Neither Over nor Under

I was hoping to get this cock ring to see if playing with such a toy would be enjoyable, and if it were the right path for more advanced play. It looked stretchy, seemed to be decent in theory, so I committed. Figured that it could be used on dildos, too.

At first glance, the Connection Over & Under seems fantastic. Seamless silicone, stretchy, and smoother than a baby's behind. It was tasteless, had a very slight silicone scent (but not overbearing). The part meant to stimulate the perineum is firm. Its appearance is overall non-threatening.

Design did not turn out to be a positive thing. It was impossible to put on; it was not nearly stretchy enough to get it over the balls. Stretching the toy any further risks either breaking it or injury. After a good 10 minutes of attempts, I dubbed the attempt a failure. I don't think this will fit most men. I tried to get it on multiple dildos, but it just doesn't work out. Other cock silicone rings are far more stretchy and easy to put on, take off. This one, unfortunately, is not something I'll be able to use. I'm not sure if this would "fit most men". It would be wise to measure yourself against it before committing.

I'm not too pleased with the vibration quality of Connection Over & Under, unfortunately. It's very, very buzzy. The I thought the app would allow me to draw over the flat portion of the toy where my finger touched, but it's just an overall buzz from the general motor. Additionally, there's about 1-2s of delay between me doing something to the app and it actually responding. These facts are just from holding the toy in my hand, as it was impossible to put on.

The toy's made of stretchy silicone. It's easy to clean with soap and water.


While charging, the toy blinks two lights. Charging takes about 1.5hr.

Packaging is great. Came in a firm box, along with several other toys. Inside the box we get a hefty instruction booklet and one of the best storage pouches I've ever seen. I had to blur out the QR/number because that would allow you to connect to me. Be careful not to lose it!

In theory and on paper, the toy seems to be great. But in practice, it's impossible to use. If the vibrations were rumbly rather than buzzy, perhaps I'd give it 3 stars, but it's just an overall disappointment. The only reason it has 2 stars is because it was impossible to actually experience it the way it should be - worn - and I'm giving it benefit of the doubt that perhaps it'd feel at least somewhat decent to the wearer if that were the case.