what type of stimulation gets you off?

what type of stimulation gets you off?

mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
i was just wondering how you get yourself to cum. i for the most part orgasm with clit stimulation. rarely do i any other way...but when i do its a more intense orgasm.
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Research , 19WolfMan51 , dv8 , Rainbow Boy , robbyrock , Hallmar82 , SoloRebel
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null , Lady Marmelade , sixfootsex , sexygoddess , joja , k!tten07 , Nothere , K101 , PiratePrincess , The Curious Couple , AndroAngel , mpfm , megan1987 , Lena Eden
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Gunsmoke , Ladyt1003 , link82 , Gone (LD29) , jmex83
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Total votes: 126
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09/21/2010
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mllebeauty mllebeauty
I love multiple stimulation, but when it comes down to it, it's mostly clitoral that gets me off.
09/21/2010
Envy Envy
Clit and clit/gspot combo, but never gspot itself.
09/21/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by mllebeauty
I love multiple stimulation, but when it comes down to it, it's mostly clitoral that gets me off.
This is pretty much true for my wife - the exception is that she can have a g-spot orgasm without clitoral stimulation using the Pure Wand.
09/23/2010
lamira lamira
Sometimes g-spot stimulation makes me cum, but a majority of the time, it is clitoral stimulation.
10/04/2010
Naughty Student Naughty Student
I voted for clitoral but really I need BOTH clitoral and vaginal bcs one or the other is boring to me during solo play.
10/05/2010
UrNaughtyaAngel UrNaughtyaAngel
Yeap clitoral all the way for me.
10/10/2010
plainjane plainjane
clitoral stim all the way----can't get off any other way!
10/11/2010
Danielle1220 Danielle1220
Definitely the clit...very fun
10/13/2010
Selective Sensualist Selective Sensualist
Quote:
Originally posted by Naughty Student
I voted for clitoral but really I need BOTH clitoral and vaginal bcs one or the other is boring to me during solo play.
This is absolutely true for me, too. I didn't vote because I need both.
10/15/2010
mm4sa mm4sa
My girlfriend loves clit all the way too. I don't think she really cares if she gets full penetration. She like my tongue the best, and she likes to rub my tip on her clit and likes me to finger her too.
10/15/2010
Vexed Vexed
It is necessary for my girlfriend to have direct clitoral stimulation in order for her to have an orgasm, and she prefers to have direct clitoral stimulation along with vaginal penetration. Pressure on the front wall of her vagina, or in the upper end of her vagina, or cul de sac (the posterior fornix) is what helps her reach orgasm.

I'm am not skilled enough to give her an orgasm with my fingers or my tongue. She stimulates herself to orgasm while I provide the penetration with my penis, fingers, or a toy.
10/18/2010
Shellz31 Shellz31
Mostly clit but I also love G-spot orgasms too.
10/25/2010
Research Research
Since I learned about P-spot orgasms they have pretty much become my favorite thing. It's a little tricky to do but I found my Hitachi magic wand with an attachment is the best for it so far. The power is a problem though, I go numb after a few minutes at full power.
10/25/2010
brokenangel brokenangel
Clit
10/25/2010
Trashley Trashley
Quote:
Originally posted by Shellz31
Mostly clit but I also love G-spot orgasms too.
Same here. My G-spot orgasms are weaker, but they feel like... home. Is that weird?
10/26/2010
cherryredhead88 cherryredhead88
Quote:
Originally posted by mrs.mckrakn
i was just wondering how you get yourself to cum. i for the most part orgasm with clit stimulation. rarely do i any other way...but when i do its a more intense orgasm.
Other. I love my clit orgasms, but I can come much easier with g spot stimulations. My clit o steele curse is leveled out by my shallow easy to please g spot. But, I am gonna have to go with clitoral because even after that I can come over and over and over again vaginally.

I hate that I need so much clitorally, but I love that g spot
10/26/2010
sbon sbon
Clitoral is definitely a must. Combined clitoral and vaginal is always nice, too...
11/09/2010
kermi91 kermi91
Mainly clitoral. Sometimes vaginal, but not often.
11/15/2010
Lavendar Menace Lavendar Menace
I love my clit!
11/15/2010
Airekah Airekah
Clitoral stimulation gives me the rocking orgasms I need to be worn out but I can have an orgasm through penetration too. COMBINE THE TWO and it gets explosive. =)
11/15/2010
jdloelo jdloelo
clitoral stimulation is a must have for me.
11/24/2010
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
I need deep vaginal penetration all the way to the top. Clitoral stimulation gets me wet, but won't get me off. G-spot stimulation feels nice, but but the orgasms are not the end all be all. The A-spot is where its at for me, and he really wants to rock my world, couple it with a bit of butt play too.
01/03/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I need deep vaginal penetration all the way to the top. Clitoral stimulation gets me wet, but won't get me off. G-spot stimulation feels nice, but but the orgasms are not the end all be all. The A-spot is where its at for me, and he really ...
My wife also likes a-spot stimulation - but not all the time. Typically the more excited she is the deeper she wants me to go. But sometimes, even after an orgasm, she's too sensitive to let me go deeper. Is there something I'm doing wrong? Any suggestions for effective a-spot stimulation?
01/03/2011
mrs.mckrakn mrs.mckrakn
clitoral and vaginal
01/03/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
My wife also likes a-spot stimulation - but not all the time. Typically the more excited she is the deeper she wants me to go. But sometimes, even after an orgasm, she's too sensitive to let me go deeper. Is there something I'm doing wrong? ...
For me, I would rather not orgasm prior to going for the A-spot only because my vagina is able to stretch further prior to the first orgasm and take everything in. If I can manage to delay orgasm for a long while that usually works best (I am a lush though and am not good at holding back). I do have to be in control of the ride (I need to be on top and he has to let me do the work), in order for me to comfortably get the right angle, allowing my husband to completely bottom out.

The week I ovulate, I seem to be more sensitive and it can be down right painful. In my experience though, I can work through it (sorta like in Yoga - breathing into and through the stretch) in just a couple of minutes, but again I am always in control of the angle, the depth, and the thrusting.

There are times I just can't seem to get the right angle and I get frustrated and weak and want to quit. Fisting is sometimes the only way my A-spot can effectively be stimulated. Again, I have to be in control of that entirely.
01/27/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
For me, I would rather not orgasm prior to going for the A-spot only because my vagina is able to stretch further prior to the first orgasm and take everything in. If I can manage to delay orgasm for a long while that usually works best (I am a lush ...
Redboxbaby: What you say makes a lot of sense. She prefers to be on top and admits that often she needs me to remain relatively still while she does the moving - except of course when she wants me to grab her hips and drive it home! Since I can't tell what she's in the mood for - she's getting better at telling me what her preferences are for the evening.

The time in her cycle matters too - but she's irregular and I'm not keeping track, so I don't know what's going on there - just another reason for her to let me know what's going on for her. It's a fine balance between taking charge and being responsive to her needs. Often she prefers that I 'take the reins' because she'd never experience new techniques & toys if she just tells me what she wants.

I was a little surprised to hear about your fisting experience. Although my wife can handle up to a 2" dildo - to take my fist would be about 2x that or 4" a whopping 12.5" circumference (and I have small hands). She expresses discomfort if I use more than 1 finger inside. Although she will tolerate 2, she doesn't seem to like it. I'm not overly aggressive - but it is what it is.

Anyway - thanks for the a-spot tips!
01/27/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
Quote:
Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Redboxbaby: What you say makes a lot of sense. She prefers to be on top and admits that often she needs me to remain relatively still while she does the moving - except of course when she wants me to grab her hips and drive it home! Since I can't ...
I prefer my husband not to approach it from a balled-up fist position. It is more like four fingers with the thumb tucked in tightly (allowing for a gradual stretch). My husband's hands are quite large (Men's XL sized gloves). However, I understand this is not for everyone and even for me, it is not something I enjoy often. Once in awhile, hell YES!

As far as the A-spot goes though, it is not necessarily something I am vocal about wanting at all. But, when I crawl on top of him and ease down, I listen to my body and see if it will take me there. This is going to sound self-centered and really bad (not my intention), but at that point, it really has nothing to do with him at all. It is all about me, he is just my vehicle to get me there.
01/27/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
I prefer my husband not to approach it from a balled-up fist position. It is more like four fingers with the thumb tucked in tightly (allowing for a gradual stretch). My husband's hands are quite large (Men's XL sized gloves). However, I ...
That must be why my wife admits that she feels selfish sometimes. She's using me as the 'vehicle' you describe - no suction cup necessary!

Thanks for the great info.
01/27/2011
lezergirl lezergirl
the real deal is clit+gspot+nipple.
01/28/2011
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