A Good Entry Point

Okay ladies and gentlemen, I wanted to get something a little out of the ordinary to experiment with, chatted with the partner, and convinced him to give it a go.

The P-Spot Revolution is a great multipurpose cock ring. It's flexible and easy to stretch for various sizes, and the silicone feels really soft and smooth. The insertable part also isn't ridiculously huge, which I think helped a lot since this could be new territory for some, but it isn't so small that someone more experienced would automatically find it boring. Nothing about it looked particularly intimidating when we took it out of the box. The rings are flexible, the silicone has a nice smooth feel against the skin, and overall it felt much nicer than he expected.

Since it is silicone, we used a water-based lubricant with it rather than silicone lube. There are already enough things to figure out when you're introducing somebody to prostate play without also making lubrication one of the problems. Definitely use enough, take your time, and don't rush getting everything into position. The smoother and more relaxed the process is, the easier it is to actually enjoy what the toy is designed to do.

The remote was another feature I appreciated. With the remote, all the control was in my hands without a need to reach around... ha ha. For couples, I think that actually adds quite a bit to the experience because one person can control the settings while the other person can just concentrate on how everything feels. It also makes changing settings much easier once the toy is already in position.

There are several vibration settings to play around with, so I would definitely recommend experimenting rather than assuming the strongest setting is automatically going to be the best one. Between the vibration and rotation, there is already a lot happening, and I think finding the right combination is more important than simply turning everything up as high as possible.

The two flexible rings also make this feel more like a complete couples toy rather than just a prostate massager with something extra attached. They have a good amount of stretch, but because everyone's anatomy is different, I would still take a little time figuring out the most comfortable position before really getting started. Comfort matters a lot more here than trying to get everything situated as quickly as possible.

As far as noise goes, this isn't something I would describe as completely silent. With vibration and a rotating mechanism running at the same time, you're going to hear it, especially in a very quiet room. During normal use it wasn't something I was particularly focused on, but if absolute discretion is important to you, that's something to keep in mind since most of the noise is behind him.

To be honest a big selling point to me was the toy didn't require us to constantly stop and reposition things or add another toy to keep the experience interesting. Once everything was comfortably in place, the combination of sensations and the ability for me to control the settings remotely made it something we could actually experiment with rather than just turn on and hope for the best.

For someone completely new to prostate play, I think the size makes the P-Spot Revolution less intimidating than some of the larger toys out there, while the rotation and vibration give you enough room to experiment as you become more comfortable with it. For someone who already has experience, the combination of prostate stimulation, rings, vibration, rotation, and partner-controlled settings gives it more versatility than a very basic prostate massager.

Cleaning wasn't anything dramatic either. The smooth silicone makes the main surfaces pretty straightforward to clean, although there are groves around the button, I paid a little extra attention to those spots rather than just giving it a quick rinse. After cleaning, I would make sure those smaller areas are completely dry before putting it away.

Overall, I think my favorite thing about the P-Spot Revolution is how much it manages to do without looking or feeling overly intimidating. You get the cock rings, vibration, rotating prostate stimulation, and remote control all in one toy, but the soft silicone and reasonable insertable size make it approachable. It worked particularly well for us as something different to experiment with together, and the remote-control aspect ended up being one of the more entertaining parts for me, but As usual with toys I wish the controller was made a bit better and made to look more interesting.

If you're curious about prostate play but don't necessarily want to start with something enormous, or you're a couple looking for something where one partner can take control of the settings, I think this is a pretty interesting option.

The biggest thing I would tell somebody buying this for a partner who is completely new to prostate toys is not to judge it based on the first five minutes. He definitely needed some time to get used to the pressure and figure out where everything needed to sit. The first time was mostly experimenting. The second time was VERY different because he already knew which position worked and which settings he liked.

And honestly, figuring it out together was half the fun.