic sex just because I like the intimacy and closeness that organic, toyless sex provides. Not that sex with toys can't be intimate. I'd just miss the skin on skin and nothing else if I used toys EVERY time. If your friends are in a 5 year successful relationship, it seems to me that their sex life can't be all that ruined.
02/16/2012
Contributor: Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
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Originally posted by charletnarouh
I've never had sex toys cause a problem in a relationship. I try and balance my use of toys in partnered sex with organic sex just because I like the intimacy and closeness that organic, toyless sex provides. Not that sex with toys can't be ... more
I think punkstar283 might have meant that the ones in the 5-year relationships don't use toys - otherwise I don't think they'd be against them. Though I could be wrong, there's some people with weird logic in the world.

(Ugh, I definitely wrote "don't understand or disapprove of" up there, didn't I? I should have reversed that - now it just looks weird.)
02/16/2012
Contributor: glassdoll glassdoll
I believe that sex toys have improved my sex life. This may just be because we are into kinky sex and toys are wonderful torture devices (heh heh) or because my partner is FTM and having things like harnesses and dildos permits him to feel more 'complete'.

I feel like those who don't enjoy sex toys may have simply never used them.
02/16/2012