As I sit here waiting for my mentor to review my first review in the mentor program, I amy wonder what has brougt others to this site and forum?
For me it has been a strange trip. Married to my first wife I thought I had a typical sex life. At first several times a day the tapered off to a couple of times a week, then once a month etc. No toys no movies just a plain vanilla sex life.
Soon I reached my forties and found myself divorced. Apparently she was pretty kinky with her boy friend, but not with me. At this point in my lfe I had never been in a sex shop.
I soon started dating and found things alot different now the they were in the seventies. I met a beautiful woman and things started getting very serious. Since she travelled alot for business she ask me to dog sit for her one week. While playing with the dog he ran into her TV stand and things came crashing down. When trying to clean up the mess I discovered her sex tape collection. Most of the were anal. After watching a few I got the feeling she was a little wilder than my ex. At the time I never told her what I found just put them back in their hiding place.
Soon our relationship was getting very serious and she said she need to go shopping with her girlfriend coming home with a new vibe and some anal beads. She asked if I was comfortable with toys and I responded never have used any but was willing to try, whatever she had in mind. That led to a very hot shower when she added the vibe to our romp in the water. It was really exciting how turned on she was. Lated she asked me to insert her new beads in her for round two. I have to admit the feeling of being inside of her and feelinf the beads was a major turn on for me.
After a few weeks we were in the area of a very classy sex shop and she asked if I wanted to go toy shopping with her. I was amazed at how classy the store was and how polite and matter of fact the sales people were. Not at all what I expected. She bought some lube a new vibe and a butt plug. I was still too nervous to get anything.
We played with her toys for several weeks, when she surprised me and asked if I would like to try a plug. I responed with a nervous yes and she said let's go shopping and find something you might like. Being that I never tried anything like this I went for the smallest plug I could find. I was extremely scare to death of something going "up there". After alot of foreplay, she rolled me over and slowly played with my ass. Next thing I new the plug was in and I didn't even know it. The feeling was good but not great. I bought such a small plug it was "less than filling".
After a frank discussion with my wife (never had one of those with the ex), she said let's go find you something that will do the job. Now many toys later I am really enjoying anal toys as part of our love making. Not only that I find myself sharing my experiences here with total strangers.
That's how I ended up here, how about you?
For me it has been a strange trip. Married to my first wife I thought I had a typical sex life. At first several times a day the tapered off to a couple of times a week, then once a month etc. No toys no movies just a plain vanilla sex life.
Soon I reached my forties and found myself divorced. Apparently she was pretty kinky with her boy friend, but not with me. At this point in my lfe I had never been in a sex shop.
I soon started dating and found things alot different now the they were in the seventies. I met a beautiful woman and things started getting very serious. Since she travelled alot for business she ask me to dog sit for her one week. While playing with the dog he ran into her TV stand and things came crashing down. When trying to clean up the mess I discovered her sex tape collection. Most of the were anal. After watching a few I got the feeling she was a little wilder than my ex. At the time I never told her what I found just put them back in their hiding place.
Soon our relationship was getting very serious and she said she need to go shopping with her girlfriend coming home with a new vibe and some anal beads. She asked if I was comfortable with toys and I responded never have used any but was willing to try, whatever she had in mind. That led to a very hot shower when she added the vibe to our romp in the water. It was really exciting how turned on she was. Lated she asked me to insert her new beads in her for round two. I have to admit the feeling of being inside of her and feelinf the beads was a major turn on for me.
After a few weeks we were in the area of a very classy sex shop and she asked if I wanted to go toy shopping with her. I was amazed at how classy the store was and how polite and matter of fact the sales people were. Not at all what I expected. She bought some lube a new vibe and a butt plug. I was still too nervous to get anything.
We played with her toys for several weeks, when she surprised me and asked if I would like to try a plug. I responed with a nervous yes and she said let's go shopping and find something you might like. Being that I never tried anything like this I went for the smallest plug I could find. I was extremely scare to death of something going "up there". After alot of foreplay, she rolled me over and slowly played with my ass. Next thing I new the plug was in and I didn't even know it. The feeling was good but not great. I bought such a small plug it was "less than filling".
After a frank discussion with my wife (never had one of those with the ex), she said let's go find you something that will do the job. Now many toys later I am really enjoying anal toys as part of our love making. Not only that I find myself sharing my experiences here with total strangers.
That's how I ended up here, how about you?
