Blue Boy, My Good Buddy

I had been eyeing the "C shape" style prostate massager for some time. I read quite a few reviews, but couldn't find answers to take the plunge. Sure, they said it was great, but no details on why or how. Or how it felt so deep. Fortunately EF sent me Prostate Buddy. So, I hope this review helps others.
Silicone, Deep fullness feeling, Good price point
Retains odors easily
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Prostate Buddy has various uses. Its main use is for stimulating a man's perineum and prostate. It can also be used as a deep reaching, filling anal plug. Being acutely curved it can be used for stimulating a woman's G spot. It also comes with a bullet for added pleasure.

This combo toy is made by Eden Fantasys. It can be used hands-free or manually manipulated. Its main purpose is to press on the prostate. If you turn it sideways, it will look like the letter C. While inserted into a man's anus the outer arm will massage the perineum. It has a long flared "nose" for that deep and fullness filling.

This can be used almost anywhere. One can wear it while walking with adequate underwear support. You can sit on it while working or watching TV. Just be sure the chair/sofa is soft or has a cushion. A word of caution, if one sits down too hard/fast or on a hard wooden chair it may cause some pain.

It is totally waterproof and can be used while lying in the tub.

here it goes
Here is how "C" shape P toys fit in. (Illustration credit to a competitor)

  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Dual stimulation toy
    • For men
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Bed
    • Short walks
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Great for wearing while taking walks
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Anal
    • P-spot
    • Some may try g spot

Material / Texture

Prostate Buddy is made of silicone. The insertable part of the toy is smooth. It will have that slight distinctive silicone smell. Not strong though. You would have to put it up to your nose to detect it. This has a slight drag to it like most silicone toys.

The body of PB is flexible and can be bent easily with one hand. However, it is firm though for easy insertion. I suspect it has a firm plastic body inside and is coated with blue silicone.

The silicone on this PB will retain odors. Advisable to clean out first or use a condom.

The included bullet is made of shiny plastic. It takes 3 A13 button batteries.

Removeable waterproof bullet
The batteries came inside the bullet and it was protected by a little white round piece of plastic to avoid accidental powering on.
    • Flexible
    • Not porous at all
    • Rigid

Design / Shape / Size

As mentioned, when you turn this sideways, it will look like the letter C. The tip is tapered for easy insertion. The tip is flared for added stimulation when entering your backdoor. Then it tapers down so your sphincter will suck it in for you. Then there is a sizable bump that will cradle your prostate. You will need to make sure it sits in properly to reap all its benefits.

The part that presses against the perineum is quite nubbed. At first it took some getting used to. This part of toy also makes it very ergonomic. With its handle-like design, it's easy to insert/remove or thrust.

I especially like its design. It not only massages the prostate but fills the anal canal nicely. The bulged tip is curved so it can go in deep. The curved length gives you that fullness filling.

An intermediate anal player will love the size. I would classify the side as medium. I think even if I was a beginner I would still enjoy it. Anal people always want it bigger. It is tapered and smooth, so easy to take.

I will give you some dimensions and you can decide:

Insertable length : 4"
Tip : 1 1/8 " wide
Neck: Narrows to 7/8"
Bulge/Hump: 1 1/4" wide and 1 1/4" high; Circumference : 4 1/4"
Neck after the Hump : 3/4" wide

The bullet is 2 " long and easy to remove and insert. It only has one setting. Just press to turn on and off.
Here are some pics for size comparison to some popular Prostate toys:

Side view for comparison to other popular P toys
Aneros MGX EF Blue Prostate Buddy Aneros Vice (about the same size) note: Blue Buddy is softer and more flexible

Top View Comparisions
Top view

    • Ergonomic
    • Futuristic


This was more enjoyable than I expected. I already have the Lelo Billy, the Aneros Vice and MGX. Actually the Lelo Billy was one of my first reviews for EF. I particularly like the Billy and the MGX. In fact all of them can give me a P-spot orgasm. The Prostate Buddy, however, can be worn short term while sitting, walking and doing everyday chores.

Just having it in felt good. Gentle thrusting with it was very satisfying. Turning on the vibe created a few P spot's O's within 5-7 minutes. However, I think my prostate is tuned for O's from so much toying and regular use of my nJoys.

As for long term wear, I will find out in the near future. I doubt if it will replace my favorite nJoy products though.

As for the bullet vibe strength, it was adequate. The entire toy shook, with most the vibrations nearer the bullet. The vibe also was very quiet. I figure since it uses watch batteries probably will weaken after a few hours of use. Good thing they are not expensive. You can get 10 for a little over $3.
    • Easy to use
    • Not discreet at all

Care and Maintenance

Silicone is easy to care for. After playing use warm water and soap. If it retains some odors, then soak in a 10% bleach/water solution. Storing silicone products is always a challenge. They always pick up dust, lint and hair. So best rinse off before using them.

I would also suggest removing the cap from the bullet if not in use for a while.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


PB came in a simple cello package. No instructions or illustrations. It is pretty self explanatory when you pick up the toy. And I hope my review will serve your needs and questions.
    • Minimal
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

Using the right amount of lube on this is important. If too much, it will gravitate down. Another suggestion is to clean out before playing. Or use a condom. The silicone used on this retains odors. I had to soak it in the 10% bleach solution overnight after my second use.

Here are some accessories for a pleasant back door experience
Accessories for back door play
Bulb for washing out before play / lube shooter / condom / thick lube / toy cleaner

Also after periods of non use the bullet did not turn on without a few tries. Holding the on button for 5+ seconds seemed to do the trick.
    • Don't over lube
    • Remember to clean out prior


I carefully slipped it in while lying sideways in bed. Once inserted, I laid on my back. I had issues with it staying in though. It slipped out a few times. The vibes also didn't seem to be particularly strong. Seemed the mattress was dampening it as I laid there. Turning sideways and holding it in did the trick. Now I could feel it working its magic. I also enjoyed the full deep filling this provides.

My next session was to wear it while working at my desk at home. This was twice as good as the session in bed. It felt great while walking around. My tight briefs had no problems with keeping it from slipping down. Also I used less lubricant this time. While sitting at my desk, I turned on the vibe. Oh, it was fantastic ! In a few minutes I had a few P spots O's. Since I was suppose to be working I turned off the vibe. It became too much of a distraction.
Follow-up commentary
The best way to enjoy the deep vibrations is to lay sideways and hold it in. This reaches deeper and feels fuller than the Aneros MGX or Lelo Billy. It's great for quick P-spot O's while sitting at my desk. Of course, I need to sit on one of those U-shaped neck pillows. And when the batteries die, I just leave it in and enjoy the fullness filling.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: DancerKittyKat
    Great review as always. From first glace, I didn't realize the bullet could detach. I definitely want to try this toy!
  • Contributor: Gunsmoke
    Nice review - the price and odor retention characteristics of this toy indicate that it is not really silicone. I used a wide range of Tantus, Vixskin and BD toys and never had any issues with retaining odor. Although I'm glad you enjoyed it, I wouldn't spend a dime for it.
  • Contributor: MrClark
    Another great review, agree with Gunsmoke... definitely sounds like it's a silicone blend and not a 100% silicone toy.
  • Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears
    Irregardless of blend or not , produces great results. After soaking in the 10% bleach to h2o, no more slight odor.
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