Pleasure kiss - massager by Cal Exotics - review by Reenie

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Hand Numbing Vibration that Does the Job Fine

Pleasure Kiss is a clitoral and nipple/breast massager. It has a high, pleasurable vibration, and has seven different functions to enjoy. However, be aware that it might be hand numbing, and might not be suited for those that prefer pinpointed clitoral stimulation.
Intense vibrations, 7 different functions
Hand numbing, More vibration on labia than clitoris
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Pleasure Kiss

I was quite intrigued when I first saw this vibrator. The bullet has a sleeve that is different from bullets that I’ve encountered before. So I wasn’t really sure what to expect. However, Pleasure Kiss worked better than expected.

Pleasure Kiss, by Cal Exotics, is a nipple/clitoral massager.

I didn’t really enjoy it as a nipple/breast massager. After putting it on my nipple for more than 5 seconds, it started to pinch. It was more painful than pleasurable. So that didn’t really work out well for me.

However, it was a bit more successful as a clitoral massager. The vibrations are great. They are really intense, especially when setting it to high. But the base of the sleeve, where there are 16 little nodules, is so big that it’s difficult to actually bring the vibrating sensation to the clitoris itself. I feel that my outer lips are getting a more intense vibration than my clit. So then I decided to try it on the body of the sleeves which contains the cute little dots and hearts, but they brought absolutely no feelings at all. I guess my clit is pretty demanding.

After trying it in all kinds of position, I decided to remove the sleeve and just use the bullet; and holy moly. My fingers, my hand; numb after 10 seconds of holding it onto my clit. But wow that vibration. I wouldn’t recommend users to insert that bullet into the vagina. Not only is the material not really suited for it, but the vibration seems to be too intense to go in there (when set on the third function). But I’m not an expert. Try it at your own discretion.

This toy could also be used on the male anatomy as a little teaser. It’s also possible to use this during intercourse since it's small enough to not really interfere with all the humping. However, the wire might be a little problem in certain positions. I won’t recommend anyone to use this anally. It’s not really safe. The base of the sleeve is quite big, and shoving that anally wouldn’t be really comfortable. I also wouldn’t recommend inserting the bullet either as, again, the material is not really appropriate for that.

Just as a little warning, even with the sleeve on, your hand and fingers might still go a little bit numb from the high intensity of vibration.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • On a bed only
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris
    • Nipples

Material / Texture

The toy is smooth and is made of TPR silicone (the sleeve) which has a rubber material feel. TPR silicone has a rating of 6 on the Eden Fantasy Guide To Materials. It’s hypo-allergenic, latex free, and phthalates free. On the other hand, the bullet is made of plastic and not flexible at all. The sleeve has a little rubber smell which stays no matter how many times I wash it. But the smell isn’t really a nuisance.

The sleeve, which can be removed from the bullet, contains 16 little nodules at the bottom of it, and has dots and hearts as a design on the body. It’s also really flexible and could be bent without much problem. And since it’s made of TPR silicone, it’s a tiny little bit sticky.
The Pleasure Kiss Sleeve

I personally find that the textures don’t really add any new stimulation to the clitoris. Maybe a little bit on the nipples though. The only stimulation I found that’s pretty amusing are from the base of the sleeve. It would lightly (or strongly depending on the pressure you are applying) tickle the area you are using it on.
    • Flexible
    • Light odor
    • Sticky

Design / Shape / Size

Pleasure Kiss is available in two different colors. I got the purple one, but there’s the Magenta color available in case you’re not a fan or purple.

The bullet itself is made of hard plastic. It’s about 2 ¼ inches length and 3 ¼ wide.
The Pleasure Kiss Bullet + Controller

Here is a comparison with a 600mL water bottle:
Bullet Size

And the sleeve is about the same size. Just a tiny little bit bigger. It fits well in the hands, and is easily controllable.
Here is a comparison with a 600mL water bottle:
Sleeve size

The whole toy is also about the same size as the bullet goes inside the sleeve.
Here is a comparison with a 600mL water bottle with the sleeve:
Size of toy

Here is a comparison with a 600mL water bottle without the sleeve:
Toy Size
(Sorry about the rabbit, but it was to hide my reflection in the bullet)

As mentioned previously, the sleeve could be taken off. But it’s stuck really tight on the little bullet. You really have to give the base of the sleeve (where the diameter is small) a little push at the same time as tugging the bullet out. Slowly, but surely, you will be able to separate the bullet and the sleeve.

The weight of the toy is 0.3 lb, which is quite light. And the wire is about 31”. The wire cannot be unplugged. It attaches the bullet and the controller together, which could hinder its function when used in certain positions during intercourse with a partner.
Wire Length

And to store the wire, a little plastic wire protector comes with the toy.
Wire protector

I’m not very good at finding comparison for objects, but I’ll say that the form of it looks like the base of some trophy cups.

As for traveling with this little toy, just remember to remove the batteries, and you’re good to go. The toy is quite small and could easily fit in a purse. However, I wouldn’t recommend leaving this toy on the kitchen counter as the design is not really discreet. It could easily be recognized as a little bullet.
    • Beginner

Functions / Performance / Controls

Pleasure Kiss requires three AA batteries to function. There’s a little cap at the back of the controller where you have to pull and then flip towards the top.
Battery opening

This is also the only size available for this toy.

It has seven different functions with the first three being just normal vibrations in low, medium, and high. The fourth one is a combination of two short medium vibrations and a long high vibration, the fifth one is a repetition of short medium vibration, the sixth one is a combination of one short low vibration and one short medium vibration, and the last one is an escalating vibration from the low to high setting. Also, the low power I wouldn’t call quiet, but it's not as loud as the medium and high power. Starting from medium power, the toy starts to be loud, but the sound wouldn’t travel pass a closed door. And if you planned to use this little toy discretely when other people are in the room, make sure to put very loud music.

Here’s a little comparison of vibrations. Not sure if it could be seen clearly.

This is the setting in low with/without the sleeve:
Sleeve Low Setting
Bullet Low Setting

This is the setting in medium with/without the sleeve:
Sleeve Medium Setting
Bullet Medium Setting

As you can see, the water wave are starting to be less visible because the vibration is getting more intense.

This is the setting in high with/without the sleeve:
Sleeve High Setting
Bullet High Setting

And by here, you can hardly see the water wave. For the bullet however, the vibration was so intense that the water was going crazy and flew all over my desk.

As for the controls, they are really convenient. You have one button for on and the functions, and the other button to turn off. So no matter in which setting you are in, you may turn it off conveniently. When you turn off, your setting will go back to the initial low setting. Personally, I didn’t use much of the four variation settings. I mainly focused on the low, medium and high. The four others were mainly used during teasing time or arousing my partner.

I would say that I got the most of the vibration towards the cup of the sleeve, and that’s where I was able to achieve orgasm. Apart from that, I didn’t get much from the body of the toy. The bullet is also great, but it’s a little bit harder to control as the vibrations are pretty intense.

Now, even though I’m saying that the vibrations are intense, they would be intense for beginner users. The people that are used to high vibrations such as the Magic Wand, or Lelo Smartwand, will definitely not find this vibration very intense.

After a certain amount of time (I would say about 10-15 minutes) of use, the bullet will get a little warm. If the sleeve is on, the heat of the bullet will travel to the sleeve. It's a really mild heat, so nothing to really worry about.
    • Easy to use
    • Lots of variety in function
    • Multiple settings

Care and Maintenance

This toy is not waterproof due to the controller, but the sleeve is waterproof and can be taken off. I’m not sure if the bullet itself is waterproof, but I emerged it under the water, and nothing happened. So I guess as long as the controller doesn’t go under the water, everything’s good. But then again, I can’t be 100% sure.

To clean the sleeve, running it under warm water and washing it with antibacterial soap or toy cleaner would be required (before and after every use). I don’t find it especially hard as there’s not much that get stuck on it (because I didn't use lube), but it might get tricky by the base of the sleeve where there are 16 nodules. As for the bullet itself, I just run it in warm water and also used antibacterial soap. I haven’t seen any changes in my bullet, but I’m not 100% sure it’s safe as it’s clearly stated “not waterproof” (not on the bullet, but on the packaging). Just don’t run the controller in the water I guess.

Additionally, since this toy is made of TPR silicone, it’s porous, so I won’t recommend anyone sharing this with a partner, unless a condom is used to prevent the spread of bacteria or other infectious agents.

I didn’t personally use any lube with this toy, but it is highly recommended that you use water-based lube with this toy as it’s made of TPR silicone. Other types of lube might destroy the toy.

For storing, I would simply store it in a transparent plastic bag (in case the material reacts poorly with a similar material) and stick it in one of my drawers. And again, just remember to remove the batteries before you store it. The buttons are very sensitive. A slight little pressure might set the toy to go on.
Toy Storage
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The package is not very discreet. There is a very sexy lady at the cover of the packaging as well as a big picture of the toy. So it’s not very hard to guess what is inside that little package.
Side One
Side Two

I also noticed that it’s providing misleading information, which, by the way, is not really a big deal. But it still got me confused for the first couple of seconds. As the box describes, there are two buttons. One is for on/off, and the second one is for the functions. However, there’s only one for on and functions and the other one is simply for off. I know, I know. It’s such a small mistake. But it still got me confused in the beginning. Might as well provide this information to people that might be as slow as me.
    • Not discreet
    • Recyclable
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • PropertyOfPotter
    Thanks for the review! Your photos are fantastic and super helpful!
  • gwenevieve
    thanks for the super useful review ;3
  • Kitka
    Great first review! Thanks for sharing it with us
  • charmedtomeetyou
    Thanks so much for the great review!
  • ChubbyNerd
    Thanks for all the photos!
  • Cindi025
    Thanks for the great review!
  • Reenie
    Wow! Thanks for all the encouragement and comments!
  • js250
    What a wonderful and detailed review--thank you very much! I was curious about this toy.
  • unicorn64
    thanks for the review and details that might not be readily available.
  • sunflower
    Thank you! The photos were great. I was looking at this because the sleeve looks interesting, but I'll probably pass.
  • edeneve
    excellent for a first review! something many new reviewers can learn from too.
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