Silicone remote control butterfly - sex toy by EdenFantasys - review by Kipperanne

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Butterfly Fly Away

The Venus Butterfly Remote Control Strap on is best used with out the strap on and is just good for the bullet. It's hard to keep on, not made for all sizes, and hardly hits the spot.
Bullet is removable.
Not a one size fits all.
Hard to stay in place.
Hard to put on.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Remote controlled clitoral stimulation can be a great new way to spice things up during play time. Used as a strap on or just a regular bullet have your partner control the speed and function of the vibrations with a click of a button. This toy can be used during sex, around the house, or maybe get into a little dom/sub play. I suggest wearing panties if you are going to use around the house so it can stay in place.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris

Material / Texture

The major material components of this toy are made from silicone, that including the straps and the butterfly that makes contact with your clitoris and holds the bullet. The bullet and remote are made of plastic.
    • No odor
    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

First looking at this toy, I was a little confused, but easily redirected on how to use it once I played around with it. There are 3 straps one big strap that goes over your head (make sure the butterfly is facing up toward you) and stays across your bum while the other 2 straps slip onto your legs. A typical design for strap on's so if you are not familiar with them you may have a hard time figuring it out at first. The straps then have a plastic piece that holds the strap in place to the size you want it (I compare it to like swimming goggles). This is not a ONE SIZE FITS ALL kinda toy. I noticed if you have big thighs, breasts, or bum you may have issues with this toy. Things can get tight or don't fit making it hard for the butterfly to be placed where it should.
Once you know how to put it on I had a hard time finding a place to put the toy so I could feel something. Looking at the butterfly as is it seems small, but once its between your legs its really big, overwhelming almost. It's uncomfortable to walk around in and it didn't really hit my spot.
I felt very uncomfortable with the toy on. I found that taking the bullet out of the butterfly and using just that was a lot more rewarding for me. I am a size 16/14 in pants and I found this toy to be very tight. I am big breasted as well so even getting the toy on was a struggle.
    • Partner play
    • Whimsical / artistic

Functions / Performance / Controls

When it comes down to performance for me it was a negative. The vibrations are felt best on the butterflies nose which should be toughing your clitoris, however I couldn't get it on the right spot. I had a hard time keeping the toy in place. I think it is best used during intercourse, but then again I had a hard time to even feel it during sex. It was either the butterfly was moving to much or I couldn't even get the butterfly to reach where I wanted it.
The controller was very easy to use. The remote has 2 buttons an on/off button and then a vibration button which goes through the 7 patterns. Surprisingly this toy was not to noisy whether the bullet was in the butterfly or out. Since there are no directions or literature with this toy I am not sure if it is waterproof, but since it is made out of silicone the shower was fine to use but do not submerge it.
    • Hard to figure out
    • Multiple settings
    • Not very discreet

Care and Maintenance

All components of this toy can be cleaned with your favorite toy cleaner or soap and water. I recommend not submerging the bullet itself in water. The butterfly does have a lot of nooks and crannies so if things got a little "wet" make sure all parts are cleaned thoroughly.
Lubes should not be needed for this toy, but if you have a particular preference for any reason silicone is best with water-based lubes.
    • Easy to clean


I usually don't write about the packaging I just post pictures, but I was really upset of how this was packaged. All the parts came in a clear sealed plastic bag. No manufactures information or directions. All the batteries were bagged separately in small baggies. I just wish it came with some literature or ANY information.

    • Minimal
    • Not discreet
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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  • unfulfilled
    Sorry this one was a flop.
  • OH&W, Lovebears
    I got OW one of these many yrs ago. Different brand but same. Hummingbird or something like that. Her experience was same as yours. Fortunately there are other great items available now days. Great detailed review though.
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