It's like a TomTom for your G-spot.
The Pure Wand is a curved, stainless steel toy that is excellent for G-spotting and p-spotting. It's shape and weight make it a little awkward to use. It's a hefty investment, so you'll need to make sure you're up for the learning curve and are willing to take the time to figure it out. Probably not a good choice for beginners due to the hardness of the material.Published: January 26, 2010
Pros:
Metal holds temperature well, easy to clean, goes right to the spot.
Cons:
Can be awkward to use for some, takes patience.
After recently discovering my G-spot and the ability to squirt, I decided to invest in some higher quality toys specifically designed for G-spotting. The Pure Wand seemed to be one of the most highly recommended toys for this purpose so I took the plunge and ordered mine. It's actually marketed for p-spot stimulation, but most everyone has found that it works well for both men and women.
Measuring at about eight inches long, with a strong curve and smooth weighted balls on either end the Pure Wand hones in on the G-spot and p-spot with the precision of advanced military technology. The ball on the smaller end measures about an inch in diameter and the larger ball measures about one and a half inches in diameter. Either end is suited for p-spotting and G-spotting, it's all about whatever your preference is. The larger end feels more weighted and creates a fuller feeling with broad stimulation. The smaller end provides a more precise, intense pressure.
It is crafted from stainless steel which is hypoallergenic, easy to sterilize and retains temperature well. You can use any of your favorite lubes and not worry about damaging it. Just clean with anti-bacterial toy cleaner and water. If your intend to share this toy (between holes or multiple people) just be sure to boil it or wipe it down with a 10% bleach solution.
If you're interested in temperature play this is an excellent choice. When we received it in the mail and took it out of the box it was frigid. It took a long time for it to warm up on it's own. I prefer my toys a little warmer so I enjoyed the way it heated up with my body temperature, in the shower or if we left it in a sink full of warm water. Another way we warmed it up was to place it in front of a space heater, but you do need to be cautious because the metal heats up or cools off very quickly and it can become a dangerous temperature if you aren't paying attention. What feels like a comfortable temperature to your hand may burn the delicate skin inside your vagina or inside your rectum. Always test the temperature on a sensitive part of your body before you use it internally.
Because of the weight and shape of this toy, it can be a little awkward to use. It doesn't come with any instructions or suggestions on ways to use it. There is quite a learning curve in figuring out what will work for your body. Some people enjoy rocking the toy, others like to thrust it (carefully now, metal can cause bruising), and some people find it pleasurable to grind their hips against it. We're still figuring out what works for us.
You will want to store the Pure Wand in it's gorgeous box. Not because you have to worry about damaging it or anything, but because this is it's home. It comes in a black box lined with pink satin and the wand sits neatly inside of a hole that was carved out for it. It's suitable for gifting as well.
Measuring at about eight inches long, with a strong curve and smooth weighted balls on either end the Pure Wand hones in on the G-spot and p-spot with the precision of advanced military technology. The ball on the smaller end measures about an inch in diameter and the larger ball measures about one and a half inches in diameter. Either end is suited for p-spotting and G-spotting, it's all about whatever your preference is. The larger end feels more weighted and creates a fuller feeling with broad stimulation. The smaller end provides a more precise, intense pressure.
It is crafted from stainless steel which is hypoallergenic, easy to sterilize and retains temperature well. You can use any of your favorite lubes and not worry about damaging it. Just clean with anti-bacterial toy cleaner and water. If your intend to share this toy (between holes or multiple people) just be sure to boil it or wipe it down with a 10% bleach solution.
If you're interested in temperature play this is an excellent choice. When we received it in the mail and took it out of the box it was frigid. It took a long time for it to warm up on it's own. I prefer my toys a little warmer so I enjoyed the way it heated up with my body temperature, in the shower or if we left it in a sink full of warm water. Another way we warmed it up was to place it in front of a space heater, but you do need to be cautious because the metal heats up or cools off very quickly and it can become a dangerous temperature if you aren't paying attention. What feels like a comfortable temperature to your hand may burn the delicate skin inside your vagina or inside your rectum. Always test the temperature on a sensitive part of your body before you use it internally.
Because of the weight and shape of this toy, it can be a little awkward to use. It doesn't come with any instructions or suggestions on ways to use it. There is quite a learning curve in figuring out what will work for your body. Some people enjoy rocking the toy, others like to thrust it (carefully now, metal can cause bruising), and some people find it pleasurable to grind their hips against it. We're still figuring out what works for us.
You will want to store the Pure Wand in it's gorgeous box. Not because you have to worry about damaging it or anything, but because this is it's home. It comes in a black box lined with pink satin and the wand sits neatly inside of a hole that was carved out for it. It's suitable for gifting as well.
Experience
Though my husband and I haven't figured out how to orgasm using the Pure Wand yet, we're confident that with more practice it will come(ha!) to us. In the mean time we've found another use for it that is actually nearly as pleasurable as climaxing as far as I'm concerned. I love getting back rubs with it. Hell, I love getting full body massages with it. With the way the metal holds temperature (hot and cold) it feels amazing. The weight also helps release any knots I have from working out or stress. The metal glides across the skin easily so you don't have to use as much massage oil, which saves the sheets from staining and doesn't make me feel like I need a shower after my massage.
If it doesn't work out for us as a sex toy in the long run, it does at least work for that. My husband has also recommended I use it to clobber burglars should he go out of town on a business trip. It's small enough to tuck under the pillow and heavy enough to knock them out so that I can tie them up with some the restraints we have while I wait for the police to arrive. Imagine the headlines in the local papers. "Resident Defends Her Family With Sex Toys!" Then I could start up my own business where I sell BDSM toys and teach how to use them in self defense. I figure this is going to turn out to be a very worthy investment for me.
If it doesn't work out for us as a sex toy in the long run, it does at least work for that. My husband has also recommended I use it to clobber burglars should he go out of town on a business trip. It's small enough to tuck under the pillow and heavy enough to knock them out so that I can tie them up with some the restraints we have while I wait for the police to arrive. Imagine the headlines in the local papers. "Resident Defends Her Family With Sex Toys!" Then I could start up my own business where I sell BDSM toys and teach how to use them in self defense. I figure this is going to turn out to be a very worthy investment for me.
Follow-up commentary
6 months after original review
So, I knew this thing was really stimulating my g-spot and made me feel like I needed to squirt, but I wasn't squirting so I thought it wasn't working. I recently purchased Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to the G-Spot and learned that it's more difficult to squirt with something inserted because you're pretty much covering the hole. My stomach would just start cramping because I couldn't squirt. Now that I know better, I just remove it and push to relieve that pressure and get ready for round 2!
There was definitely a learning curve with it. Sometimes a gentle rocking is enjoyable and sometimes it feels great to do short, quick thrusts with it. Certainly worth the investment.
There was definitely a learning curve with it. Sometimes a gentle rocking is enjoyable and sometimes it feels great to do short, quick thrusts with it. Certainly worth the investment.
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Will the Pure Wand REALLY make me squirt?
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I've been eyeing this toy for a very, VERY long time.
I've read many reviews saying that it will make you squirt, even if you haven't squirted ever before in your life (which I don't think I have).
Would it REALLY make me squirt? That's the whole reason I want it!
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Like you, I read that it works for a lot of people, so I bought it based on the good reviews. It hasn't really done much for me though. I was actually kind of disappointed with it in general. Hopefully, I'm in the minority.
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It hasn't done it for me yet - but I believe I've come the closest with my Pure Wand.
I just need to learn to relax and take my time.
Even though I haven't squirted yet, I love it!
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Which of the Njoys do you love
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Which of the Njoy product line do you love the most? Anyone here with experience with them? I would love to hear.
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Quote: Which of the Njoy product line do you love the most? Anyone here with experience with them? I would love to hear.I have three Njoy toys; The Eleven, the Pfun and the Pure Wand (links to my reviews)
The Pfun is the easiest to use, and feels great. I would caution against this being a first time toy though. It is hard and can easily cause some pain if you do not know your rectum.
The Pure Wand has a BIG learning curve but the small end is good if you are just starting out.
The Eleven, well, lets just say it is for the very experienced. It is large and will take charge.
The Pure Plugs look really good and always get great reviews. Those come in small, medium, large and the 2.0 which is like extra large.
Something to think about, Stainless is hard. As such great care needs to be used when using these toys. Yes, they can be fun and very stimulating but they can bruise very easily. I would not recommend them for a beginner.
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We have the PFun and the Pure Wand. My husband really likes the PFun; his only complaint being, it comes out during sex, as well as orgasm. He also loves to use the Wand on me, and I do so enjoy that. I prefer the Pure Wand (both ends) for anal play over vaginal play, but I have never been all that crazy about G-Spotting anyway.
Stainless is unforgiving. It can hurt, as Tim stated above, if you are over-eager. Do use caution and play gently until you get used to them.
We love the heat retention steel provides and their weightiness. There is something about not only feeling full, but heavy too. Anyway, we also like that we don't have to reapply lube very often because they are really slick all on their own.
We are hoping to purchase the Large plug soon. (We are on the fence about if we should get the large or the 2.0) ***Edited 2 hours later...bought the nJoy large plug tonight!***
The Eleven is certainly on my wishlist, and will be mine one day...when I have enough points (if I would stop spending them, it would be easier!)
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Pure Wand
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Is it just me or are other people confused as to why the Pure Wand is classified as an anal toy? Everything I hear about it being good for g-spot and p-spot stimulation, but why does that make it an anal toy?
I think classifying it as an anal toy might turn off some folks that don't like anal toys.
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I think it was originally designed for men and us ladies fell in love with it. I use it for both anal and g-spot but I do tend to refer to it as a dildo though. I actually passed it up originally but then bought it on a whim. Best purchase I ever made. Hopefully people will look beyond any classification and read the reviews on it.
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No confusion here. Most p-spot toys work well as g-spot toys and vice versa. I personally love it for anal, more than vaginal usage. If you read the first sentence of the description it clearly states it is for both. My only wish is that EF would list it in both categories.
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Temperature Play...
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I've never really done temperature play with steel... To all of you who have more experience with this, how long does it retain its coldness once you start playing with it?
Do you generally keep cold water/a freezer (!) nearby to cool it down periodically?
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only tried in once, I left it in for 20 minutes, could have been colder though and I only put it in once, but i would recomend keeping a cooler near by if you want to keep going with it cold.
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I'd suggest a bowl of ice water, or the cooler can work too. I don't have much experience with playing with cold with a steel toy, but a bowl of ice water will definitely be able to chill your toy back down as often as you want it to. :)
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Real Size Images
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Is there a reason that some toys have the 1:1 ratios sized images and others don't?
I'm trying to compare the pure wand with the Eleven and whilst there is a full sized image available for the eleven it doesn't appear that there is one for the fun wand.
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Quote: Is there a reason that some toys have the 1:1 ratios sized images and others don't?I've been wondering this myself.
I'm trying to compare the pure wand with the Eleven and whilst there is a full sized image available for the eleven it doesn't appear that there is one for the fun wand.
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Carrie Ann's review has both video and pics with them next to eachother :) link
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Can the Pure Wand do it if penetration usually doesn't?
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The reviews for the Pure Wand are overwhelmly positive. It sounds like almost everyone can climax with it. I'm wondering if there are women who don't usually climax with vaginal sex who can climax with the Pure Wand inside them? Or, for women who do climax during vaginal penetration, is it easier with the Pure Wand?
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Quote: The reviews for the Pure Wand are overwhelmly positive. It sounds like almost everyone can climax with it. I'm wondering if there are women who don't usually climax with vaginal sex who can climax with the Pure Wand inside them? Or, for women who do climax during vaginal penetration, is it easier with the Pure Wand?I've never been able to climax during sex, unless there is very heavy clitoral stimulation as well. Thanks for asking this question, I'm curious now as well!
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It's extremely stimulating, due to many things, and while it is among my great favorite toys, and it does make me come like a wild monkey, I can't come *just* from it. It does, however, add astounding depth to my orgasms.
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I love the creative use you came up with for this toy! Thanks for the review!
What an excellent review on a product that has so many. Refreshing!
And now I'm even more anxious to get mine in the mail
Good review!
Great review!
This one is definitely going in my cart with the 35% discount coupon. Thanks for the nice new take on this product and great review.
Good review! This is one toy that with practice, it only gets better.
Thanks for all the comments everyone.
Sammi I can't wait to hear about how you enjoy yours. Sundae, that's the best time to pick up the higher priced toys you want.
great review! I love the title!
What made you decide to give it 4 stars, despite the fact that it's not really working as a sex toy for you, yet? Is it just THATGOOD as a back massager that it gets 4 stars for that use alone?
It's well made and it does go straight to the g-spot/p-spot. It's just a matter of figuring out how I like to use it. I don't rate the toys I use purely on the ability to give me an orgasm. :p
Looove the title! Great review, and thanks for the mention of that Tristan book. I'm gonna check that out
Great review! I'm going to check out your book recommendation.
So this toy is definitely moving up on my list as a g-spot stimulator after reading your review. (And the self-defense feature is a nice added benefit. ) Thanks.
I am definitely getting this toy. Thanks for the review!
great review!
Thank you for the review!