Love share - g-spot dildo harness set by EdenFantasys - review by sXeVegan90

This harness and dildo set is meant for use by couples who enjoy gender play or couples who enjoy pegging. However, the toy itself can be used on its own as the dildo separates from the harness. The toy can be used anally safely due to the flared base, and there aren't any concerns about it becoming "lost." The toy itself can be taken into the shower, but the harness should be used in a bedroom setting or play party only. The set could be traveled with, as the harness could be folded, but it is in no way discreet if checked by TSA.

Beginners will be best suited for this harness as advanced users may find the harness lacking with its simplistic design. The toy can be used by users of any experience, and many may find the pointed tip of the toy suited to their pleasure. Beginners can comfortably use this toy if they choose, as it's not too large, but this may not be the toy for the size queens and kings out there.

The dildo is made from 100% silicone. Silicone is non-porous, hypoallergenic, latex and phthalate-free, making it perfect for users who have sensitivities to other materials used in making sex toys. The silicone has a slight smell when first removed from the packaging, but this quickly dissipates with a wash before use. The silicone has a matte look to it, and a silky, smooth feel when running the fingertips over the material. It is a lint and dust magnet, so it will surely get covered when exposed to such things. This is fixed with a simple rinse.

When the silicone has a lubricant applied, the surface becomes slippery and glides easily over the skin. However, the silicone does dry up lubricants a lot faster as it absorbs moisture more quickly than other materials. There is no taste to the material whatsoever, so users who enjoy oral play will not have to worry about the toy tasting terrible.

The harness is made from elastic and faux-leather, also called polyethylene. There are no smells to the materials, and they are smooth to the touch. The elastic is super-stretchy, and it feels taut when pulled. These materials are vegan, so those who wish to keep away from animal products like leather may enjoy this harness. The front of the harness is fairly thin, but it does not feel like it will rip, and the elastic is thick that makes up the band going around the waist and in between the thighs. The vac-u-lock plug on the front of the harness seems to be made of hard plastic

The harness is well made, and the stitching of the harness is sturdy. There weren't any loose threads or tears of any kind in the material. Overall, the harness has held up well for it being made from elastic, but there are design flaws which will be listed in the performance section of the review. The harness is designed to hold a vac-u-lock toy and can work with other toys of the same kind as long as it is not too heavy, and will weigh the front of the harness down. The straps of the harness are adjustable and adjust a fairly good amount to fit a multitude of sizes and shapes. It can be adjusted to fit tighter or loosely, depending on what the user's preferences are.



On the whole, the harness is made well, but it is rather flimsy and can be a struggle in use. The design of the harness is minimal, and the vac-u-lock plug on the front of the harness cannot be removed to place other types of harness-compatible dildos in it. The dildo of the set is well-made and is a sturdy silicone. It is designed in a non-realistic shape and has a light texture along the shaft. This texture looks like segmented sections along the top of the shaft and is smooth along the bottom. On the bottom of the base, there is a hole where the vac-u-lock attachment is inserted to lock the toy in place on the harness.


You can see the dildo is a lint magnet.

The harness will fit a large number of sizes, and it is easily adjustable. This will fit a size 20 easily, but be informed that it does sit low on the hips. The front of the harness also sits low and does have a more natural look to it, where the dildo rests. The elastic is super stretchy, and though it may not look like it will fit plus sizes, it definitely will. Using this set, I had no issues slipping into the harness, or slipping back out of it, and my thighs did not feel as though they were being constricted or restricted in any fashion. The harness cannot be worn under clothing, as the vac-u-lock peg will get in the way and it cannot be removed.

The dildo is a great size for any user. A beginner should have no problems using this toy, as it is not too large or too small. The size of this toy is about average, and the head of the toy is slightly pointed at the end enough that insertion should not be too much of a hassle. If using toys for the first time, always use some water-based lubricant on yourself and the toy, and relax your body as much as possible.

The harness does poorly when compared to other strap-on harness styles. The elastic stretches to accommodate many size ranges, but the front of the harness is far too flimsy when thrusting. When thrusting, you have to put more effort in pulling your hips out to pull the toy from your partner, because the front of the harness gets tugged outward if your partner clenches down on the dildo. This was pretty annoying when I was trying to get in the zone of making the experience as real as possible. Combined with the fact that the harness sits low on the hips unless you pull the elastic tighter up your rear end, it really interferes with the fluidity of sex and didn't make for a great experience. On the upside, the harness didn't cause chafing, stayed put for the most part, and the elastic wasn't all that irritating, but it just didn't meet our expectations or our needs when in use.

The dildo, however, is another story. The upward tilted end of the toy made g-spot play possible, and the firmness of the silicone allowed it to glide against the g-spot with minimal effort. The effect was a shaking orgasm from my partner, who doesn't have a g-spot that loves to hide. On myself, I found the toy had a different effect. While I enjoyed the stimulation it gave me, my g-spot is on the trickier side to find, so this toy didn't have me shaking in pleasure, but it did provide some great internal stimulation when turning the toy around in circles while thrusting. Anally, I liked this toy better, as the upward pointed tip and the subtle bumpy texture could be felt easily with how tight I am back there.

The silicone dildo attachment can be boiled for up to 4 minutes, bleached with 10% bleach (90% water), washed with toy cleaner, soap and water, or it can be tossed in the top rack of the dishwasher (without detergent). Once washed, be sure that the toy is completely dry before storing in a cool, dry place. If you'd like, silicone toys can be stored with other silicone toys as long as the user is certain that the other toys are 100% silicone themselves. To be on the safe side, you can also store your toys together each in their own separate bags or Ziploc bags. Be sure to use a water-based lubricant with your silicone toys at all times to prevent degrading.

The harness can be spot cleaned with a damp cloth should it get lubricant or fluids on it. The elastic will not hold up through the washer or dryer, and the vac-u-lock style plug may melt under hot conditions. If you'd like, users can wash the harness by hand and allow to air dry. Dry flat on a hard surface and keep the harness out of direct sunlight, as this may cause the elastic to stretch out and become useless. Store the harness in an underwear drawer or wherever else you'd like.

Packaging for the set was minimal, as the harness and dildo only came packaged inside of a small, clear cellophane bag. The dildo was wrapped in extra cellophane inside of the bag. The items did not come with any instructions of any sort, but none were required for this kind of toy. The toy was shipped discreetly and had no indicators on the outside of the box as to the contents inside. The address the set shipped from was also discreet and did not mention Edenfantasys anywhere. Inside of the box, the harness was tucked underneath air pillows.



The packaging of the set is recyclable, and due to the minimal aspects will need to be repackaged if the person buying this wishes to gift the item. Once opened, the package cannot be resealed, so it is of no use for storage purposes.