Realistic play

This realistic vibrator is a great size for those who prefer something not too thick. It's also travel-friendly and easy to clean and store.
Suction cup
Collects pet hair easily
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review

First impression

This had arrived in a brown discreet box in the mail. Once I opened it, this was in a clear plastic bag along with the white USB charger. It had a piece of tape on it keeping it shut. When I pulled it out, the feeling felt real nice. I also liked the way it curved up, knowing it'd be good for possible g-spot pleasure. It didn't seem as flexible as the dual-density dildo I have, but this one also vibrates so I didn't expect it to be super bendable. It did have some give though, you just can't bend it as easily. I noticed all the veins on this too, which seemed like it has a lot and the testicles also had a lot of definition. This didn't come with any instructions or storage bag. I'll be leaving mine in the clear plastic bag it came in. All in all, I couldn't wait to use it.

First Use

My husband was home when this arrived, and he actually seemed more excited to try it on me than I was. We had this for maybe 10 minutes before he decided to wash it and use it on me. So we didn't charge it right away as it did have a bit of a charge when it arrived and he had used it on me for about 10 minutes. He had put water-based lubricant on it since this is silicone and had held the button down for 2-3 seconds to turn it on. He left it on the first setting and had begun using it on me. We both loved it! It felt so good, and he had gotten me off twice in the first use.

After the first use, I washed it back up with soap and water ( you can also use a toy cleaner or a 5% bleach solution ) and then put it on the charger. It took a half-hour to charge the first time.

Charging port

The bottom button is power and to go through functions and the top is the lightning

Suction cup

Further Experience

So I waited until I went to use this again to explore the functions. There are two buttons. The power button, which you need to hold for 2-3 seconds, then a light turns on red. You press that button to cycle through all 10 functions which range from vibrating, escalating, and pulsating. Above that button, is a lightning bolt button. When you press that it does an intense continuous vibration for 20 seconds. I have another toy that does this, and I love that feature. To turn this back off, you just hold the power button in again. I then took this and pushed it on the table, and the suction was very strong. I also put it on the door to check it out, and it suctioned so strong I almost had issues pulling it off. You may have to push it on once or twice to make sure it's on good, but it's definitely a great suction cup. If it doesn't stick on tight, it still holds on well just not as strong.

This is waterproof so it can be used in the shower, I have not tried it out yet. I have used this vibrator several times now, and I absolutely love it. It gets me off quick and feels amazing. I also love that my husband enjoys using it on me.

Silicone is hypo-allergenic and non-porous, so it doesn't harbor bacteria. It's also latex and phthalates free. The circumference of this at it's widest point is 4 1/4 inches, and the diameter is 1 1/2 inches. The total length is a little over 7 inches with the insertable length being 5 3/8 inches.

Size comparison

Next to dual-density silicone dildo

Vibration Map

The strongest vibrations are around the head of this toy. It isn't much of a difference from the rest of this toy. It all seems to feel pretty even.
  • Very mild, low level vibration
  • Moderate vibration
  • Strong and easily felt vibration

Orgasm Intensity

My orgasms have been the best when my husband uses this on me. I also have some good ones with just the toy alone. I normally pair up my toys with a clit toy, and I've done that a few times too.
Follow-up commentary
The Secret lover is a favorite of mine! This is just amazing all around. This is also my husband's go-to for foreplay. He loves using this on me.
This product was provided at a discounted price in exchange for an unbiased review. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: CuriousFun
    Great review! This looks like an awesome toy. I too love that boost function on my Sensualist. Just curious, what's the other toy you have that has that function?
  • Contributor: frisky069
    Thanks! And it's the dual igniter.
  • Contributor: CuriousFun
    Ohhhh, I've been eyeing that one for a while. I didn't realise (or had forgotten) it had that feature.
  • Contributor: frisky069
    Yeah, it's only on the remote though. Which is fine with me! It's a fun toy.
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