Does your penis size matter when you have sex? Does it make you great in sex? Well let’s look at some different aspects of size and its effects and stimulation on the vagina and clitoris and see if it really does matter or not.
The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body due to the high number of nerve endings. That being said, the clitoris needs to be stimulated for many women to achieve orgasm. The size of the penis (both its length and thickness) does not really affect the stimulation of the clitoris and that is because it is not inside the vagina. Thus, no matter how much the guy penetrates or how fast and vigorous he does it, it will still not stimulate as many people think.
The G-spot meanwhile is also an important part of stimulation. Now although many girls prefer clitoral orgasms, other women enjoy g-spot stimulation and it does bring them to orgasm. Now size of the dick here does not really matter as much as the girth. It is maybe true that the thicker the penis, the greater the chance for it to stimulate and rub the G-spot, but that is not the case most of the time.
In some cases (I am one) women actually cum from having their cervix stimulated and being touched by the penis. Now keep in mind that by touching, I mean touching and not poking roughly or tearing up a second hole in there. Although penis length here does help in stimulating, it also depends on how small the vagina is and as many of you know, every woman is different. That being said, penis size could actually cause more problems and pain than pleasure. In fact, if the guy is not careful enough, he could cause bleeding and tear up tissue which could cause health problems for his partner.
Although this is the least effective way to get a woman stimulated (in fact it really doesn't get her stimulated as much it gets her in the mood of sex), penis size doesn't really matter here either. Whether your penis is huge or average or even small, the effect is the same. The woman would still perform oral sex and it would not make her hornier, more stimulated or orgasm for that matter.
Then why is it that people make it such a big deal? I personally have my thoughts and I would like to share them with you. First, a penis is probably conceived and thought of by many as a sign of masculinity. The bigger the penis the more "a man" you are. To all the guys out there: please understand that quality is better than size. That's why I believe that people who know how to work their penises and hips are better lovers than just a big junk drilling me. Also, sex is about stimulation for women. Some might enjoy drilling but in most cases it is not enjoyable for us to be drilled and offers no stimulation. So guys please understand that you need to be able to work us and stimulate us for the best results.
The clitoris is the most sensitive part of a woman's body due to the high number of nerve endings. That being said, the clitoris needs to be stimulated for many women to achieve orgasm. The size of the penis (both its length and thickness) does not really affect the stimulation of the clitoris and that is because it is not inside the vagina. Thus, no matter how much the guy penetrates or how fast and vigorous he does it, it will still not stimulate as many people think.
The G-spot meanwhile is also an important part of stimulation. Now although many girls prefer clitoral orgasms, other women enjoy g-spot stimulation and it does bring them to orgasm. Now size of the dick here does not really matter as much as the girth. It is maybe true that the thicker the penis, the greater the chance for it to stimulate and rub the G-spot, but that is not the case most of the time.
In some cases (I am one) women actually cum from having their cervix stimulated and being touched by the penis. Now keep in mind that by touching, I mean touching and not poking roughly or tearing up a second hole in there. Although penis length here does help in stimulating, it also depends on how small the vagina is and as many of you know, every woman is different. That being said, penis size could actually cause more problems and pain than pleasure. In fact, if the guy is not careful enough, he could cause bleeding and tear up tissue which could cause health problems for his partner.
Although this is the least effective way to get a woman stimulated (in fact it really doesn't get her stimulated as much it gets her in the mood of sex), penis size doesn't really matter here either. Whether your penis is huge or average or even small, the effect is the same. The woman would still perform oral sex and it would not make her hornier, more stimulated or orgasm for that matter.
Then why is it that people make it such a big deal? I personally have my thoughts and I would like to share them with you. First, a penis is probably conceived and thought of by many as a sign of masculinity. The bigger the penis the more "a man" you are. To all the guys out there: please understand that quality is better than size. That's why I believe that people who know how to work their penises and hips are better lovers than just a big junk drilling me. Also, sex is about stimulation for women. Some might enjoy drilling but in most cases it is not enjoyable for us to be drilled and offers no stimulation. So guys please understand that you need to be able to work us and stimulate us for the best results.
Well as a guy I am entitled to say that I believe that size does matter, I have a big rod and my girls like it. I should show it to you sometime
Although I appreciate your kind support, I do not like the way you are talking here. Please be respectful and watch what you say.
there is nothing wrong with the way I talk baby girl, maybe I should send you a picture and you will will change your mind haha
I admit, I'm a size queen and there are women who have a preference. Small to average size dicks don't turn me on like a meaty girthy long dick. No offense to the perfectly good average dicks and I'm sure you get to enjoy plenty of sex but not with me.
The essay may be saying that it's not necessary to have a dick of a certain size or girth but each woman is different and is stimulated by different means. Some prefer a curved up dick, others with a flared head, still others like the short fat members. It's all a matter of finding the vagina that's perfect for you. And it's not all about reaching orgasm, that can be done after the intercourse is over, IMO. What I want for sex is a completely different ballgame.
Personally, I'm not extremely concerned about size. I've been with guys who were smaller and totally knew what they were doing. I've also been with guys who thought that, since they had a big dick, they didn't really have to do anything to be good. It's way more about how you use it than how big it is.
Also, I'm currently reading a book by Maggie Paley called "The Book of the Penis". It has a chapter about the size issue and goes into more depth about why guys are so insecure about it. Very interesting read!
@kanida: I totally agree, and where did you get your copy of the book? I would like to read it as well.
@coolboy28: please go get a life sir, you are not only rude but ignorant as well
I got it from Amazon. If you get a used copy, they're really cheap. I got mine used, but it looked new. I only paid $0.54 for it! ]Link]
I totally agree, size is not always the most important factor in sex. Amazing article Irina
Amazing Article Irina, I definitely agree that size does not really matter, but I do like it
Great article and totally agree!
Sex Matters ALOT!
@Masquerade Minx: thanks a lot I appreciate the kind support and please make sure to check out and like my other articles
@SumFun75: who said it doesn't? :p
This website is truly pathetic...male bashing is allowed here and encouraged.This topic has been driven into the ground beyond all reason to the point that it is thrown up to piss dudes off all the time at this place.The entire 'dick size discussion' is just an idiot's way of keeping a conversation going.No guy can change his f-n size,and yet here come all the judgements,barbs and repeated blab over and over and over here on these threads.If this had been a reoccuring topic on women,an alternative lifestyle etc.it would get sh-t canned but THIS particular topic gets beat to death here.Also,whenever this asinine topic gets brought up you chix act as though YOUR SH-T doesn't matter! Ha! What a friggin' laugh we could get into the whole childbirth thing and how that changes YOUR junk down there,but im not an a-hole like most of the ladies on this site obviously are.Guys know women use the size thing as an ace card to bash men...keep hating though disrespectful hypocrites,
um, mr rocker-guy, i think you may have read a different article.... this one was just about how not all women have the same preferences??? because, yknow, women arent just prepacked fuck-dolls??? like woah there friend i think you need to calm down an not take it as a personal attack on you.....
i think this is a pretty good, basic article, though UuU
Over all it's a great article. I believe size really doesn't matter its how he performs. If he knows how to use it then your not going to care how big he is.
Great article, no size should not matter. It's all in how he makes you feel.
Well done!