Extreme butterfly frenzy bullet - bullet vibrator by Cal Exotics - review by PassionQT

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Had Me in a Frenzy!

Ergonomically, the Extreme Butterfly Frenzy bullet toy may not be the best fit for all users, but if you can get into the swing of using it or rather, finding a way to use it, it might become a favorite. With dual motors and a soft TPR exterior, this toy worked surprisingly well despite its awkward design.
Easy controls, dual motors, strong vibrations, shallow insertion.
Fit, design.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


This toy stimulates the clitoris and the G-spot, at least that's what I used it for, since it came with no suggestions on where to use it. Traditionally, bullets are used for clitoral stimulation, so that's where it went, but since this toy has two bullets, the other one has to squeeze in somewhere! At first look, it's a bit awkward looking and appears to be a variation of the traditional rabbit style vibrator. Two motors, but with a shorter main "shaft". Those looking for a toy with a more shallow insertion might like this one, so it's good for a beginner. Not for anal use!

It's primarily a solo play toy, but I can imagine a few ways in which it could be used with a partner: mutual masturbation, dual penetration (woman on stomach, grinding on toy, anal sex....you get the picture). Just experiment with this one a bit, don't give up on it too quickly as I almost did, and you might have a lot of fun with it.

Material / Texture

Both bullets are covered in a squishy material known as TPR. It's fairly body safe, except for the fact that it is slightly porous. It stretches nicely without tearing, which is important when it comes to using this toy. There's no small or taste to it. The most important thing to remember about TPR is to keep it away from heat and other toys; for some reason, it tends to "melt" or discolor if it touches other incompatible materials. TPR is also very "sticky" feeling, so it will attract a lot of hair and lint and needs to be rinsed of before use and obviously, afterward too. It tends to pull at the skin when it's not lubricated. Use in conjuction with a silicone or water-based lubricant.

Design / Shape / Size

The main bullet is about 3 inches long and has a decent girth to it, because of the thick layer of TPR covering it. The clitoral bullet in the butterfly is a smaller mini-bullet. The butterfly has wings and antennae to tickle all around the clitoral area, however on me, the antennae extended on to my pubic mound, so it has bad aim depending on one's body.

The cord is fixed and is about 28 inches long. At the point it enters the vibrating unit, there is little protection around the wires, so be sure not to submerge the toy in water.

I really like the control unit; it's much thinner than most I've used and fits nicely in the palm of the hand. The power button is a soft, toggle button to increase or decrease the speeds; very straightforward and efficient!

Functions / Performance / Controls

Powered by 3-AAA batteries which fit in a narrow, handheld controller, this toy provides 5 incremental levels of steady vibrations in two locations. There's a smaller bullet on the clitoral stimulator and a larger one for vaginal use. For those that have trouble using a regular rabbit vibrator with a longer shaft, this may be just what is needed. The larger one will provide more of a rumbly sensation and the smaller one is buzzier, as most mini-bullets are. Together, the feel great, but the power isn't "extreme" by any means; it's just nice and steady, somewhat average but not too weak. Only my orgasm were extreme!

A note on the red light than indicates it's turned on: IT'S BRIGHT! Don't point it in your face. It made a large spotlight on my ceiling.

Care and Maintenance

Do not submerge the entire unit in water. The toy portion can be carefully washed in a low stream of warm water and antibacterial soap. If you think you can't be careful, then adult toy cleaning wipes might be a good alternative, so long as they aren't the type to leave behind any lint. Store away from heat and light. Remove batteries after use, if you can remember to.


The plastic box packaging just had wording on it, with no erotic/nude models. A small paper insert is simply universal vibrator instructions, which details battery insertion and general precautions. They are not specific to this toy.


I recently had a hysterectomy, so the timing of receiving this toy was actually perfect, as I wasn't quire ready for a full insertion toy just yet. I had just gotten the all clear from my Dr. and wanted a to use a toy that wouldn't hit bottom in my vagina. That's where the Frenzy came in handy; however, finding the right "fit" with this toy was the initial challenge. Once I had it lubed up and inserted shallowly in my vagina, I pulled the butterfly up over my clitoral area and just started rocking my palm against it. I wasn't sure anything would happen, but once the first wave of orgasm came over me, several more followed in the next 10 minutes. I don't forsee this toy lasting long with repeated use, as my guess is there will eventually be issues with the cord being pulled on (that's usually the first thing to go with bullet toys). Nevertheless, it was fun.
This product was provided free of charge to the reviewer. This review is in compliance with the FTC guidelines.
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