Triple Ambivalent

As I often do, I will combine a review of this toy and some similar ones that we've used. In this case the general category for this toy would be 'rabbit' style vibes - but more accurately called dual-stimulators (DS).

Although we were once fans of this genre, we're using them less and less. As many others have commented the effect of DS toys can sometimes be better accomplished with a dildo combined with a clit vibe. By combining your two favorites, the results can be superior to the compromises made by DS toys.

We have the original Decadent Indulgence DS and have loved using it for years. I recently bought a new one - just in case her favorite died on us. We were very disappointed to fined that the Decadent Indulgence had been redesigned and the new design has less power - in spite of it having 4 AA batteries.

We also have the Ultimate Decadent Indulgence (UDI) because it's waterproof. The UDI has just 3 AA batteries and violated my rule of at least 4 AAs - but we took a chance on it anyway. It's well made and useful - but would be much better with the extra power cell. The toy is also waterproof which is a nice feature.

OK - so what about the Triple Orgasm Triple Kiss (TOTK). The obvious draw here is the addition of anal stimulation turning a DS into a TS toy. As a skeptical consumer I had my concerns about driving three stimulators with just 3 AAs - and I'm sorry to say my concerns were well founded.

I rate the triple stimulator is designed to stimulate the female anatomy as follows:

4 Stars - the 5" shaft is a classic phallic design is 1.5" of soft TPR that rotates to stimulate your G-spot/A-spot - depending upon the depth of penetration and depth of your spots. Although the special little nub on top the shaft did not add any additional sensations - the rotating shaft worked well and had the desired performance. The three rows of rotating metal beads does a nice job of stimulating the entrance to the vagina.

2 Stars - the clit stimulator is a dolphin design with a small bullet behind the soft TPR. The dolphin is attached in a flexible way so that we could hit my wife's clit - which is important because many DS toys that have close-coupled clit vibes do not work for us. In spite of being able to adjust it properly - there was just not enough power - not even with the rotating shaft turned off.

1 Star - the anal stimulator is sliver of soft TPR with an imbedded micro bullet. Although the sliver of TPR is 2.5" long, it's so soft that penetration is out of the question - and the vibe so small that although you can tell it's there - it doesn't seem to add much in the way of stimulation.

The TOTK seems like a good toy for a woman who does not need strong vibrations to orgasm and enjoys internal rotation. The little anal vibe will add a bit of spice to the equation.

Although many of us prefer pure silicone - many TPR toys are affordable and still a viable safe option. We have had reactions to jelly toys - but never TPR. The TOTK is a very soft version of TPR and has no odor - a very good sign that it is a high quality TPR. All surfaces are smooth - no seams or other irritating features.

The TOTK is a classic DS design with the addition of a small 3rd stimulator to add anal vibrations. The shaft is a classic 'circumcised' phallic 1.5" diameter with a little more than 5" of penetrative length. The three rows of metal ball bearings are positioned to stimulate the vaginal entrance. Just behind the head the a metal ball imbedded in the TPR that should stimulate the g-spot when the shaft is in rotation mode.

The clitoral stimualator is a bullet imbedded in the TPR in the shape of a dolphin with fins on each side to spread the vibrations to the labia. Dolphin extends 2" on a flexible TPR that should make clit stimulation fairly effective.

The anal stimulator has a micro bullet that is controlled by the strength of the clit vibe. The 2.5 sliver of TPR is comfortable against sensitive anal tissues - but anal penetration is not possible.

At the bottom of the toy is the 'control panel' with waterproof battery compartment and controls. The three AA batteries are easily installed and the o-ring seal are effective for cleaning and use in the shower or tub - I wouldn't try it at any depth or in a jacuzzi.

The controls have a useful On/Off button and separate controls (up/down arrows) for the shaft and vibes. Centered between the up/down arrows is a Function 'F' button. The F button cycles through slow pulse, fast pulse and steady vibes.

All of the controls are well designed and easy to implement - although if you are using it solo - you'll have to memorize what you cannot see.

The TOTK toy is well thought out, well designed and well made. As I indicated above, the premier feature of this toy is the shaft - and it has a decent clit vibe. As long as you don't need strong vibes - this toy should work well.

The TOTK waterproof design makes clean up quite easy. I would caution that when installing or changing batteries - be sure to carefully place the cap in place. Avoid crossing threads and seat the o-ring properly. Finally don't over tighten the cap - the whole assembly is plastic and could crack if you torque it too much.

We use warm soap and water after each use - some may also want to clean the toy before use because the TPR can attract lint.

The TOTK vibe comes in standard Cal Exotics plastic box. The graphics are tasteful - but obviously adult in nature. You could certainly use the box for storage if you'd like - we keep our in a towel lined drawer.

The instructions are adequate - but the type is quite small. Read in a bright light or with a magnifier. However if you're not new to sex toys - you can easily figure out what to do without the instructions.

For us this is a 3-star toy because we just prefer more power - however we have opted to give the toy a 4-star rating because of its high quality manufacture. Each has their own preference for power - if you need a lot, you may prefer other combinations of toys instead of s dual stimulator.

It is worth noting that my wife has had several orgasms using this toy and she likes the little anal vibe because she's a bit anal shy - but this little vibe is non-threatening.

Just writing this review has motivated me to pull it out of the drawer this week to give it another go!