Lady finger softee - clitoral stimulator by Doc Johnson - review by Shesasexybrat

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Handle with extreme care... I break.

When you first open the vibe it looks and feels great, however the remote seems to be made very cheaply. When even so much as opening it to put in the batteries a metal piece falls out. When batteries are placed inside the vibe can randomly turn on and off no matter what setting you have it on. Personally the vibrations didn't do much for myself even as strong as the bullet was, it seemed as though they were focused in the tip rather than the cup that the toy was designed for.
Strong vibe, Very soft on skin.
Easily falls apart, Breakable, Turns on and off no matter what setting.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Really I think that it would be best if paired with another toy or your partner as it doesn't do enough for me with stimulation to the clitoris. While it is desirable, it lacks a finish. I found that the best vibration is delivered when you merely surpass the intended cup and use the tip of the bullet to stimulate your tender nerves. However I tend to take a lot of stimulation to achieve my orgasm, so this might work better for women who have a super responsive clitoris. I did end up trying this with another toy, which ended up achieving an orgasm quite nicely. Also tried with a partner, in that case I found that I really liked this toy. I got to my point faster than normal and achieved an orgasm multiple times then.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Sensory play
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Out of water envirnments
    • Roommate living if seperate rooms
  • Features
    [ ? ]
    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris

Material / Texture

The Lady finger softee bullet is made of phthalates and latex free, hypo-allergenic, food-grade material TPR which is great for sensitive skin. I absolutely love it though, I just can't stop squeezing it. It is very soft and smooth which is great for the clitoris, I find with normal clitoris function toys that they tend to make me a little sore. The remote itself is made of a hard plastic that is see through which adds a little cool effect to it if you like to see the make of items.

The TPR material has a light odor but not a bad one. While it doesn't cause me to not want to have it close to my face, it doesn't have me wanting to taste it either. The taste of the bullet a little on the bitter side but not so much that you gag. I personally wont be licking it though. I also found a few small blemishes in my TPR and while they were not issue for the first few uses I am not sure about them long term. Will be sure to put that in my follow up.

I think that this texture is great for all users.
    • Light odor
    • Porous
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

I liked the design, I just wish that it was more practical for myself. I found that the best vibrations for its intended purpose were at the tip of the bullet rather than in the cup meant to surround your clitoris. The size is great for anyone who wants to take the toy elsewhere discreetly and since the bullet part actually doesn't appear to be a bullet or look like any normal sexual toy it could likely be passed off as something else, adding to discreetness.

I did like however that this is the only bullet that actually does try to cater to the sensitivity of the clitoris and cups it snugly without causing it to become insensitive.

The remote itself is quite small and easily held and with its dial on the side I find it very easy to use the control while distracted (which is quite often).
    • Discreet look/design
    • Partner play

Functions / Performance / Controls

Honestly I am highly disappointed with this product. At first when I opened it I was pleased. However as soon as I opened the compartment to put in the batteries one side of the metal that the battery ends touch fell out. If I had not been paying attention it would have been lost and the entire toy wouldn't have worked. So I fix my toy's battery area and turn it on, I receive very strong vibrations with a sound to match. Not an issue for myself, however for those that have roommates... not the greatest. And when applied to skin it seems to get more noisy. So I played with the vibrator for a bit just getting used to its settings and found that it randomly turns itself off no matter what setting you are on. When turned off it can turn back on if anything so much as jolts it in the slightest. The toy is not waterproof and when washed you would need to avoid the adapting hole or the functions could fail.
    • Multiple settings
    • Powerful
    • Not very discreet

Care and Maintenance

This toy takes extreme care due to its lack of being waterproof as well as its battery cases issue with falling apart when opened. When you wash the bullet you want to make sure that you detach the cord from the battery case and avoid the area where the cord comes out as it is not waterproof. You may use warm water and toy cleaner or mild soap to cleanse it. Never boil. As with all TPR toys you will want to use a condom if the toy is to be shared as it is porous. I personally have started using baggies to separate my jelly and TPR toys as they have a tendency to melt each other. Always store toys with this type of material in a dry, cooler area. When it comes to lubricants you can use both silicone and water based.
    • Easy to store


The Lady finger softee comes in a plastic blue box which in my opinion is rather pretty. I think it would be great for giving as a gift, wrapped or unwrapped, depending on the occasion of course. Inside you find your TPR vibrating egg and attached cord with remote and a leaflet explaining how to insert batteries. Instructions tell you that the toy will need two AA's and then you can attach the bullet.
    • Minimal
Follow-up commentary
After some time of adjusting I have developed a way to use the softee. Finding the perfect toy to use this with took a bit of time but I now find that when added to a g-spot stimulator and when angled correctly that this vibrator can help increase pleasure. Maybe I was a little harsh on it when I found that for it's power that it didn't deliver well. I have changed my mind slightly because when you only apply the very tip and hold the wire it tends to bounce and change the way it vibrates your clit. Still not my favorite toy in my collection but I have found use for it which is more than I could say when I first received it.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • Shonny2000
    Great review.
  • Poohbear
    Good review.
  • Heartthrob
    I have the same toy. While I agree that the control pack is flimsy I am guessing that you received a defective one because my toy is not as loud, does not fall apart, and does not turn itself on and off at random. Great review!
  • Sammi
    Sorry this was such a disappointment.

    Good review!
  • Samanti
    awesome review, I know not to get this one
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