The Sassi bendi ridge butt plug is awesome! I was so excited to use it because it is a fun shape and is actually attractive to look at, unlike many of the anal toys I have tried in the past. I had not tried a butt-plug before, and I think that this is a great choice for the first time. I had used the "Bubbles probe" in my anus before, and that was just not at all as comfortable. The Bendi toy is much sleeker and easier to insert. It is smaller and easier to move in and out, whereas the Bubbles probe is larger and has more pronounced balls so that it is a more intense feeling that is sometimes painful. The Bendi ridge toy was not painful, and felt really good both when inserted and taken out. I did not have to use a large amount of lubricant, because the butt plug is small enough to be inserted comfortably, whereas with other anal toys I would need to use more lubricant and insert it really slowly and carefully. This one slipped in without too much anal play prior. This toy is made out of rubber, which is nice because then you can boil it to clean it, and the texture is super soft and nice to feel. Unlike silicone, fuzz does not get stuck to it.

The only issue that I had with this sex toy is that it does not have a notch to hold it in place. I had a difficult time keeping it inside of me, and would have preferred that to be easier, because then I would have been more mobile to change positions while having sex with it inside me, as well as be less conscious of it.

A way that I enjoyed using this butt plug was while having vaginal sex with a partner on top of you while you are on your stomach. This way your partner can push the toy deeper inside of your ass while they thrust. This was also good for me because then there was no need for me to hold the butt plug inside me or worry about it slipping out, because there was constant pressure on it from outside my ass.

This plug also comes with a suction cup on the base which you can use on several surfaces. I did not play with the suction cup while the plug was in my ass, but by simply testing it on different surfaces, I've found that the plug definitely works best on glass, which would be good if you have a glass table at home (that is easily cleaned)!