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Sex magic may be witchcraft’s greatest open secret, and very much real. When I first undertook the writing of this article, I thought it was something I wanted to explore with my partner. As I dug deeper, I realized sex magic is something very powerful, and best left to practitioners with more skills and knowledge than me. Nonetheless, it’s a fascinating topic, and one worth exploring.

  Defining Sex Magic

Sex magic may be witchcraft’s greatest open secret. Granted, I live in a small city, but the reference section of my local library was still surprisingly barren on the topic. Neither Robbins’s Encyclopedia of Witchcraft and Demonology nor Guiley’s The Encyclopedia of Witches, Witchcraft and Wicca, Third Edition has entries for “sex magic.” Robbins’s encyclopedia does contain eight full pages on “Sexual Relations with Devils,” including one explicit illustration and a fifteenth-century description of the devil’s penis:

“This was generally sinuous, pointed, and snake-like, made sometimes of half-iron and half-flesh, and other times wholly of horn, and commonly forked like a serpent’s tongue; he customarily performed both coitus and pederasty at once, while sometimes a third prong reached to his lover’s mouth.” While this does sound as if it could be fun, it wasn’t the information I was seeking.

Contemporary literature was more helpful. The “Foxy Witch“ column in the Winter 2009 issue of newWitch magazine explains that human beings have sex for a variety of reasons, from the biological drive to reproduce to forging bonds between sex partners. Witches, the article contends, also have sex for another reason: “magical and spiritual purposes.” Sheela Ardrian explains, “Good sex raises energy, which an experienced practitioner can channel for other uses…People who follow erotic deities or traditions, and who have a high comfort level with their sexuality, are most likely to have sex for magical/spiritual reasons.”

For further enlightenment I turned to P.F. Newman, a practicing witch and one of my online social networking friends. In a private e-mail, I asked Newman, “What is sex magic? How did you first learn about it?“ Newman sent me the following reply:

“Sex is a two-edged sword without magic, so it is logical that it is an even deadlier thing when used for magic. It is also a known fact that love magic doesn't work. Or more precisely, casting a spell to make someone love you is a terrible thing - terribly effective and works ruin. So much wiser to cast a spell to correct yourself and make yourself ready and worthy to draw the right lover, not the passing desire of the moment.

“I learned about love magic from my mother. She knows the ways of the craft much better than I, for she was a true master and I am more of a student. I requested her advice about love spells and got quite a lecture, which I didn't believe. So I went to my spellbooks, and found quite a lot written on the matter from Silver Ravenwolf's To Ride a Silver Broomstick about the consequences of casting love spells incorrectly. So since then, I have cast love spells, but have neglected to name a specific man. This allows the Goddess to choose my partner, should she be so willing, without violating the primary law of respecting the free will of all people. This includes any man you intend to have.

“Sex magic is a similar concept. But far more intimate, and far more powerful. An orgy must be considered a decadent waste of energy, because sex gains in its intimacy. Literature and myth are also full of the idea of sex fused with magic. One of the classic ways of sexual magic is to invoke Venus, and should you wish more information on this subject, I suggest you summon her and beseech her for an interview. But beware of her price.”

That price sounded rather ominous, so I chose not to invoke the wrath of the goddess by disturbing her. Instead, I started reading everything I could get my hands on about sex magic.


Venus, or Aphrodite, is one deity who invites erotic worship; another is the Hindu god Kama. The word “kama” means “love, pleasure, sexual gratification, or desire.” As a deity, Kama resembles Venus’s son Cupid, shooting flower-tipped arrows that produce love in whomever they hit. He inspired the Kama Sutra, a collection of advice on winning success in love, sex and wealth and virtue. The Kama Sutra, in turn, inspired the Hindu and Buddhist philosophies of Tantra. Tantric philosophy embraces all aspects of life and death and uses both good and bad experiences to promote enlightenment. In the Hindu school of Tantra, the goddess Kali (or Shakti, or Shakti-Kali) is revered as the source of creation, along with the god Shiva. Kali is symbolized as a lotus flower and/or as a sacred yoni, a representation of the vulva. Shiva’s corresponding symbols are the jewel and the lingam, a representation of a phallus. Their union is revered and imitated by worshippers in both private and public sexual ceremonies.

While followers of Tantra have done things like make their homes in graveyards and meditate on top of corpses to embrace death, Tantra is better known in the Western world for indulgent, often athletic sexual practices. “Tantra, indeed, is a path, often requiring many years of commitment to various meditations…This path is for those seeking more than a new romantic or sexual skill,” warns Kenneth Ray Stubbs. This is another reminder that sex magic is something very powerful and not to be entered into lightly.

On the other hand, one school of sex magic, sometimes referred to as Neo-Tantra, has more casual followers. Among them is Jeffery Tye of the online Kama Sutra Temple. He writes, “Sex is one of the most (some say the most) powerful energies on the planet. Within our loins lies an energy that has the potential to create any reality we want. Unfortunately, most humans have a love/hate relationship with sex that is reflected in many ways (i.e., unsafe promiscuity, self-destructive perversions, denial, shutdown, religious intolerance, rape, abuse, etc.). Religion has done much to suppress our divine sexual nature and has kept the masses ignorant of the potential uses of sexual energy… Sex Magic is based on the belief that the most powerful moment of human existence is the orgasm. Sex Magic is the art of utilizing sexual orgasm to create a reality and/or expand consciousness. All senses and psychic powers are heightened during orgasm.”

Those powers can then be focused, through visualization, on turning some wish or desire, sexual or otherwise, into a concrete reality. That, as I now understand it, is sex magic in a nutshell.

  Sex and the Modern Witch

Tantric practices have played an important role in the re-introduction of magic into Western society in the late nineteenth and twentieth centuries. Tantra’s influence on modern magical practice comes, in part, through the notorious twentieth-century Satanist and witch Aleister Crowley. Crowley was a member of the Ordo Templi Orientis, an early twentieth-century magical cult, and in 1922 became its leader, rewriting many of the order’s rituals. The OTO was founded by Karl Kellner, a German who had studied with two Tantric practitioners from India, from whom he learned the secret of “the sexual current.”

Crowley, in turn, influenced Austin Osman Spare, who used sex magic for implanting suggestions into the practitioner’s own subconscious mind and for channeling past lives. Osman Spare’s philosophy influenced the Chaos school of magic.

Chaos magic rejects dogma and encourages practitioners to use magic as a means to an end, using whatever methods work. Chaos magicians seek power, greater knowledge, and heightened perception using an eclectic mix of magical traditions. One chaos ritual involves meditating on the death of self during the act of sex, followed by ecstatic laughter. The energy of this ritual is then used by the magician to gain whatever he or she desires.

All of these magical traditions overlap and interact. People who practice magic adapt them for their own purposes, skills and sets of knowledge. As an expression of the energy created by one or more people in the act of sex, sex magic is a powerful reality. However one chooses to channel that energy, the power of the human experience’s most fundamentally pleasurable act is undeniable.


Contributor: Airen Wolf

Some of the ritual components of sex magic are blood and sugar as well. I liked your reference to bloodsugar as it was one nuance I actually missed! Kneeling before a Goddess refers to the 5 fold kiss a ritual of welcoming as well as oral sex. Smile It's good to see sex magic coming out of the closet, so to speak, but the main reason there isn't much literature about the practice is the fact that when certain members of other religions get ahold of literature containing any mention all hell breaks loose. We begin to be labled sex crazed freaks trying to corrupt "good people". Selena Fox has written some great articles and books about sex magic and I would highly suggest them. Really it's nothing to fear and can be wonderfully powerful and bonding between partners (or solo). The energy is wild, chaotic and primal wonderful as the sex that generated it!

Contributor: KnK

Wow, this was a fascinating read. I've always been interested in goddess worship, but more as an interest in philosophies and religion. I want to look into this more. Thank you