I enjoyed using the Better Sex Essentials Sensual Body Oil for massage but I did not find it shown in any special way compared to most of the oils out there. I cannot say the pheromones did anything for us. I did enjoy the clean feel of it and how it reduced friction from prolonged massaging. If you are looking for bells and whistle this will not be a good choice but if you want a plain yet very effective massage oil it is a wonderful choice.