The flogger itself is fairly soft and would be difficult to accidentally use too hard if used properly. The tails on the flogger are very soft and do not have hard spots on the end like more advanced or specialized floggers sometimes do, which makes this very beginner-friendly for someone wanting to try something new.

The cuffs are sturdy enough to hold up to moderate pulling, but if your partner is actually trying they would probably be able to break them if they are strong enough. If being used as a restraint without someone fighting to escape or just as a hold, they work perfectly and are comfortable.

The mask could be a tad more comfortable, it does not flex as much as some fabric sleep masks do, but it works for sensory deprivation and teasing!