Feminine moisturizer - arousal lube by Cal Exotics - review by arewehavingfun?

Feminine Moisturizer from Cal Exotics won't leave you high and dry!!!!

This product is about middle of the road, price wise, but a little goes along way, making it very cost effective.
Great intimate lubrication, easy to dispense and store.
It is disappointing that neither I or my hubby felt any increase in our libidos.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


This product is designed for women who need some extra lubrication for "toy play" or "sexy action" with another person. I would also suggest it to men for anal action. Unlike most moisturizers on the market, it comes in a small spray bottle, which makes it both easy and convenient to use--particularly at those times when a booster spray is necessary!!! It is not scented, is a thin-ish moisturizer that does not get sticky/tacky after extended sessions. If, during use, a tad more is necessary, try keeping a glass of warm water near by and massage a small amount where you are using the moisturizer (most likely a vagina. This little trick will extend the life of "Feminine Moisturizer" without additional cost. A reminder: this is water soluable, which is why using water to keep on going, works, hence you will not be able to use this in the tub or shower. For those times, I recommend a moisturizer/lubricant with an oil or jelly type base. Remember, glycerin is an ingredient so those who are sensitive may want to try spraying it on your inside wrist and waiting at least 30 mniutes to check for a reaction before moving on to more intimate spots. If your water gets cold, or it doesn't help, one of the best features of a spray vs. a jelly type moisturizer it that you just grab and spritz--no fumbling to open a jar top and massage the product where needed. Just a quick spray and you're ready to continue. This moisturizer works great for anal and vaginal sex but if you are planning some oral action, I would apply after. There is a very light, odd flavor to this stuff--not enough to be annoying, but enough to make oral less fun.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Foreplay
    • Masturbation
    • Sex
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Good for anal
    • Vaginal and toys

Texture / Consistency / Thickness / Viscosity

This is a clear liquid spray product, so it needs to be thin, and it is. The pump sprays nicely--I am on my 3rd bottle and the sprayer has never failed me. It does not clog the hole, but since it is a water soluable liquid, it would be easy to fix. Just take the cap with the sprayer tube attached and rinse under warm, running water. You don't need soap and are probably better off without it. I usually keep a moist face cloth nearby when we are having sex so we can quickly clean up and spend more time together before getting out of bed (or where ever!!).
    • Smooth
    • Thin

Taste / Aroma

As stated above, I would not use this for oral. The taste is unappealing, although very light. I would add this after oral, if necessary. There are several flavored lubes that you can experiment with for oral. I can not make any suggestions since flavor is very subjective.
    • Light taste
    • Light smell


Cal Exotics, the manufacturer of "Feminine Moisturizer" claims that this product enhances both libido and the sexual experience. For me, this was not the case. I felt no tingling, warmth or coolness when using this moisturizer. This is a big disappointment because anything that makes sex feel better is on my list of "must haves". When a company makes claims that are disappointing, I have to automatically knock of a star. Again, it may work this way for others, just not me. It does satisfy as an intimate moisturizer. My husband commented that it improved his enjoyment because he was able to thrust easier and felt no resistence when entering me.
    • Absorbs into skin nicely
    • Feels natural
    • Long lasting


This product is packaged on a card and held in place with stiff, clear plastic. It gives a simple explanation of how to use the product, but offers no guidelines for how much to use, which I am guessing is because every person has variable levels of dryness. The ingredients are printed cleary on the card. This would be a good product to travel with (it is under the 3 ounce limit for airport security) so it can be carried on the aircraft. It does not leak as has been my experience with tubes of water based thicker liquids, but to be careful (and because it is a TSA requirement) I would pack it in a small zip-lock plastic bag. I did spray a small amount on some scraps of fabric and the next day I could not detect any staining. Hmmm...not sure how many times it would actually contact your clothing, but it is good to know that you needn't worry about soiling any favorite pieces of clothing.
    • Does not leak
    • Easy to use / dispense
    • Travel friendly

Special Features

Sadly, Cal Exotics did not deliver on their claim that this product gives your libido a jump start or improves your sexual experience. Usually when we get down our libidos are already in overdrive. It does deliver quick and effective sexual lubrication. Sigh...if only we could produce such a product as they claim...I can dream, can't I?

Personal comments

I do want to repeat that although this product did nothing to either of our libidos, or gave us an out of this world experience, it is a great little product that I would not hesitate to use and recommend to others.


As an intimate moisturizer/lubricant this is one of my favorites. I like the pump and that it does not leak, as has been my experience with thicker lube products in tubes. Also, unlike many thicker lubes, this did not become sticky/tacky after long periods of use. A small amount (1 or 2 sprays) and we are good to go. If you need more, it is quick and convenient to spritz and continue.
Follow-up commentary
We have used this and MANY other intimate moisturizers over the years. "Feminine Moisturizer" by Cal Exotics, is by far one of our favorite water based lubes. Our absolutely least favorite remains to be KY (yuck). FM is great and at a reasonable price.
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