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Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie 06/13/2011

Do you prefer playing by yourself or with someone?

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Do you prefer using toys by yourself or with a partner? (110 posts)
Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
zracer , A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) , butterflygirlxo , joja , aphroditelady , ddd masturbator(bye all!) , Keegski , GravyCakes , Steve of Eden , Seth912 , wetone123 , Eva Schwaltz , Beck , LynLyn , dhig , Ash1141 , LAndJ , Cookie Monster Mike , GONE! , icyqueen , kittycatgirl , Sundae Sparkles , Lavendar , LunaDragon , Raymaker , ginnyluvspotter , kitty1949 , thornrose , souviet , fizzygato , SoloRebel
31  (14%)
lovemuscle n cookie , dv8 , Sir , Redboxbaby , married with children , Sabrinna , js250 , salaciousrex , big b , thaterry , Alan & Michele , Kinky Ella , Sinfully , SiNn , moonch1ld , Dusk , Linga , .Fairy. , Lio , Reyes , Jackol , slynch , REDRUM , mandiegk , Coralbell , kelaaa33wish , CAKES , Yoda , sarki , The Curious Couple , Shellz31 , ToyingCouple , curmudgeoncat , NarcissisticLust , ss143 , Mika R. , Howells , CSEA , UunicornN , potstickers , UnknownGirl , Karen Affeldt , ColorMeCute , Spoken Pandora , Kitt Katt , darthkitt3n , The Mother of a SiNner , C-Rae , irishlove , hyperfemmepony , Sex'и'Violence , Jazz , boobookittyfuk , Lummox , ns143ts , Ibegoodone , lzbncrckhead , Marble , cobiffle , newfoundlust , TheArchitect , Lady Marmelade , jay28 , Devz , Endocott , MN58 , Ghost , ThoughtsAblaze , kinksters , padmeamidala , dudemeister , Liz2 , Lilitu , IrishLassie , Ava5 , Checkmate , Lucky21 , xylia , phunkyphreak , toysforall , JessCee , Breas , AMTTT , T&A1987 , MJisfreaky , Kendrir , laceypanties , Theaadrian , Jon S , pleasurehunter , eeep , Maxx , Ice1 , Justasummergirl , OrangeKushBB , aimtoplease , SelectZen , geliebt , mpfm , ashdbash , Teaser , DreamWolf , Anjulie , EnterTheFist , Piña Colada , AshMegYo , mm098 , ECU Pirate , curious kitten , Dr Anal , AHubbyof2SexualMinds , collifornia , LavenderSkies , BlooJay , epiphanyjayne , CollegeFun2014 , SaraW0512 , Terri69 , <3BF , Chami , SMichelle , Feisty , TdotY , MissCandyland , sexystuffeve , sexxxkitten , Kitka , PropertyOfPotter , Nora29714 , Aurora Borealis , KRD , AK Bunny , damnbul12 , legna , giftdgecko , rockblenny , nova2014 , mamaseatspoop , J5ive , smlove , Trysexual , AriannaMay , Rory , mmmmm , Py , TheirPet , srexom , tunacan75 , Anne , Sweet-n-Playful , lilacviolet , Martiniman , hhh , SecretKinksters , brian691986 , Bignuf , featherhead , Lady Smile , chicmichiw , Lena Eden , Otelia , kinkytinkdd
162  (72%)
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32  (14%)
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Contributor: lovemuscle n cookie lovemuscle n cookie
We enjoy playing with toys together!
06/13/2011
Contributor: MaryExy MaryExy
I haven't tried them with my guy. I think a plug or something would be good, but for probes and stuff I'd rather leave them in the box. External vibes maybe... And BDSM gear of COURSE with him!
06/13/2011
Contributor: Sir Sir
With a partner. I do not use toys for myself, and everything is just better when I have someone to share it with.
06/13/2011
Contributor: married with children married with children
it is always better when you add someone else.
06/14/2011
Contributor: js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
Both are very good, but the turn on from either watching him or knowing he's very turned on watching me is sooo good.
06/14/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
I prefer doing anything with my guy (or a girl whenever I get the chance), but I'm alone a lot so I don't really mind doing anything by myself
06/14/2011
Contributor: big b big b
it takes two
06/14/2011
Contributor: Linga Linga
Definitely with my Daddy
06/14/2011
Contributor: A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
With toys, I'd rather do it solo. I still can't bring together my partner and my vibes.
06/14/2011
Contributor: mandiegk mandiegk
I'm usually alone, but I would much rather play with my partner. I'm hoping that there will be more opportunities for us to play together soon.
06/14/2011
Contributor: Coralbell Coralbell
I prefer to use them with a partner, but 9 times out of 10 I use them alone. He's starting to get used to the idea, but is still a little unsure, so my toys are mainly for solo use.
06/14/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I don't really know. I usually use them alone, xD We'll have to see.
06/14/2011
Contributor: sarki sarki
With a partner is more fun
06/14/2011
Contributor: The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
With a partner for sure!
06/14/2011
Contributor: ss143 ss143
Both are good but playing with toys with bf is a lot of fun and it increases the enjoyment watching him watch me use them or him using them on me he gets excited
06/15/2011
Contributor: butterflygirlxo butterflygirlxo
I like to enjoy them solo rather then with a partner but I also enjoy using them with my partner as well!
06/15/2011
Contributor: Mika R. Mika R.
With partner.
06/15/2011
Contributor: aphroditelady aphroditelady
Solo!
06/15/2011
Contributor: UunicornN UunicornN
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
We enjoy playing with toys together!
Same here.
06/15/2011
Contributor: UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
Together is better.
06/17/2011
Contributor: Kitt Katt Kitt Katt
I love trying out new toys with my husband and we use toys together all the time.
06/21/2011
Contributor: GravyCakes GravyCakes
i like using my toys w/ my bf occasionally. but for the most part, i like using them alone.
06/23/2011
Contributor: The Mother of a SiNner The Mother of a SiNner
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
with a partner very rarely do solo
06/23/2011
Contributor: tickle me pink tickle me pink
I really haven't used toys with my partner enough to really have a clear opinion on this. The times I did I really enjoyed myself, but there are also certain toys I have that I only use alone. So I guess I like both, depending on what we're using.
06/23/2011
Contributor: deletedacct deletedacct
I started using toys by myself a year ago and my partner at the time wasn't open to using them with me. I would like to use them with my next partner.
06/23/2011
Contributor: C-Rae C-Rae
We love to lay a good strapping on each other =]
06/23/2011
Contributor: Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Usually with a partner, but sometimes it's nice to just relax and take care of yourself.
06/26/2011
Contributor: dezzydezire dezzydezire
i like both! solo toys are a must for me and with a partner for clitoral stimulation its awesome!
06/28/2011
Contributor: cherie2188 cherie2188
LOVE BOTH
06/30/2011
Contributor: cobiffle cobiffle
together makes it so much better
07/03/2011
Contributor: newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
Together is better but when you can't be with the one you love, love yourself.
07/03/2011
Contributor: Jenimi Jenimi
Quote:
Originally posted by cherie2188
LOVE BOTH
agreed, just as long as he knows what he's doing or lets me dominate
07/05/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I usually start solo while waiting for my husband to clean up before sex, then have him use the toys on me during foreplay. It's much more fun that way!
07/05/2011
Contributor: Endocott Endocott
I'll pull the light out if I'm by myself, but if my partner is there, who needs one?! So it's more fun playing with her toys, with her.
07/06/2011
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
Hard question... I need my vibe on my clit to really enjoy sex w/my partner and we usually use a butt plug. However, when Im alone, Ive gotta use my toys to get off. So I voted other since I need toys!!
07/06/2011
Contributor: MN58 MN58
I only play by myself on occasions
07/06/2011
Contributor: BlackxxxRose BlackxxxRose
it depends on our mood and whether or not we're doing any live shows. live shows i do solo play or he'll use toys on me. off cam with use toys or hands on each other.
07/23/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
always beeter w/ company
07/24/2011
Contributor: haley730 haley730
I like both
07/26/2011
Contributor: padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
with my Master
07/26/2011
Contributor: Liz2 Liz2
I like both but my partner is sometimes too rough, with some toys, when he is the driver. But he enjoys watching me regardless.
07/26/2011
Contributor: ladyred ladyred
I enjoy solo and with partner equally!!!
07/26/2011
Contributor: IrishLassie IrishLassie
Most definitly with a partner! I always want more if I do it myself. With my husband, we can touch and kiss and all that jazz so its much more satisfying if he's doing it.
07/26/2011
Contributor: yiin yiin
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
I prefer self stimulation when i want to ejactulate quickly where as i prefer a partner when i want to actualy take some time.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Lucky21 Lucky21
It's kinda equal, but I lean a little more towards with partner.
07/27/2011
Contributor: Eva Schwaltz Eva Schwaltz
Depends on the toy, but for testing them out, I like to use them solo.
08/06/2011
Contributor: Beck Beck
It is better alone, I get all crazy! Shhh!
08/08/2011
Contributor: dontbackdown02 dontbackdown02
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
partner
08/11/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
there's a time and a place for each, but generally both is the best.
08/12/2011
Contributor: cec578 cec578
I like both.
08/12/2011
Contributor: geliebt geliebt
Nothing wrong with going solo, but I really love using toys with a partner. They're just way more fun!
11/13/2011
Contributor: MJisfreaky MJisfreaky
I enjoy playing with them more with a partner. Solo is fun but can get boring. I enjoy using them on my wife because I like to see her reactions. I like to please her. She also likes to use them on me for the same reasons. It makes us feel closer.
11/13/2011
Contributor: MJisfreaky MJisfreaky
I enjoy playing with them more with a partner. Solo is fun but can get boring. I enjoy using them on my wife because I like to see her reactions. I like to please her. She also likes to use them on me for the same reasons. It makes us feel closer.
11/13/2011
Contributor: Kendrir Kendrir
Most xp's have been solo, but having a partner to help is always better
11/13/2011
Contributor: laceypanties laceypanties
My orgasms are way different when I masturbate vs when I'm with a partner.. so it's hard to compare!
11/13/2011
Contributor: Theaadrian Theaadrian
I've never had partner give me an orgasm. But they're pretty awesome when I do them myself soo....
11/14/2011
Contributor: pleasurehunter pleasurehunter
I with a partner is always better, even if you finish by masturbating its enhanced from sexual contact
11/14/2011
Contributor: Ash1141 Ash1141
I like using vibrators more by myself. Strap-ons I only use with my hubby. So it depends on the toys.
11/14/2011
Contributor: Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Partner whenever I can, and solo for when she's not available or not in the mood
11/22/2011
Contributor: aimtoplease aimtoplease
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
with a partner. it's more exciting, you never really know whats next!
11/22/2011
Contributor: Cookie Monster Mike Cookie Monster Mike
Most of the toys I have I use solo, but have convinced my partner as of late to experiment more and have been using cock rings etc
12/07/2011
Contributor: Entropy Entropy
Other..If it's a toy for me then I want to break the toy in by myself and figure out what works for me, and then we can play with it together. However if it's a toy for her and I want to write a review on it then I want to be there for the opening of the package and first use.
01/08/2012
Contributor: Anjulie Anjulie
Quote:
Originally posted by married with children
it is always better when you add someone else.
Agreed
01/08/2012
Contributor: unfulfilled unfulfilled
Both; some are best with a partner.
01/08/2012
Contributor: EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
I think it's so much more fun to do stuff with my partner. I mean, solo play can be great too, but I love using toys with my girl a lot.
01/10/2012
Contributor: Gimme More Gimme More
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
both!
01/15/2012
Contributor: Piña Colada Piña Colada
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
Partner!
01/17/2012
Contributor: AshMegYo AshMegYo
I do it more solo, but I love it when my fiance uses my toys on me
01/18/2012
Contributor: Dr Anal Dr Anal
Playing with someone else is always more fun
02/24/2012
Contributor: PDXlady PDXlady
I end up using them on my own most of the time but I like using them with my partner just as much.
02/24/2012
Contributor: kittycatgirl kittycatgirl
I voted solo, but I'm hoping to change that soon. That's why I joined Eden!
02/24/2012
Contributor: AHubbyof2SexualMinds AHubbyof2SexualMinds
I love playing with my partner, and I also consider watching her play playing together in a sense.
02/24/2012
Contributor: BlooJay BlooJay
With partner
03/18/2012
Contributor: solitudinarian solitudinarian
Prefer to use dildos and vibrators alone, though it can be nice to have my partner use them on me once in a while. I'm always happy for him to watch me. Butt plugs and BDSM gear are much better with a partner.
05/14/2012
Contributor: CollegeFun2014 CollegeFun2014
Having my partner watch or use them on me is such a turn on
05/14/2012
Contributor: Terri69 Terri69
Better with a partner
05/15/2012
Contributor: <3BF <3BF
Two is better than one
05/15/2012
Contributor: Chami Chami
i like doing it infront of my man
05/15/2012
Contributor: Girly Juice Girly Juice
I like both for different reasons, and at different times. It's impossible to choose one over the other.
05/15/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
80% of the time, with a partner!
05/16/2012
Contributor: sexystuffeve sexystuffeve
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
With my partner... especially when he does everything for me... he knows what I want more then I do half the time
05/16/2012
Contributor: Kitka Kitka
I typically have more enjoyable orgasms while playing with my partner but playing solo is fun too since I know how to get myself off easily.
05/31/2012
Contributor: pasdechat pasdechat
If I just want to get off, then solo, but I like partner sex (with or without toys) for different reasons, even if I don't end up coming from it.
05/31/2012
Contributor: Nora29714 Nora29714
together is always better
05/31/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
I will always play solo as well. whether I have a partner or not, but with someone else is always more fun.
08/27/2012
Contributor: lomejo61 lomejo61
Almost always a partner! It just doesnt feel the same by yourself. It's like trying to tickle yourself.
08/27/2012
Contributor: damnbul12 damnbul12
With partner
08/28/2012
Contributor: konicaguy konicaguy
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
I enjoy using them with my wife, but I use one solo every great once in a while.
08/28/2012
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
It's always more fun with friends
09/04/2012
Contributor: rockblenny rockblenny
It's always best with my wife.
09/04/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
Both, depends on the mood and the toy
09/04/2012
Contributor: GuyCoddington GuyCoddington
definitely both, but some toys are better alone and some are better with another person
09/09/2012
Contributor: Lavendar Lavendar
solo
09/11/2012
Contributor: J5ive J5ive
either way
09/11/2012
Contributor: smlove smlove
I prefer doing everything sexual with my wife When I masturbate at home, I call her at work so she can hear my noises and talk dirty to me. Sometimes she'll even shut her office door and join in a little bit
09/14/2012
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
Partner
09/14/2012
Contributor: Rory Rory
I'm not real big on solo so with him for sure!
10/24/2012
Contributor: mmmmm mmmmm
With a partner.
10/25/2012
Contributor: TheirPet TheirPet
I always love playing with my partner more than playing with myself.
11/13/2012
Contributor: srexom srexom
it's always more fun to play with someone.
11/13/2012
Contributor: Sweet-n-Playful Sweet-n-Playful
Quote:
Originally posted by lovemuscle n cookie
which is better?
Preferrably with a partner but solo is good too
12/04/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
Anything with my wife is more fun.
12/06/2012
Contributor: dm dm
a love to masturbate with my wife
12/11/2012
Contributor: edeneve edeneve
right now I don't have a choice, it's solo since I don't have a lover.
01/02/2013
Contributor: Gone (LD29) Gone (LD29)
It depends on what I want out of the situation.
01/02/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Solo is fun, but I enjoy it much more with my partner!
01/03/2013
Contributor: Pandwhora Pandwhora
BOTH!
01/10/2013
Contributor: Lady Smile Lady Smile
I like it both
01/11/2013
Contributor: tequilafish tequilafish
I picked other because I like both, and couldn't pick one or the other as a favorite.
01/11/2013