Bendi satisfier - sex toy by Cal Exotics - review by markeagleone

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A Great Toy That Hits The Spot!

I have to say I'm so glad I asked for this one to review. Thank you Eden! The Bendi Satisfier should have its place in everyones toy collection. It is a very well made product and one that really delivers. I rate this for advanced users, but even the one's just starting out will work up to it. For the price of $34.49, it's a steal.
Extremely powerful vibrations
Easy to control and use
Would have been better if it had a massaging, rotating shaft
Seems to use batteries a bit faster
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


This is a toy that I asked to review and Eden generously accepted. Yes, it is for my wife, as my goal in life is to make sure she experiences all the pleasure I can give. So, with that being said, on to the review:

The Bendi Satisfier is a product from Cal Exotics. It has ten different functions and two vibrators. The controls are push buttons, located on the base.

The Bendi comes in the color lavender. The shaft is in the design of a penis, with texturing on the shaft below the head. The clitoral stimulator is in the shape of a hummingbird.

The size of the head and the shaft and the power of the vibrations, put this toy in the more experienced user category, at least in my eyes. That doesn't totally rule out the use by beginners. The toy is simple to use.

This vibrator can stimulate the clitoris, labia and the G-Spot. It can also serve to stimulate almost every region that a vibrator can hit. Its unique feature is that the shaft bends, and stays bent. With a bit of trial and error use, you can find and massage those parts of you that bring you to an earth-shattering orgasm.

This particular toy can be used solo, or with a partner. If being used with a partner, be prepared to communicate to get the right position needed. It is also able to be used in water. It does give this one a great of uses.

This particular product comes from a whole line of Bendi products from Cal Exotics. The closest one to this one would be the Bendi Tease.
  • Who / How / What
    [ ? ]
    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Body / part areas
    [ ? ]
    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris
    • G-spot
    • Nipples

Material / Texture

The Bendi Stimulator is made from a jelly material. Its composition is poly vinyl chloride. It has a hard rubber feel to it and also has a sight rubber smell. It is amazingly light for its size.

It has a hard plastic handle(battery case and cover). It also has two rubber covered switches located in the cover.

The tip is in the shape of a penis. Below that, on the shaft, there are ridges that spiral down to the base. The tops of the spirals have small indents, which offer slight resistance when being used. The hummingbird, although in much need of a diet, has feathery ridges from head to toe. Its wings are also outstretched to provide stimulation to the labia, as its beak goes right for the clitoris.

The material is not sticky at all. It has more of a rubber eraser feel to it. The shaft on the toy is also flexible. It can be bent and hold that bend, to hit specific areas inside you.
    • Flexible
    • Light odor

Design / Shape / Size

The Bendi shaft, as I have stated before, is in the shape of a penis. The clitoral stimulator is in the shape of a fat hummingbird. Now to the nitty gritty:

The over all length of the toy is 9 inches. The base is 1 3/4 inches long. The insertable length is 5 1/2 inches(tip to hummingbird connection.) long. The head of the toy is 1 5/8 inches long, and this is the only smooth part of the toy, besides the handle.

The shaft of the toy can be flexed and hold its position to about 25 degrees off center in any direction. The flex point is about 4 inches from the head. The diameter of the head and top of the shaft is 1 5/8 inches tapering to 1 3/8 inches near the bottom of the shaft.

The hummingbird sits 5 1/2 inches from the tip. It sits at a 45 degree angle to the shaft and its beak is parallel to the shaft. The entire length of the bird is about 3 1/4 inches long. Its wings are facing inward in a v-shaped pattern. The wings are 1 5/8 inches tip to tip. The beak is 7/8 inches long. The bird can also sit near a 90 degree angle to the shaft, with some amount of force.

Apart from the design of the bird and the eleven swirled lines on the shaft, there is a design molded into the shaft, at the bird's attachment point. It is leaves with fruit of some sort attached to the branches. Although this design is present, it serves no useful purpose other than aesthetics.

This toy, being the length and size it is, would not be well suited for travel in a plane. A car trip in a suitcase would work just fine.

Again, due to its size and power, I would put this in the advanced users corner.
    • Whimsical / artistic

Functions / Performance / Controls

The Bendi Satisfier has two different vibrator motors. One is located in the over-stuffed hummingbird and the other, in the shaft, directly below the head.

There are two control buttons. One covers the on/off and the other controls the ten functions. This particular toy remembers the last function used. It remembers even if the battery case is opened. The controls may be harder for someone with longer finger-nails to operate. The buttons are slightly recessed and the nails might push against the plastic housing.

It has ten functions. They are, as close as I can describe-

1-High vibration
2-Medium vibration
3-Low vibration
4-Low to High pulse escalating
5-Low pulse
6-High pulse
7-Medium pulse
8-Low to Medium pulse escalating
9-Medium to high pulse escalating
10-None to Low pulse escalating

There is a noise associated with certain settings. Audibly, I liken it to a bird chirping.The chirps, themselves, are the loudest noise the toy makes, aside from the normal vibrator noise.The variations in types of vibrations are great. There are so many, along with the different types of songs(chirps) the hummingbird sings. If you enjoy the relaxing song the birds sing in a park, this toy puts you there. Eventually, the relaxation turns to the heat of the moment.

This toy may be one you may opt for rechargable batteries. It does seem to drain them faster than the other toys we have used to date, but the sensations this puts out is worth the price.

This toy is also waterproof. We have tested it in the shower and the tub, without any signs of water leakage. That being said, this one probably won't get much of that usage. The size and design of this toy is better suiting us in the bed. The handle is small and does become slippery quite easily, even though you can grab onto a small portion of the jelly base.
    • Easy to use
    • Multiple settings
    • Not very discreet

Care and Maintenance

Care and maintenance is quite simple. This material cannot be boiled. If you share, use a condom. I recommend not to share.

This toy can be cleaned with simple soap and warm water. You can use a toy cleaner, but I only recommend that if it's absolutely necessary, or if you have shared.

This toy is compatible with water and silicone based lubes. My wife and I only use water based , such as climax-bursts-cooling.

This toy uses three AAA batteries. I recommend having a spare set on hand so things won't be interrupted. Also, make sure the battery case is against the stops, if you plan on getting this one wet.

Storage for this one is somewhat more involved than previous toys I have reviewed. This material is not extremely attractive to dust and lint. It is required that it be store in a dark, cool place. We store ours in the original packaging and in our dresser. I, personally, would not store where there would be contact with other toys.

Always remember, remove the batteries, if you plan to store for any length of time.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The packaging for this toy is quite simple. It is a plastic case that fits into a cardboard cover. The plastic is molded to fit the toy and also has a hole in the top for hanging. It is hinged at the bottom and seals quite nicely.It does come with directions, in different languages, for battery installation and troubleshooting.

The box has a cutout that allows the toy to be seen through the clear plastic. It states that it has ten functions and a dual motor. It states it is waterproof and gives a online registration address. It also states that the packaging is made in China and the Bendi, itself, is made in Canada.

The package is in no way discreet. The product itself is in plain view. The box is not really needed to store the toy. The plastic is all that is needed for storage.
    • Discreet looking packaging
    • Minimal
    • Not discreet

Personal comments

When this toy arrived, I was excited to give it a try. Probably more-so, then my wife. I made sure it was present for our next love-making session. I used climax bursts- cooling for lube. It was just amazing watching what this toy did to her.

The first time we used it, there wasn't much experimental time involved. The little hummingbird went to town and the actual use of the bendable shaft didn't get a try. That was remedied on our second time out. Yes, with a bit of a bend and a slight angle, it managed to hit the spot.

This toy, by far, is one of the most favorites, so far. I don't see very much down time for this particular one.

Anyway, now my better half's part:


Leave it to my husband to take something as innocent as a hummingbird and make me look at them in a whole new light. The Bendi, to me, upon first impressions has a intimidation factor that takes time to get over. Overall, appearance it seems very large and while it is made of jelly, there is a section just below the head of the penis that is rather hard. The jelly in this section does not "give" as much as further on down the shaft. The head of the penis is soft but very firm. The hummingbird attached to the shaft is similar in design. The body of the hummingbird is hard and the wings and "beak" are softer but very firm. I am positive that the areas that are hardest are due to the motor placement within the toy.

Personally, I choose to cycle through all the setting before ever using a toy, just to give me an idea what I am in for. The Bendi is chock full of strong vibrations right from the start. This is another toy that takes flight on the highest vibration setting and works backwards to a lower, yet strong, vibration. It then cycles through the setting of pulsating and escalating in the same manner. It did not take long for the Bendi to make my fingers begin feeling numb, a mere few minutes in fact.

I was very intimidated by this toy by the time night fell, knowing my husband had probably stashed it near by to use later after we were in bed. We did apply lube to this toy to make insertion a bit easier but because of the firmness of the head of the penis, I am not sure it is mandatory.

Though the Bendi has two seperate motors, it does not have two different controls. It is an all or nothing deal. The vibrations of the Bendi may be to intense for some users and the hummingbird could be overstimulating to women that have more sensitive clitoris's. I must say that the majority of our experience was using the lower vibration setting, one we got to it. The vibration is very strong on this setting but it was the most enjoyable to me (at least for now).

The thing I love most about this toy, is that it truly can bend. So we don't have a clitorial stimulator missing its mark to be able to have g-spot stimulation and vice versa. I love that with a simple bend I get both and can quickly achieve orgasms, which is something my husband strives for each time.

The ridges that run the length of part of the shaft added an extra sensation. I enjoyed that the ridges did not seem to drag at any point of our play. This could be because of the lube we used. The added designs of the "ivy leaves" and cherries did not seem to add any extra sensations that I could tell. And the hummingbird also did not have any additional sensations felt with its adornment of feathers and small crevices.

The hummingbird could easily be a very well designed clitorial stimulator, but for more sensitive women it could be a less desirable function. As I have stated the vibrations are strong. I would recommend this for the more advanced users that are familiar with stronger vibrations. For beginners, it may be too much and may not result in the best experience.

The noise that my husband refers to, is different sounding to me. While he describes it as a "chirp" I say it is more caused by motor vibration. However, if the batteries are going low, there was a definite "bird-like" chirping that could be heard on most of the settings. It only took fresh batteries to correct that so now I know if the "hummingbird is a chirping-the batteries needs a changin".

As we are still novices when it comes to rabbit vibrators, I think this toy will become a good addition to our toy collection. The Bendi is a toy that I need to work with to benefit from the full experience this toy has to offer. I like that even though it has the strong vibrations it never became so uncomfortable that we had to stop the toy all together. It is a toy experience in progress for us to use as a couple. By the time a follow-up is due, I am sure to have mastered this toy to its fullest and even be able to pick out a few of my favorite settings.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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    Great review!
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