When you're a backdoor virgin, shopping for anal vibrators can be...intimidating. I mean, some people have had thermometers or nothing inserted back there! So the question is, what should you pick?

For me, the proper choice was the fantasy tickler. It's slender, smooth, and is the cutest shade of pink! I wanted my first time with an anal toy to be simple; I did NOT want to have to to through a while bottle of lube, grit my teeth, and bear down on my first anal toy. C'mon, I know some of you have had toys like this! (some of you like it that way, which is fine. power to you). The fantasy tickler is only about 1/2" wide, so that first penetration was not a daunting task. I put a little bit of my favorite lube on it, and slowly slid it in. Wow! I knew what everyone was telling me I missed out on! When you have a comfortable toy back there, the sensations are nice! I played with the different vibration speeds and knew I was in love.

I like to play with the fantasy tickler with one hand, and use a strong bullet vibe on my clit at the same time. It makes for wonderfully intense Os! I wish this toy came with textured sleeves, because I can think of some fun textures I'd like to feel inside, coupled with my ribbed vibrator in my pussy at the some time! However, this toy is one of my faves and it sees action on a regular basis.

If you're new to anal play, this toy is definitely a great toy to start with. Most women will find this to be too slender for vaginal penetration, but if you're young and new to penetration, I imagine this will be good for that too. The toy itself can be used in the water, but the battery pack/control cannot. So either be very careful, or just don't use this toy near water at all. Also, if you need heavy vibrations, this is not the toy for you. Since I use it for anal play and don't use larger toys, I'm tight enough to be satisfied by the vibes. But vaginally or externally, it would never get me off!