Rimming

Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Do you enjoy this act? I tried once with my hubby and can't do it. It was directly after a shower and I still got grossed out. He's impeccably clean so I know it wasn't that but there is still a smell of "ass" lurking around down there. I even tried putting scented/flavored lube on it before going to town. Still smelled ass. Not my cup of tea but he LOVES it. I feel bad because I'm never going to enjoy doing it because of the hint of smell that goes along with it. It just makes me feel dirty or something. How do you get past that? Is there something that truly covers it up?
11/07/2011
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Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Anyone?
11/07/2011
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I'm of two minds on this. I enjoy doing it to my wife, but will not let her do it to me - regardless of how clean I am. There is no way to explain it - it's just me. I can say that when I do it for my wife, there is essentially no flavor because as many have stated the rectum is typically clear of feces. There can be a pleasant taste when her vaginal juices have traveled south.

Not sure if any of this helps - good luck.
11/07/2011
Contributor: Raym Raym
I have been doing this more often with my girlfriend, she really enjoys it. We don't usually use anything, but just got an oral caramel/hazelnut oral lube that we may use soon. I don't mind it at all, and I know she loves it.
11/07/2011
Contributor: zensgirl10 zensgirl10
Quote:
Originally posted by Raym
I have been doing this more often with my girlfriend, she really enjoys it. We don't usually use anything, but just got an oral caramel/hazelnut oral lube that we may use soon. I don't mind it at all, and I know she loves it.
my man and I are the same. no toys and he only does it to me.
11/07/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
Just to be clear....my husband wants me to do it to him. I don't mind the taste only the smell.
11/07/2011
Contributor: Yoda Yoda
I say embrace the fact that it feels "dirty". There are many things about sex that, when you really think about it, are pretty gross, and yet we love them. So if you can't get past a mental barrier, then try the opposite approach by shedding your inhibitions.
11/07/2011
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
My GF is still somewhat squeamish about me rimming her but I LOVE IT.
11/07/2011
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Men sweat a lot more during the day, especially if they're even slightly hairy there. If this is the case, ask if he could try running a razor up the inner side of each cheek, just enough to keep it away from your target. That helps clean up, and when he's in the shower, if he took a few extra seconds to really wash thoroughly with a washrag, enough to almost penetrate just the edge, it can help a lot with that lingering man ass. ;-) Good luck!
11/07/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
Get in the shower with him and try it then! I like doing it.
11/07/2011
Contributor: GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I LOVE receiving and do enjoy giving, provided we both take a shower first. As for your smell issue, maybe some mints? It should cover up the smell and add a tingling sensation.
11/07/2011
Contributor: Dear Ruby Dear Ruby
Hmm... Are you showering with him and washing him, or at least observing him wash himself? If there's still a smell, maybe he didn't spend quite as much time back there as he could (it takes more time for hairier guys). It could be just a mental thing like you're saying, but showering together is fun, gives you a little more control of the situation, and might give you the peace of mind to enjoy rimming him.
11/11/2011
Contributor: Maxx Maxx
I know a few people who like it
11/16/2011
Contributor: 0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Yeeeep
11/19/2011
Contributor: Breas Breas
I know people who like it, I am not one of them though lol
11/19/2011
Contributor: 12345678 12345678
I actually like the musky between the legs smell, but I'm a little odd
11/19/2011
Contributor: csweatc csweatc
I like doing it, but I'm a little skittish about having it done to me, although I know it would feel pretty amazing. I do it to my GF all the time though, and she loves it.
11/19/2011
Contributor: Juice1 Juice1
Love rimming my gf. Finally talked her into doing it to me the other day and it felt amazing. Also, saran wrap takes care of smell and hygiene.
11/21/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Enema/douche, then shower, (insert your favorite scent/flavor product here) then enjoy!
11/22/2011
Contributor: Innocent Mathias Innocent Mathias
this may sound odd but try a mint with a mint in your mouth is can block you smell thats wat i do hun
10/30/2012
Contributor: hmb12 hmb12
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I'm of two minds on this. I enjoy doing it to my wife, but will not let her do it to me - regardless of how clean I am. There is no way to explain it - it's just me. I can say that when I do it for my wife, there is essentially no flavor ... more
My boyfriend is the same way. I don't mind, I'm not interested in it at all.
10/31/2012
Contributor: hmb12 hmb12
Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
Anyone?
He should be happy you tried, there are tons of things to do in the bedroom so it shouldn't be a huge disappointment.
10/31/2012
Contributor: hmb12 hmb12
Quote:
Originally posted by Raym
I have been doing this more often with my girlfriend, she really enjoys it. We don't usually use anything, but just got an oral caramel/hazelnut oral lube that we may use soon. I don't mind it at all, and I know she loves it.
What brand is the lube? sounds interesting.
10/31/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
Do you enjoy this act? I tried once with my hubby and can't do it. It was directly after a shower and I still got grossed out. He's impeccably clean so I know it wasn't that but there is still a smell of "ass" lurking around ... more
I love rimming my wife, and I love being rimmed by her. but we definitely always make sure that either of us is freshly clean.
11/02/2012
Contributor: AF AF
No problems to give it to a woman, its actually a big turn on, putting my tongue between two ass-cheeks. Though it must be clean (eg showering)
11/15/2012
Contributor: RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
*shrugs* I don't mind giving or recieving, but it doesn't really do much for me. I prefer to hop in the shower first and do a deep cleaning and maybe a quick shave before the event!
11/15/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
no thanks for me - I don't want any SHARTS
11/15/2012
Contributor: ElizaFetishx ElizaFetishx
I know what you mean about the smell, but it doesn't honestly bother me much. I don't mind giving it, but my current partner doesn't seem to enjoy receiving it much anyway. He's very self-conscious because he has IBS. I've also received it once, and it was alright. I'd likely try it again.
11/15/2012
Contributor: jdFtM jdFtM
Quote:
Originally posted by Ash1141
Do you enjoy this act? I tried once with my hubby and can't do it. It was directly after a shower and I still got grossed out. He's impeccably clean so I know it wasn't that but there is still a smell of "ass" lurking around ... more
Definitely only do something that you're comfortable with. I agree with whoever said a washcloth and some (gentle) scrubbing can go a long way (and using a finger to go in a little while he's in the shower, not getting soap inside). Another idea is to use a dental dam or saran wrap (non-microwaveable if STIs or Hep A are a concern) with some lube on his side of it- no smell for you, same sensation and excitement of your face being down there (if that's a factor for him). Another alternative is to use a lubey finger to play with the outside (or the inside if he/you wants- ooh la la!). It feels similar-ish and you don't have to have your face all up in his butt if you don't want that. Hope that helps!
11/18/2012