Ulti-mate harness - dildo harness by Spartacus - review by Spoken Pandora

I have had the pleasure of experiencing sex with a female partner who doesn't need a strap to hold her dick. So for two years I have not been exposed to straps, cock rings, snaps, unwanted pubic hair pulling, or buckles in regards to these type of devices. But having had a strap used on me in the past, I notice the difference of not using one.

A strap allows for more intricate positions that when performed without a strap would cause a dildo to fall or dislodge from the pelvis of the "top". So of course being the exhibitionist, gymnast, and freaky sexual extraordinaire that I am, I wanted my partner to try a strap just to see if would add to her performance and my enjoyment.

This being my first unisex strap, I was unsure of what to expect but eager to try. At first appearance I thought the waist strap was smaller than described, however this wasn't the case and the thigh straps had more than enough lead. The straps are tightened with double d-rings that didn't allow for slippage of the soft leather straps during use.

Although the strap doesn't come with instructions it was simple to figure out. However this is because me and my partner know how to use straps. It kind of sucks for the newbie just starting out, but it's not rocket science, so you'll be okay.

I did find that we were able to fuck while in many hetero- positions without having to alter them, but while riding her I felt the difference in the way the dick stood up as opposed to not using a strap. This experience will of course vary depending on your partners pelvic height and type of dildo being used in conjunction with the strap. We used our suction cup 11inch dildo with a 4in circumference. Because the suction cup sat up higher when using the strap it went deeper inside of me than I expected and made riding difficult. (Honestly a strap should be used with a flat sided dildo. In our case the dildo added a little over an inch to the height.

Overall I was extremely pleased with this strap and feel that everyone from a newbie to pro, whether straight, gay, or bi, will enjoy this one.

I wouldn't call myself a leather enthusiast per-say. But I love the feel of soft leather and found myself running my hands along it repeatedly.It was like butter melting against my flesh and I instantly craved to feel it around my partners waist and brushing against my pelvis. There wasn't an overpowering smell that pulled me away from its seductive feel.

There are four snaps that hold the cock ring and dildo in place. This is normally what I see with straps of this type. The difference for me is that these snaps were secure and held up regardless of how simple or intricate our positions were. An added bonus was that the snaps didn't tug on my hair or pinch me in my unmentionable places.

The Ulti-mate harness by Spartacus comes with 3 o-rings. This is an awesome bonus that saves you a few bucks and adds to the versatility of the product. Match this with the quality subtle leather and you have a winner hands down.

The design of this strap is very simple. There is a strap that fits around your waist and two straps to slip your legs through. The straps are tightened with double d-rings. One of the greatest attributes of this strap is that it adjusts to fit almost anyone regardless if you have a flat tummy or an extra muffin or two. The waist strap is said to fit up to a 40" hip size but I think it will fit just a little bit more but nothing larger than 45". I say this because straps can tend to sit differently on wearer depending on waist and hips.And you don't have to worry about slippage. The double d-rings stay in place allow for a night of rough and highly active sex. (No need to walk timid through the forest with this one!)

I love the simplicity of this product. I was a bit skeptical about the strap when I ordered it only because I have had partners that have used leather straps like these and they complained of discomfort. My partner enjoyed the soft leather and since we received it we haven't used another, nor do we want to.

Because of the 3 o-rings that come with the strap, you are in for many nights of fun. There is an opening on the pelvic piece that allows a man to use both his natural penis and a dildo. But you don't have to be a natural man to enjoy this feature. My partner was able to use a slender dildo through the opening as well as a hefty one with the o-ring. I usually find that unisex items tend to cater more to one gender than another. This strap was made to be enjoyed by all.

My partner is of average build with a little extra cushion. The strap worked for her without issues. The leather did not cut into her skin and felt comfortable regardless of how fast or slow she thrust.

I loved the fact that the snaps didn't pinch me while I was riding and that it didn't interfere with the positioning of the dildo. Some straps tend to control the dick whereas this one to a back seat and allowed you to control it.

Although the strap is unisex it will sit differently depending on your gender. For a woman it will sit lower on the pelvis than it would for a man. But regardless, both sexes can take advantage of the opening on the pelvis piece.

There is plenty of length for an average build person. The waist fits a little more than a 40" waist. The thigh straps are long enough to fit a variety of sizes.

Let's see I was able to be fucked while on my knees, on the couch, in the chair, on the counter, stairs, bathroom, against the wall, backwards riding, missionary, sideways, helicopter, lotus, downward dog, out-house, chicken coop....so yea it performs well!

Seriously there are limitless possibilities with this strap. You don't have to worry about constantly adjusting during intercourse or comfort to the wearer or receiver. The leather is so soft it feels like a second skin. I couldn't find one issue with this strap during use and we did almost all of the above listed positions and scenarios and then some.

Leather should be stored in a cool dry place so that it won't be invaded by its arch-nemesis, mold.You also want to make sure that it is not kept in direct sunlight as well. I usually keep my straps in a bag reserved just for them but I have moved towards boxes with air holes to allow for circulation.

I suggest wiping the strap down with a damp cloth and allow it to completely dry before storing it. Never immerse leather in water, you won't like the results. In my experience with straps the part that gets icky the most is the pelvic piece. Unless you're playing around with candle wax, lubes, or cherry syrup, the straps themselves should stay rather clean.

I would classify this piece as high maintenance only because it is leather and should be treated with tender love and care. Other than that, it is very easy to store and not hard to clean.

I received my strap in a clear cellophane bag with no instructions or product information. If a person had never used a strap before this would be disheartening. One should never assume that because a customer orders it they automatically know how to use it. Also because the strap is made from a nice quality leather, it would have been nice to see care ad maintenance instructions. I was completely disappointed with the packing of this item and I hope that the way I received my strap was a fluke. I have bought cheaper straps with 10x as much packing than this.