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How many times do you change your mind before clicking the order button?

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Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
I've been driving myself crazy with my decisions this time around, rotating three toys around in my cart at a rate likely to crash the poor server. I know I'll buy them all at some point, but choosing which one or two I want next is making me crazy. Tell me I'm not alone.
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I put my items in my cart, click checkout, and move on with my life.
*Camoprincess* , Rossie , GenderSexplorations , LAndJ , RonLee , icyqueen , Gunsmoke , Arlinnae , potstickers
9  (12%)
I put everything I want in my cart and delete until I can afford the order.
Lioncub , Sohotdinosaur , Nora29714 , Kissaki , MissCandyland , Moniqua , tami , MissLoren , Ms. N , Bullfroggy and Rose , BoobCopter , DreamWolf , Feisty , Twirls , Lildrummrgurl7 , epiphanyjayne , remember.me , kellydouglas18 , ijustgotta , AK Bunny , Missmarc , amazon , clockwork451 , Ex-prude , Aishiteru , Virgingasms , KinkyNicki92 , apryls , Badass , Kitka , BlooJay , Hubby80 , JennSenn
33  (44%)
I add and subtract items until I can no longer remember what I actually ordered.
Beck , xOhxSoxScandalousx , lovekink , Geogeo , Loriandhubby , Vegan Silk , booboo111926 , Gracie , Falsepast , jokerzwild , beautifulbombshellVI , Zombirella , SkylarrStarr , travelnurse , LLmama , ToyGeek , (k)InkyIvy , Py , Martiniman , Airen Wolf , AliMc , padmeamidala , Apirka , sunkissedJess , Harpina is gone , Pink Lily , Sweet-n-Playful , toxie m , Undecided , Lizard , bayosgirl , lilacviolet , LavenderSkies
33  (44%)
I only buy llamas, so this doesn't matter to me.
Total votes: 75
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Contributor: Beck Beck
It takes me hours to figure out what I am going to order. I make sure to do my math and know exactly what the order is going to cost. I make sure I can afford everything before I place the order.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Lioncub Lioncub
I put in what I want on that certain order, double check any sales or discounts, take out what can wait...if I'm over my limit. Let it sit for a few minutes then come back and check out. Sometimes I'll wait for my husband if I can't decide what to take out. The things that get taken out go back to the wish list for next time.
07/28/2012
Contributor: xOhxSoxScandalousx xOhxSoxScandalousx
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Originally posted by Beck
It takes me hours to figure out what I am going to order. I make sure to do my math and know exactly what the order is going to cost. I make sure I can afford everything before I place the order.
Same! I change my mind a lot. Lol. Sometimes I'll make a wishlist with only items I wanna buy in my next order.
07/28/2012
Contributor: MissCandyland MissCandyland
I put everything in my cart and keep it there for a while or until there is a good sale.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Moniqua Moniqua
I put everything I want in my cart and delete until I can afford the order.
07/28/2012
Contributor: lovekink lovekink
I usually put them in my cart then see if there are any reviews. I check out those reviews but then still can't make up my mind. Usually like an hour later I make up my mind and I'll place the order and have no idea what I actually ended up with.
07/28/2012
Contributor: tami tami
i put it in my cart then see what i can afford then check reviews then order..lol
07/28/2012
Contributor: MissLoren MissLoren
I am always changing things around
07/28/2012
Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
a combination of the second and third options.
07/28/2012
Contributor: Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
I go through my wishlists for days before I make up my mind.
07/28/2012
Contributor: booboo111926 booboo111926
i usually take a few days to order
07/28/2012
Contributor: Gracie Gracie
Usually I am trying to decide between several items. And it never fails that some stuff I want goes out of stock before I make up my mind! I even have a seperate wishlist just for my next order.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
I put all the things that I want in a BUY NOW wish list and my cart, and so the things that I remove my cart because I cannot afford at the moment I buy next time.
07/29/2012
Contributor: Falsepast Falsepast
It takes me long hours a day to decide what I want, even before I have the funds to order it
07/29/2012
Contributor: ToyGeek ToyGeek
Thanks everyone, I feel much more normal now!
07/29/2012
Contributor: Twirls Twirls
I change my mind all the time, all the time.
07/29/2012
Contributor: *Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
Toss it in and checkout I usually calculate as I go so I know what I can get
07/29/2012
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I feel your pain, it usually take me 3 days of deciding and rearranging my cart to figure out what I will go with, cause It's true I will probably get the other toys later but it's which do I get first.
07/29/2012
Contributor: remember.me remember.me
I add things I like then eliminate based on how much I have in gift cards, money and how much shipping is, lol. Also which toy I'd rather have first!!
07/29/2012
Contributor: Zombirella Zombirella
Sometimes I might change my mind once or twice, making sure I REALLY want what I'm getting.
07/29/2012
Contributor: kellydouglas18 kellydouglas18
iv been changing my mind
07/29/2012
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I always have my mind set on a particular item, wait for a big discount to show up, add it to my cart and click the checkout button without looking back.
07/29/2012
Contributor: SkylarrStarr SkylarrStarr
I take forever to make a decision...eden had to much to offer that it is difficult to decide sometimes! I actually just removed an item from an order I placed yesterday after realizing it is vinyl. I am saving up to place another order before the 10 Year Anniversary sale is over. Love the Glass Toy deal!
07/29/2012
Contributor: GenderSexplorations GenderSexplorations
I usually know what I'm looking at well before I decide to order. Usually I'll ponder it for a while beforehand and then just add, add, add, buy.
07/29/2012
Contributor: travelnurse travelnurse
I always end up forgetting to add free stuff and get pissed, then I place stuff in cart wait a couple of hours and then the cart gets deleted by the site and then I place the order to forget one of the dang items I placed in the basket first!!
07/29/2012
Contributor: LAndJ LAndJ
I deliberate over what to get before adding it to the cart.
07/29/2012
Contributor: LLmama LLmama
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Originally posted by SkylarrStarr
I take forever to make a decision...eden had to much to offer that it is difficult to decide sometimes! I actually just removed an item from an order I placed yesterday after realizing it is vinyl. I am saving up to place another order before the ... more
Ditto!
07/29/2012
Contributor: AK Bunny AK Bunny
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGeek
I've been driving myself crazy with my decisions this time around, rotating three toys around in my cart at a rate likely to crash the poor server. I know I'll buy them all at some point, but choosing which one or two I want next is making ... more
Haha you're not alone. I do the same sort of thing, I just use the wishlist instead filtering it down, doing some research and real soul digging for what I want.
07/30/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by ToyGeek
I've been driving myself crazy with my decisions this time around, rotating three toys around in my cart at a rate likely to crash the poor server. I know I'll buy them all at some point, but choosing which one or two I want next is making ... more
Sometimes it takes me hours, sometimes I check out right away. I try to check out right away on deals that I know won't last long, like those 70% facebook specials.
07/30/2012