I get the same thing I'm not shy when it comes to talking about sex or toys and I get guys even in a friendship situation that are put off by it or overly suggestive. I think it comes with the territory. I'm used to it and grew up with guys so I know how to tell them to stuff it and if all else fails I throw a mean right hook lol less

Coming from a guy, if a women came up to me and started talking about sex toys (even if I knew her) it would probly start to excite me and then I would start to wonder if she is hitting on me. Unless I really knew her well (best friend well) this is how I would take it. The reason I say this is because it has happened to me and yes the women was hitting on me. Well not just me but my wife and me, she was trying to fell us out to see if we would join her toghter. We did not, however we have talked about it several times. less