My first thought was that the massager was pretty small. I thought it was cute and didn't mind. I also like that the head is quite flexible and can be bent a fair amount. The head is not very hard but not as soft as I would have liked.

The first time I used it, I laid on my back, and my husband applied it directly to my pussy. It was way too strong for me. I like vibrations but not very intense ones. We went through all the settings on the massager, and there were only stronger settings and different patterns but nothing weak enough for my taste.

We tried it a couple more times, but it was always too strong for me, even when it wasn't applied directly. However, we did discover that my husband enjoyed it on his penis. Usually, vibrators don't do much for him, but this is strong enough for him to feel. So this toy may actually be good for him. On a side note, we actually used this for a back massage, and it was pretty good, so there's always that option.

As mentioned, the vibrations were very strong. They're mostly centered around the head, but you feel them throughout the entire wand.

I wasn't able to orgasm from this because it was too strong for me, but it added to my husband's orgasm when applied to the top of his penis while given a handjob.