I think that if you are at all curious about tying someone up or being tied up, this is a great way to start your fantasy. The blind fold is very comfortable and you can't see anything through it. The cuffs are soft and light weight, so you can adjust them to your individual size. Of course, my favorite part, the tickler or whip (it can be used for both), can be run over your body to tease you and arouse your senses, or it can be used to give a light slap as well.