Anyone who has on the off chance read my old post know that I went through trying to get my boyfriend into the idea of trying anal and getting into it myself. He did a total 180 and totally hated the idea before and now can't wait. I keep trying to tell him we have to ease into it and that he should let me get used to it with some toys first, but he keeps bugging me about when we will finally do it together. Now I need to know how to get him to understand we have to go slow.
Switcharoo
02/13/2012
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My defense would be, "Anal tearing isn't a pretty thing." Is he aware that going too fast can result in injury for the receiver? Or at least pain and a complete lack of enjoyment?
02/13/2012
If you've already explained all that to him, and he still doesn't respect you or make you feel comfortable, he's probably not a good sex partner for you. He seems too selfish.
02/13/2012
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It's more like I have to keep reminding him. He thinks I can be prepared for it overnight and I'm trying to explain it is a process and just masturbating anally once isn't gonna make it work.
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dks210
If you've already explained all that to him, and he still doesn't respect you or make you feel comfortable, he's probably not a good sex partner for you. He seems too selfish.
02/14/2012
I'd go slow on the anal, especially when first starting out.
02/14/2012
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