I think this one works far better while held in your hand than being stuck to a surface with the suction cup. You can get a really strong pumping action and manipulate it so much better. I think this one, like most other dildos, is good with or without a partner.

The material had a bit of powder on it when received, but I think that is really common anymore. It is soft with some texture, and veins along the surface. I was blown away when using this. It really stimulates more than any of the other dildos or vibrators I have ever tried. The core of the dildo is a flexible design and lends firmness to the whole.

Overall, I love the design. With anal, I have found that the flexible aspect doesn't really offer much. This might work much better for a female user, in allowing the toy to bump against their spot inside. The balls lend a bit of realism to the item, but personally I have never paid much attention to them. One thing I have found is that while it says the suction cup offers strong suction, it doesn't seem to work as well as advertised.

With a suction cup item, I usually stick it to a certain place and see how it handles itself. After only a moment or so, this one popped free. After some more testing, I had it pop loose while inside me. Since I have other suction items that stick to the surface, and I have difficulty getting them loose, this seems like a flaw in the suction design, rather than anything else.

However, the feeling of the toy inside me more than made up for this inadequacy.

This is a TPR toy. That means you have to fall back on toy cleaner or mild soap and warm water. Drying it after this can be done by dabbing it with a paper towel. I would avoid using a normal towel, due to fuzz and stuff getting stuck on the toy.

It can be used with silicone or water-based lubes, however, I would recommend only sticking to water-based, which is compatible with all toys I have come across. Less chance of accident that way.

Because of the nature of the material, it isn't recommended to use it with a partner. Rather you should slip a condom on it instead. To store it, I like to keep mine under the bed, in a box, where it can remain cool and dry between uses.

Since I'm a solo practitioner, I found the best way to this was sitting at the edge of my recliner, where I could reach down between my legs easily and piston it in and out. It was easy to handle and build up speed and seemed to hit all the perfect spots in me this way.