Hello, forum! Have a question for you guys - I've recently bought a cock ring here and wanted to use it with my girlfriend. But I got cold feet and can't bring myself to do it. She never used sex toys before, and I had little experience in previous relationships, too, but I've used a cock ring before. I'm really scared she's gonna think that I can't get it up, if you know what I mean, because that's what she thinks about sex toys - like, they only help if something isn't working right. I cannot even figure out how to navigate through this conversation. Any tips? Would really use some encouragement from you guys.
Wanna use a cock ring with my GF but have doubts
Bill79
07/02/2018
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Hey, Bill79!
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Bill79
Hello, forum! Have a question for you guys - I've recently bought a cock ring here and wanted to use it with my girlfriend. But I got cold feet and can't bring myself to do it. She never used sex toys before, and I had little experience in
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Hello, forum! Have a question for you guys - I've recently bought a cock ring here and wanted to use it with my girlfriend. But I got cold feet and can't bring myself to do it. She never used sex toys before, and I had little experience in previous relationships, too, but I've used a cock ring before. I'm really scared she's gonna think that I can't get it up, if you know what I mean, because that's what she thinks about sex toys - like, they only help if something isn't working right. I cannot even figure out how to navigate through this conversation. Any tips? Would really use some encouragement from you guys.
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First of all, I'm sure you have to try to talk to your girl once more. Maybe, give her some information to widen her views on the topic. Sex toys are indeed a handy thing when something "isn't working right," but first and foremost they are exciting tools of pleasure that help us explore our sexuality and find out what we really want.
Secondly, if you've been in a relationship for a while, is there a reason she might suddenly think you have any problems? Be confident, be yourself and proclaim your desire to use a sex toy as a gesture of intimacy, and a wish to deliver her more pleasure.
Hope this helps.
07/03/2018
Navyfrankl
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The first time I used one l told her it keeps me harder for a longer period of time. Plus it makes me feel really turned on and supper hard
Originally posted by
Bill79
Hello, forum! Have a question for you guys - I've recently bought a cock ring here and wanted to use it with my girlfriend. But I got cold feet and can't bring myself to do it. She never used sex toys before, and I had little experience in
...
more
Hello, forum! Have a question for you guys - I've recently bought a cock ring here and wanted to use it with my girlfriend. But I got cold feet and can't bring myself to do it. She never used sex toys before, and I had little experience in previous relationships, too, but I've used a cock ring before. I'm really scared she's gonna think that I can't get it up, if you know what I mean, because that's what she thinks about sex toys - like, they only help if something isn't working right. I cannot even figure out how to navigate through this conversation. Any tips? Would really use some encouragement from you guys.
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08/10/2018
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