Sassy Bendi Pacifier is a small butt plug by Cal Exotics. The Sassy Bendi Line all look a little like pastel colored chess pieces. They stay in (mine stayed in too well), and they "bend" with you. They actually have some sort of flexible spine. The spine is a little stiff and arthritic, but the toy itself is a soft PVC. The packaging, standard clamshell plastic, with a paper insert declaring it "safe and fun". It doesn't declare that it is a tulip shaped butt plug GLUED on a base.

The base is nice and large, and it also functions as a suction cup. Why you would want to glue yourself to a surface with a little plug, I do not know... I can understand a larger dildo with a suction sup, but not a tulip shaped butt plug. It did not make the product more enticing any more than the word PVC.

I found it impossible to pull a standard size condom over the entire butt plug. I am not jazzed about PVC, it's like slightly better than jelly as far as materials go, but I was only going to use it on myself. At 12.95, how could I go wrong? I didn't expect it to last forever... I like to experiment with different shapes for different sensations.

You can use any kind of lube on this product, except oil, Crisco, mayonnaise, or petroleum jelly - for health reasons (they trap germs in the rectum). You can wash it with antibacterial soap toy cleaner, or dish detergent. You can not boil it.

It's a soft matte textured PVC, and holds lube well. The thicker the lube for anal toys, the better. Most anal toys use lubes like Maximus, Silky, Probe (although it's stringy and sticky), or a jelly lube (tube lubes tend to be thicker) works best. You never want to use desensitizing lubes with anal toys, if the toy hurts its wrong for you. The anus makes no lubrication of its own, its walls are thin and vascular (richly supplied with blood vessels and nerve endings), so you want to relax, go slowly, and don't force in something too large too fast. This is not a big toy, but even with small toys, you want to take your time and be careful.

It was easy to insert, but the bulge of the tulip was uncomfortable. It created a bit of a suction, and the rim of the tulip was uncomfortable. I was relaxed, and no stranger to anal toys, so I figured, no problem, I will just re lube and reinsert. When I attempted to remove it and apply even more lube, the base broke off. Fortune allowed me to rescue this rogue satellite before it began its orbit away from Uranus (or rather my lower alimentary tract). I would not call this toy a butt pacifier. I do not mind snapping on a pair of nitrile gloves, to rescue something that decided to get a little too sassy on me, and I certainly did not want to make a trip to the nearest hospital (my employer) for retrieval. Caveat emptor. Buy only butt plugs that are one molded piece.

Its gone. It had the lifespan of less than 45 minutes. Didn't even get to do my crunches or ab work out with it in......Let that be a warning to ya, buy toys that are not glued together. Or maaybe AI just got one that was glue welded poorly and did not fare well on the 3,000 mile trip by boat from mainland US to Suzie's Secrets in Honolulu.