Be My Valentine

Be someone's Valentine any day of the year with this fun, affordable, and beginner-friendly butt plug. It's a great addition to any toy box and is a treat for your partner to find when undressing you. Made of smooth and silky silicone, this plug is perfect for the love of your life!
Beginner friendly
Forgiving material
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Sweet Love by Eden Toys is a toy meant for anal play. It is primarily a butt plug, but it can also be used vaginally if you'd like. The style of the plug leans toward beginners, and more advanced users may find this plug too small for their liking. The toy features a slender neck and a wider base, making it anal safe for the user so that they don't have to worry about 'losing' the plug inside of them. The silicone is flexible, so users won't have to worry about internally bruising themselves or causing any pain to sensitive tissues when the toy is in place or being thrust.

This is a great toy for anyone who enjoys anal play and can be used by couples or solo. Whether you're on the bed, in the bath, or out on the go, the plug can be worn just about anywhere. Compact and lightweight, the plug is suitable for traveling purposes, and can easily be hidden in luggage or a handbag. If TSA checks your bags, the plug can be recognized for what it is, though, so be careful if you're easily embarrassed.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Everyone
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Campus/roommate living
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal

Material / Texture

The plug is made from non-porous, hypoallergenic, latex and phthalate-free silicone. It doesn't have any unwanted scents or flavors to the toy, and it feels silky to the touch. Silicone is one of the safest materials on the market today and rates a 10 out of 10 on the Eden Safety scale. The silicone of this toy feels almost like velvet and is very slick and smooth. The silicone doesn't have any give in the tapered top portion, but the neck and base are flexible for comfort.

It does not resemble a penis in any way, nor does it simulate the feel of one when inserted. It lacks any texture, but this does not change the quality of the toy in any way. The smooth, velvety material glides even easier when lubricated with water-based lube, and feels even more luxurious in use. The material is a lint and dust magnet, so you'll want to wash it before and after each use.
    • Flexible
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all

Design / Shape / Size

The shape of the Sweet Love is whimsical, but standard to other butt plugs of similar sizes. It sports a tulip-like shape with a slender neck and a heart-shaped base. The base reads "Be Mine" on the bottom of it, and mimics the candy hearts you would find on Valentine's Day. This lettering is stamped into the silicone, so there are no worries about the statement washing away or peeling off. The size of the plug is smaller than other beginner plugs of its design, but this makes the plug less intimidating to beginners and makes the plug easier to travel with.

Next to a standard AA battery | In the palm of hand

The plug measures in at 3-1/2 inches in total length (including the base), and has a 4-1/2 inch circumference at its widest point. The diameter also measures 1-3/8 inches at the widest portion of the plug. The neck of the toy measures a 1/2 inch in diameter and 1-1/2 inches in circumference. It does not have a realistic look to it, but it can be easily recognized on a table or shelf if spotted. However, this could easily fit into a pocket or a handbag if you wanted to travel with it due to its compact size.

There is a seam running along the toy's middle, but this seam cannot be felt during use.
    • Beginner
    • Whimsical / artistic


The best part about the toy is the flexible neck. This neck makes the toy suitable for any situation and is comfortable to wear for extended periods because of that flexibility. Whether sitting down or standing, the plug stays put once inserted, and the neck helps the user to feel more comfortable when wearing the plug during that prolonged period. The silicone of this toy isn't as pointed as metal plugs, and while fairly rigid, still offers a comfortable flexibility and velvet feel that metal plugs do not. Once lubricated, this plug is slippery and slides in with some effort, as the flexible neck can make it difficult to push inside initially.

Once in, you can walk around, sit down, or surprise your partner during sex with this beautiful plug gracing your rear end. It has a bright, candy neon pink color, and is attractive for any fans of pink, Valentine's Day, or candy. While not very discreet if left out in the open, the toy comes with a black velveteen pouch that you can hide the toy in while not in use. Overall, this is a fun, easy to use plug that's comfortable, affordable, and beautiful.

Some things to think about when buying this plug are:
-If you're an advanced user and love the feeling of being full or stretched, this plug may not be the best option for you.
-It is on the shorter side of the spectrum, so this won't reach the p-spot for stimulation and is more for decorative purposes. However, the plug does provide a nice feeling when having this inserted anally and engaging in vaginal penetration for women, so ladies should keep that in mind if they're beginners to anal play.
    • Easy to use
    • Not very discreet

Care and Maintenance

Silicone is simple to take care of and is easy to store. It's compatible with water-based lubricants only but is a wonderful material that is capable of being fully sanitized. Wash the toy thoroughly with hot, soapy water, put it in the top rack of the dishwasher without detergent, boil it up to three minutes, or even use a 10% bleach, 90% water solution to clean. You can also use toy cleaners or wipes on the toy as long as it is cleaned thoroughly before and after each use. This particular plug has words stamped into the base, so you'll need to clean those crevices thoroughly as well with a soft bristled brush if you have one.

After you're sure that your toy is thoroughly cleaned and dried (by air or lint-free cloth), you can store it in the pouch provided or toss it in with your other silicone items. Some believe that silicone melts on contact with other silicone; this isn't true if the silicone is actually made from 100% silicone. If you're unsure about the material of something, store it separately to be on the safe side. Never place jelly, rubber, TPR, TPE, or other lesser grade items with your silicone products as these will melt together or discolor your toys. Keep silicone in a cool, dry place and out of constant direct sunlight.

Should your butt toys retain a level of scent, you can use sunlight to get rid of unwanted smells if boiling doesn't do the trick. Let the toy sit in the sun for a few hours and check to see if the smell is still present. If smells continue to linger, simply pack your toys with a natural potpourri, such as vanilla or coffee beans. This will be a refreshing scent each time you open your toy chest.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The toy was discreetly shipped in an unmarked, brown, cardboard box. There were only the shipping addresses listed, without any details as to what was inside of the box. The plug itself came wrapped in a foam bag, inside of a velveteen pouch which rested inside of a Ziploc bag. There weren't any instructions included with the toy on care or use, but as the toy is pretty straightforward, there wasn't a need. All of the packaging can be recycled if you wish, but you may keep the velveteen bag for either the toy itself or something else.

Gifting this can be done if you put it in a gift bag or box to fancy it up a little. Gifting the toy in the packaging alone isn't very decorative or awe-worthy. Be sure to let whoever you're gifting this to know that it is an adult item if they are easily embarrassed.
    • Good for storage
    • Minimal
    • Recyclable
Follow-up commentary
We don't use this little plug anymore. We've grown out of this toy, not because we no longer like it, but its size is more suitable for beginners to anal play, and we've become more advanced since then. It's a great plug for users new to anal play, and it hasn't broken, but we just don't use it anymore.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    Oouh, looks yummy. I want one.
  • Contributor: DancerKittyKat
    This is very cute!
  • Contributor: sXeVegan90
    It is a cute item. I wish my camera could pick up on the "Be Mine" on the bottom. Otherwise, I'd have a photo of that too. Thank you both again!
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