I'm just wondering what people like and trying to get some tips
What would people like with anal
Omega6989
07/29/2019
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All of the above. Although rimming (anilingus) is a personal preference (one that I enjoy giving but not getting), fingers are a necessary prerequisite to anal sex.
If you are looking for tips - here are mine:
1. There is no such thing as too much lube (we use coconut oil). Use a lot and reapply frequently.
2. Go slow - there should never be pain - and never use numbing agents. Pain is a protective mechanism. If you or your partner are experiencing pain, you have progressed too quickly.
3. Penetration should start slow - typically with fingers but small glass, metal or silicone toys can also be used.
4. Once the recipient is comfortable with a finger or two you can progress with something larger. That may be another finger - but we have found that tapered dildos/vibrators are best. A vibrating but plug is good because the vibrations help relax the anal sphincter.
5. Keep a sense of humor - accidents will happen and things you try will fail. Communicate what is working and what is not.
6. An adult beverage or two can help relax anxious muscles - but being drunk is a bad idea.
I hope this helps.
If you are looking for tips - here are mine:
1. There is no such thing as too much lube (we use coconut oil). Use a lot and reapply frequently.
2. Go slow - there should never be pain - and never use numbing agents. Pain is a protective mechanism. If you or your partner are experiencing pain, you have progressed too quickly.
3. Penetration should start slow - typically with fingers but small glass, metal or silicone toys can also be used.
4. Once the recipient is comfortable with a finger or two you can progress with something larger. That may be another finger - but we have found that tapered dildos/vibrators are best. A vibrating but plug is good because the vibrations help relax the anal sphincter.
5. Keep a sense of humor - accidents will happen and things you try will fail. Communicate what is working and what is not.
6. An adult beverage or two can help relax anxious muscles - but being drunk is a bad idea.
I hope this helps.
07/30/2019
I love any fingering, plugging and poking; Especially when masterbating. Slowly getting the wife into it with hopes of her fucking me.
08/26/2019
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Personally i find anal fingering and getting fucked in the ass to be great. Using plenty of lube is a must. I like to have it start slowly working the cock into my ass but after i get adjusted i really enjoy being pounded. Just starting with rough fucking in the ass is going to kill the mood completely it hurts and makes me want the dick pulled out immediately but starting slowly at first always does the trick for me. Im not a huge fan of being rimmed it isnt bothersome to me but I dont find it to be arousing id much rather have m clit licked but that's just me other people might find it more enjoyable. Another great way to start off with anal is to stimulate the vagina first and keep stimulating as you work your way into the ass it feels great and the anal stimulation intensifies the vaginal stimulation. The heavy arousal of vaginal stimulation during makes anything entering the ass much easier and more comfortable.
Originally posted by
Omega6989
I'm just wondering what people like and trying to get some tips
08/26/2019
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Excellent advice - and remember there is no such thing as too much lube!
Originally posted by
Heavymetalchick666
Personally i find anal fingering and getting fucked in the ass to be great. Using plenty of lube is a must. I like to have it start slowly working the cock into my ass but after i get adjusted i really enjoy being pounded. Just starting with rough
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Personally i find anal fingering and getting fucked in the ass to be great. Using plenty of lube is a must. I like to have it start slowly working the cock into my ass but after i get adjusted i really enjoy being pounded. Just starting with rough fucking in the ass is going to kill the mood completely it hurts and makes me want the dick pulled out immediately but starting slowly at first always does the trick for me. Im not a huge fan of being rimmed it isnt bothersome to me but I dont find it to be arousing id much rather have m clit licked but that's just me other people might find it more enjoyable. Another great way to start off with anal is to stimulate the vagina first and keep stimulating as you work your way into the ass it feels great and the anal stimulation intensifies the vaginal stimulation. The heavy arousal of vaginal stimulation during makes anything entering the ass much easier and more comfortable.
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