What are you most turned on by?

Contributor: heather-mooney heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
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27  (29%)
66  (71%)
Total votes: 93
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Contributor: Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
its not that I don't get turned on by turning on my partner, but when I get touched right, everything else is blurry....
07/23/2012
Contributor: Missmarc Missmarc
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
I'm most turned on by what my partner is doing for me.
07/23/2012
Contributor: panthercat23 panthercat23
I like to know that my bf is enjoying himself but what he does to me by far is more of a turn on.
07/23/2012
Contributor: sexxxkitten sexxxkitten
I am most turned on by what my partner does to me.
07/23/2012
Contributor: mlmac mlmac
I get turned on more by what my partner does for me, but there is times when just the opposite is true.
07/23/2012
Contributor: SecretToyMan SecretToyMan
I wanted to vote both. I need both
07/23/2012
Contributor: SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I need both as well, but I voted for my own physical responses.
07/23/2012
Contributor: NightKat NightKat
I also wish we had a both option, its really a balance for me.
07/23/2012
Contributor: - Kira - - Kira -
I voted for knowing that he's enjoying himself, but my preference is for both.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
I like knowing that my partner is turned on.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Gina RPG Geek Gina RPG Geek
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
all of the above?
07/23/2012
Contributor: luvslukin luvslukin
Both are important for sure, but I voted the first option.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Eden062112 Eden062112
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
Hard to say, this is a very tricky question.

But personally I think I get more turned on when I see my S/O really getting into what we are doing, or what I am doing to him.
07/23/2012
Contributor: Gary A. Gary A.
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
More with what my partner is doing to me.
07/23/2012
Contributor: animepanda89 animepanda89
Both
07/23/2012
Contributor: Feisty Feisty
i guess both
07/24/2012
Contributor: peter69 peter69
Quote:
Originally posted by - Kira -
I voted for knowing that he's enjoying himself, but my preference is for both.
i think that its important for the women to be pleasured more than the man as it is an altogether more sensual experience for her , though this doesnt necessarily mean be totally selfish
07/24/2012
Contributor: Kaltir Kaltir
Both are a huge factor, but I'm more turned on knowing how turned on he is;-)
07/24/2012
Contributor: Cora Jane Cora Jane
Seeing his face while I'm touching him is the biggest turn on. I love to see my man enjoying it.
07/25/2012
Contributor: sweetnikki12 sweetnikki12
watching them get pleasure is more than enough for me
07/25/2012
Contributor: LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
I love knowing that they're enjoying themselves.
07/26/2012
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
I'm most turned on by knowing that my partner is enjoying themselves.
07/26/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
I think I get more turned on giving my husband head then he does getting it. Knowing that he his enjoying what I am doing to him is such a big turn on.
11/21/2012
Contributor: Arlinnae Arlinnae
what he does to me - but only if I know he likes it at least a bit, and its not entirelly just for my satisfaction.
11/21/2012
Contributor: Geogeo Geogeo
Quote:
Originally posted by heather-mooney
Are you more turned on by yourself/what is being done to you, or by your partner being turned on/what you're doing to your partner? Hope this makes sense, I'm just curious!
I get really turned on by giving blowjobs and getting good reactions
11/22/2012
Contributor: Martiniman Martiniman
I get turned on by knowing I'm giving pleasure to my wife.
12/04/2012
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Emotionally, satisfying my partner is the top priority. But physically - I have to focus on what she's doing for me.
12/05/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I get turned on the most by knowing how much I am pleasing my partner.

This is almost certainly because I am super submissive.
12/05/2012
Contributor: spiced spiced
To me, it's 'circular'. I get turned on by pleasing her AND by her pleasing me AND by seeing her get turned on pleasing me... It's all so interconnected, I couldn't say what's more of a turn-on (although I did vote for the 2nd option b/c that's where most of my attention is focused during our lovemaking).
12/05/2012