Vibrating open-design masturbator

Great first experience

This toy is beginner-friendly and non-intimidating. I have loved using this on my husband the few times I have, and he enjoys it also. It's easy to clean and store. It's also travel-friendly, and it's not bulky.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Utopia is a stroker that you need to use a hand with. It does fit very comfortably in one hand, as a female with small hands, I felt like I could grip this very well. My husband's hands are larger than mine, and he had no issues either, it fit just as comfortable in his hand. This toy would stimulate the whole shaft with its vibrations, ribbed inside, and the nice warming features. I would suggest using a good amount of lube, so everything glides nice and smooth. My husband and I like using this toy together, so it's fun for couples play or solo. I think this would work for just about anyone as the wings are flexible.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
  • Features
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    What kind of features does this product offer?
    • Travel friendly

Material / Texture

The material on this is silicone for the inside and the wings, the backside is plastic. Silicone is rated a 10/10 on the safety scale, and the plastic is rated an 8/10 on the safety scale. We didn't notice any weird smells to this, and the texture felt extremely nice and smooth. It is a bit firm, and you'll want to use a water-based lubricant when using this.
    • Smooth
    • Textured interior

Shape / Design / Size / Fit

When I first pulled out the Utopia, I loved the way it felt. It had the super-smooth silicone feel. The black part was a bit hard but was easy to grip and has grooves on the back. I had noticed the wings were a bit flexible with squeezing and the inside was ribbed also.

I knew my husband would be home within an hour, so I put this quickly on the charger so he could check it out once he got home. It took only 20 minutes to charge, so I'm assuming it was pre-charged. He got home soon after it was charged and he had said it looked interesting and he also liked the smooth feel of the silicone. We planned on using this toy as a couples toy to start with, so we were both excited about using it.

I have a dildo with a circumference of 4", and a diameter of 1 1/4" and the insertable length is 5 1/4" and I would say the whole dildo did not fit in it, it stopped at the head of the toy. The wings on this definitely gripped it as when I closed it tightly I could not pull the dildo out so I would say it would still work for those who have a smaller circumference of 4". It would also do good with a much larger circumference. I don't really think length matters with this. This size worked great for us, and I would say it would work great for just about any man.

This toy has a length and height of 5 1/2" and weighs 5oz. This toy would be super easy to hide and would be travel-friendly. It's also rechargeable which is nice.

Front of the toy


Charging port
    • Will fit most people

Functions / Performance / Controls

This toy has two buttons you can press, the middle piece that can be mistaken as a button is actually where it lights up to show the buttons are on. It's also the area that blinks when it's charging. To turn on or off the buttons, you hold it in for about 3 seconds. The one on the left is the heating function, and it'll take a minute to heat up. It'll heat up to 108°. The one on the right is the vibrations. There are 10 different vibration settings. 3 of those are continuous vibrations with different intensities. The other 7 are pulsating and rollercoaster. This toy is also waterproof, but we have not used it in the shower. We have only used the waterproof function to clean the toy.

The two buttons ( black & white due to not being able to see the symbols on the buttons in original photo from the glare of the light)

Being squeezed

Care and Maintenance

This toy can easily be cleaned with soap and water as it is waterproof. You can also use toy cleaner with it. Since this toy came with a really nice box we have kept it stored in that. Also, since this toy is silicone, only use water-based lubricant with it.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


This had arrived in the mail in a discreet brown box. Once I opened it, this was in there in a black box with a little bit of information on the covering. I had pulled the cover off and opened the box (the top just pulled right off) Utopia was sitting in place in there with some black foam around it. Under the foam in the box was the white usb charger also. There also were no instructions in the box but the outer covering had a little information on it and the rest was self-explanatory.

Front of box

Back of box

Inside of the box ( I kept it for storage )

    • Good for storage


The first time we used this together was an extremely nice experience. He's never used male toys, and I've never used them on a male before. So we were both new to the idea and figured it out together. We realized we needed 2 squirts of lube in the toy and 1 squirt of lube on his penis to make it glide nice and he absolutely loved the texture on the inside and the warming. It also made it nice with the wings and choosing how tight to squeeze. His favorite vibration was the lowest continuous vibration or the medium. The strongest vibration was a bit too much for him. We kind of used this more as a foreplay toy, but he could easily get off using this. So we both have enjoyed using this, and I feel like it makes things fun for foreplay.
Follow-up commentary
My husband and I still use this from time to time. It's a fun addition for us for foreplay. I still love how easy it is to hold onto and how easy it is to clean.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.

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  • Contributor: Xtrahot
    What kind of lube do you recommend?
  • Contributor: frisky069
    Any water-based lubricant you like best. My husband and I used Please gel lubricant, which you can purchase here on eden and we also like one called aqua ( just haven't used that one for this toy ) which is also sold here too.
  • Contributor: Leil@
    I'm so glad to know that you had a positive experience with the Utopia! I hope it sparked his interest to other male toys!
  • Contributor: frisky069
    I'm glad he liked it and I'm pretty sure it did!
  • Contributor: aznbbgirl
    I'm so inspired by you and your husband's first experience with male sex toys. I'm surprising my BF with the Utopia as his first sex toy! Can't wait to try it out with him!
  • Contributor: frisky069
    I hope you two enjoy it!
  • Contributor: Americano44
    This is a good device.
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