Couture collection Discretion - discreet massager by Cal Exotics - review by onehotmomma

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Discretion has plenty to offer!

Discretion is a flexible vibe that fits all body types. The strong multi function bullet can be used in the sleeve or by itself and in or out of the water. It has the perfect curved shape that hits all the right spots, and is velvety smooth to the touch. The simple but classy packaging would make this great for a gift!
Strong multifunction vibe, flexible, for everyone.
No separate on/off switch, no storage pouch.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


Discretion in the Couture Collection by California Exotics is a great clitoral stimulator. The length, and width of this toy makes it great for everyone. With one end tapered and slightly curved it resembles a petal off of an Easter lily. The slogan on the box says "Slips inside your panty" Which is very true, but it's a little bit loud to be called discreet. I don't know if they intended it to be discreet because of the noise, and it slips right in your panty, or because if you leave this laying on the bedside table nobody would think it's a sex toy. It's very classy looking, and offers a variety of functions. The curve of this toy is amazing. It fits perfectly against me, and feels like it was made for my body.

The bullet alone has a very strong vibe to it. However the sleeve is so thick that it seems to dull the vibe. The bullet fits into the sleeve at the widest/thickest part of the vibe. With that part directly on my clit, the smaller bent tip at the other end fits inside me barely, just enough to tease/tickle me. The vibe doesn't stay put in my panties that way hands free. If I have the thicker/wider part facing the other way and the bent tip right on my clit I can use it hands free for foreplay which was amazing. Unfortunately I can not get off that way because the vibrations at the tip of the sleeve are not strong enough.

I believe everyone will love this toy. It's absolutely great for hands-free foreplay, and the size is wonderful. You can use the bullet alone without the sleeve, and it's waterproof!
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
  • Where
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    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • Clitoris

Material / Texture

The silicone sleeve is extremely soft and velvety feeling. It has no odor whatsoever, and does not pull at all on the skin. There is no seam so you don't need to fret over pushing it to hard against your body. It is very flexible and conforms to your body easily.

The bullet itself is larger and made from ABS plastic. It's a hard plastic, but it feels slicker and softer to the touch than others. The on/off button on the bullet is silicone coated, which makes it easier to handle if you are using lube and the bullet alone.
    • Flexible
    • No odor
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

This is one of my FAVORITE designs by far. It's so flexible at the bent tip that it is sure to please everyone. It is 5 1/2" long. Where he bullet goes into the sleeve (the widest part) the tip of the sleeve is slightly bent upwards, there is a slight bulge and it is 1 1/2" thick. The sleeve tapers down and goes into a rounded tip which is bent upwards and completely flexible. The shape is of an Easter lily petal, or a curled leaf (that was the bf's analogy). With Fitted panties this toy easily stayed in place as we were fooling around during foreplay, as long as the rounded tip was positioned at my clit. When I tried it in my panties the other way, it was too wide to be "held" by me and slid around when I was moving around a bit. If I just laid in bed it was great and didn't shift around at all!

This toy is extremely discreet looking. It's elegant and has class. You could easily take it traveling with you and nobody would realize what it was, but you would need to bring your own traveling pack since it didn't come with any carrying case.

The smooth texture on this toy is not intimidating for new users, and the size isn't too big nor too small. This toy has something to offer everyone!
    • Beginner
    • Discreet look/design
    • Partner play

Functions / Performance / Controls

There is only one button on the bullet, and it starts on the first function, each click thereafter goes to another function, and then turns the vibe off. The Button is slanted on the tip of the bullet, and has a silicone covering. The button is the size of a marble so even larger fingers won't have trouble turning it on and off. The bullet itself is the size of a tube of lipstick (an old Revlon one to be exact- I can't find my ruler anywhere). The 7 functions of this vibe are all very strong, I'm going to list them it's easier for me.

1- The "low" steady vibe, this is stronger than other bullet vibes I've had, I wouldn't necessarily consider it low.
2- Medium Steady Vibe
3- Strongest steady vibe setting.
4- Escalating vibe
5- Steady strong pulsating vibe
6- Quick and short pulsating vibe, but probably the low or medium vibe
7- Escalating pulsating vibe. Each pulse is longer and stronger than the last, it goes through the low, medium, and high vibes.

The vibes are located the entire length of the bullet. Inside of the sleeve the bullet loses a little bit of it's strength but not enough to effect the quality of the toy. The sound inside of the sleeve is a dull humming noise. The bullet on it's own is a high pitched hum.

Discretion requires 1 N sized battery that comes with the toy. I had problems getting the vibe out of the silicone sleeve, it took a little bit of time, especially when lube was involved. The battery cap is difficult to put on. You need to line up these 2 little plastic pieces to push it down, then screw it on. It's hard to see since the bullet is all white, and its difficult maneuvering around the silicone sleeve when the cap is so small.

I have only used this toy in the water once so far and it was wonderful. It was easy to hold onto, and you can't hear the vibe at all over the shower water.

The only thing I wish this toy had was a separate on/off switch. You have to scroll through all the functions before it gets turned off. Having kids, I like being able to if need be get toys turned off fast.
    • Easy to use
    • Multiple settings
    • Strong patterns

Care and Maintenance

Discretion is extremely easy to care for. The sleeve is silicone and can be used with water based lubes. You can easily disinfect it by boiling, or washing with soap and water or in the dishwasher. There are no small spaces, or rigid edges anywhere on this toy making it easy to clean. This toy did not come with storage, I use a satin drawstring bag and it works wonderfully.

The bullet is made of ABS plastic, and I would only recommend water based lubes for use. Since it will be going in the silicone sleeve I would stay away from oil and silicone lubes. Soap and water will clean it just fine.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


Discretion comes in a plain yet elegant box. It is a plain white cardboard box with the toy pictured on the front, and a splash of water behind it. It has a hanging tab on he top of the box, so if it were displayed in the store it would be hanging on a rack. It lists the functions on the side and a short description on the back. The toy itself was packaged in a light foam sleeve, and the battery was in a separate small plastic bag. I honestly don't know if it came with instructions or not. I had 2 packages come on the same day, and I would assume that they fell out when I opened it up, but I never found them. It's simple to use though, and all the info you actually need is on the side of the box.
    • Simple
    • Would make a nice gift
Follow-up commentary
If there was an "I like it even more" option I would have picked it. This is a great hands free device as my boyfriend calls it. It stays so well inside my panties that I can have my hands free to do other things. This is especially great to use during oral sex, I have worn it out on a naughty date night, while there is no controller, it was simple for me to turn it on over my leggings while sitting in a dark bar at a table. The music wasn't overly loud, and there was not a ton of people around, but you couldn't hear the vibe. If I weren't wearing a tunic, it would be possible to see that you have something down there, but if you don't wear tight pants it wouldn't be a problem.

The battery life has held up great. After repeated washings the material I thought was getting a little more rubbery, but I gave it a rest for a week, and it seemed to be just fine, and it still doesn't pick up fuzzies. I guess I just used it too much :)

The only thing that would make this toy better: A remote control.

This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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