This is the toy to loosen you up to prepare for pegging or anal sex. Upon receiving the toy, I didn't expect it to be so small to where it will just fit in with minimal force and little lube. Though be sure you use plenty of lube as this bad boy just keeps expanding as the bulb is squeezed. It expends into a massive balloon shape which you will feel up into your pelvic region and push against the prostate. It made me crave more and ready for my wife's strapon. I highly recommend it for beginners and experienced users alike.