This is a versatile dildo and harness set that can be used as a set, the dildo without the harness, or with another vac-u-lock compatible dildo in the harness.

If you are using this as a set, you can vaginally or anally penetrate your partner. If you are using the dildo without the harness you can use it vaginally with or without a partner. I would not use it anally outside of the harness because it does not have a flared base.

As this is not a vibrating dildo, this can be used in any water setting that you find enjoyable.

This is a great set ideal for beginners who want to experiment with strap-on play or pegging and don't want to spend the money for a leather harness set.

The dildo is a great addition to anyone's toy box, but would be preferred by those who enjoy firm, less girthy dildos.

The harness was very easy to slip into, all you need to do is step through the area for your legs and slide it up. You can adjust the harness to your fit from here, but I found it better to have it adjusted beforehand and just tighten snug. Once on, the dildo did not give from its vac-u-lock system at all no matter how much I moved around. The vinyl isn't the most comfortable material to wear so I suggest wearing boxers so it doesn't rub your thighs.

As far as attaching the dildo to the harness, it is much easier to go on than it is to come off. It is hollowed out and slips right into the base of the vac-u-lock system no problem.

Silicone is very easy to care for. First, remove the dildo from the harness and then hand wash in warm water or use your favorite toy cleaner or wipe. Silicone can also be used in the top rack of the dishwasher or boiled, but I prefer wiping my toys down.

If you need to clean the harness, I recommend wiping it down with a washcloth.

I would store them separately for organization sake in a cool dry place. I store mine in my lingerie drawer away from other silicone toys. As you can tell from earlier pictures this is a hair and lint magnet, so I would wash before use as well.

When choosing lubricant, use your favorite water based lube so it doesn't degrade the quality of the silicone in the dildo.

This did not have any instructions included with this set and was just packed in a see through plastic bag.

Overall, I feel the dildo is the best asset of this piece. If you like the looks of the dildo, go ahead and buy this set. However, if you are wanting a comfortable, high quality harness and dildo set I would look elsewhere. The harness isn't comfortable enough for anyone who plans on using the set for an extended period of time. If you think you want to try strap-on play or pegging for the first time and don't think you will enjoy it, then this would be beneficial money wise, but that's about it.

My husband used to be intimidated by dildos. I could never get him used to the idea of using one on me. Now that has all changes thanks to his new friend "purple." Yes, he named this toy "purple" and will ask me to go grab purple from the drawer before we play. He likes to grab this toy and use it to make me cum before playing with me.

We've toyed around with the idea of pegging and him using the harness for double penetration, but we haven't gotten there yet. For now, we get our laughs out of me trying to learn control on using one. It is humorous, because I haven't quite figured it out. I either go too fast or too slow and the dildo just bounces around. I have to find my rhythm before he will let me anywhere near his rear.