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The Pure Wand from Njoy, is maybe the most coveted and highly rated toy in the EF community, so I knew the bar was going to be set high. I'm not sure it is every going to live up to those lofty squirting expectations, but by all other measures this is a fine piece of steel. No toy is perfect for everyone. I can't give it less than 4 stars. I think it is also going to take more time and practice to extract the most pleasure from it.
Stainless steel, hefty, smooth, non-porous, two useful ends
Large end too large for us, but will fit most.
Rating by reviewer:
extremely useful review


The Njoy Pure wand is a solid stainless steel toy designed to massage the G-spot or Prostate for males. The small end is apparently designed for the male spot, while the larger one is for G-spot use. There is no reason you can't use the small end for G-spot use though and if you are really brave, I guess you could use the large end anally. It's a versatile toy. You can even use it to massage sore muscles, tenderize meat or knock out a burglar. You can certainly be creative and use the Pure Wand for Kegel exercises too.

Steel is highly conductive, so this is perfect for temperature play. Just run under warm or cool water for a few minutes.

Though I had intended to try it for prostate play, as well as G-spotting with my partner, it wasn't until I read Mrs.Hellzapoppin's review that I knew the small end was actually designed with us guys in mind. I assumed both ends were for G-spots originally. In our case, the large end seems to big for my GF to use, so the small end will have to work double duty for us.
  • Who / How / What
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    Who might this product be best for? How is it best used? What are the best circumstances or situations for using this product?
    • Couples
    • Solo
    • Temperature play
  • Where
    [ ? ]
    Where / what types of places can this product be used?
    • Anywhere
    • Tub/shower/pool
  • Body / part areas
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    What areas on the body can this product be used / what areas does it stimulate best?
    • G-spot
    • Kegels
    • P-spot

Material / Texture

The stainless steel of the Pure Wand is perfectly smooth and shiny and, of course, does not smell, have any taste and does not harbor smells. Steel conducts heat/cold well, so This is ideal for temperature play fans. It can even do Kegels. The Njoy logo is beautifully laser etched on the body of the toy. Since it is non-porous and durable, it is one of the best and safest materials for sex toys and sharing between partners.

Stainless steel is Phthalates-free, latex-free, food grade and non-porous. Of course, it is heavy and rigid with a smooth surface. It is my favorite material for insertable sex toys.

The workmanship is very good, with no noticeable imperfections.

Pure wand, Pure plug medium and Lelo Earl


    • Not porous at all
    • Smooth

Design / Shape / Size

The pure wand is approximately 8" long and curved. At the widest end it is 1.5" wide and 1" wide on the smaller end. She weighs in at a hefty 1.5lbs (24oz). It feels really solid and well made in your hands.

I think the design is brilliant and I can see why it would have a reputation for making females squirt. I think it is an average to large size girth-wise. I think any beginner can accommodate the small end. The larger end will presumably be comfortable for most, unless you are really tight like my girlfriend is. For her, it is too much of a stretch (literally) currently and some of that may be age/hormone related difficulties of late.

The small end is also perfectly sized for most beginners. I've read of at least one male user using the large end for prostate play, which hadn't occurred to me to even try. Maybe someday, but it's pretty intimidating from my perspective.

I think the toy is very ergonomic and perfect for masturbation. It works well for partner play too, but just be careful with it and be gentle and listen to your partner. I hard, heavy object like this jammed into a cervix or elsewhere would be very painful.

It may be heavy for traveling, but if you gotta have it, stick it in your packed luggage when flying. It's semi-discreet. It doesn't scream sex toy really and is a bit clinical looking.
    • Ergonomic
    • Partner play
    • Whimsical / artistic


The toy is very well made and beautiful to behold. This is my 2nd njoy toy, so I was aware of the quality, hype and claims of women squirting with it. The problem for us was that the large end was too large for her to insert. We used the smaller end instead and she found it pleasing, but I didn't get near the response I do from using other toys like the Amethyst, Lelo Liv or Jopen Vr9 and others. Even the Nubby G I got free with the order seemed to give her more pleasure. Yes, two of them are vibrators. I think this might take some time and practice to work its magic. I was afraid the large end would be too big for her and at this time, it is.

I'm not sure how much I will use this for anal play on myself. It wasn't my first intention when buying it. If she wanted to probe me with it, I'd be happy to oblige, but my preference for anal toys are the hands-free variety, which leave me able to focus intercourse, oral sex or while using fake vaginas/Fleshlights for a completely hands-free euphoric experience. I only rarely have manually stimulated myself anally and that was before I discovered prostate massagers, since coming to EF a year ago.
    • Easy to use
    • Not very discreet

Care and Maintenance

The Njoy Pure Wand is easy to care for. You can store it in the included box or keep in a pouch in the bedside drawer. Be careful not to drop on hard surfaces or tile flooring or you might break a tile or two or scratch the beautiful steel.

Stainless steel is easy to clean. You can wash with warm soap and water, boil for 3 min or soak in a 10% bleach solution. It is non-porous and sterilizable, so you can share with partners worry-free.
    • Easy to clean
    • Easy to store


The Pure Wand comes with a beautiful box that is elegant and minimalist in design. It says Njoy on the top side, complete with a red, satin-lined, hollowed-out portion for the toy to rest inside. Suitable for sitting on your bedside table even. Most people probably would have no idea what the box was, unless they were familiar with the Njoy name.

The storage box and packaging are discreet and slightly elegant and definitely functional for storage or gifting. They toy could be mistaken for some sort of medical or exercise device if you needed a cover story for prying eyes. It is a very clinical looking toy.

    • Discreet looking packaging
    • Good for storage


Overall, I'm a bit disappointed in the pure wand from an experience standpoint. I do not argue the craftsmanship, beauty, reputation and design at all, but I think it just isn't going to be our go to toy. It's obvious from the many testimonials here and elsewhere that this is a great toy, and one that can make many women squirt. I doubt that is every going to happen for her, but we will keep trying it and see what pleasure we can get out of it. I also got this in hopes of testing it on my prostate. My first insertion was uneventful, but it was a bit of a rush job. This seems like one I'd like to have a partner use on me, but so far I haven't gotten much pleasure or thrill out of trying it myself (and she's not too keen on inserting things in me..yet). It's not a giant surprise though, because I tend to go for hands-free toys anally and have a huge collection of prostate massagers. They seem to be a mixed bag. Some are amazing and some are just so so.

Take my opinion with a grain of salt, as I am certain that the Pure Wand is amazing for the majority of women...and maybe men too. I know not everyone gets the expected results the first few tries either. The same can be said for other toys, which I know from personal experience. The sale price is pretty reasonable, as well. Particularly, when I think of how much the Lelo Earl cost for less than half the amount of stainless steel.
Follow-up commentary
I ditched this toy quite a while back. While I adored the design and craftsmanship, it just wasn't the stimulation that worked for me or my partner. She actually found it kinda intimidating.
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  • Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster
    Thanks for your review.
  • Contributor: PassionCpl
    Another excellent review. We haven't hit the 'squirt' point with this, but both of us believe it's about the best toy in our collection.
  • Contributor: edeneve
    tenderize meat or knock out a burglar - LOL!!! great review.
  • Contributor: Pumpk1nPatch
    Your reviews are the best! Thanks for this.
  • Contributor: Trysexual
    Thanks for the comments everyone
  • Contributor: MrWill
    Way to knock it out of the park!!! Thanks for a great review!
  • Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7
    Thanks for the review! The Pure Wand has a helluva learning curve, hopefully it'll work better for you two over time.
  • Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast
    Great review, thanks for sharing!
  • Contributor: wicked48
    Great review! Thanks!
  • Contributor: Melan!e
    Great review! And your pics are awesome too! We haven't gotten much use out of ours yet but we actually found that my partner had an easier time using it on himself anally rather than me using it on him. I felt like I kept poking him in the wrong spots and was too concerned with the heft of the material. At this point, we do feel pretty much the same way you do about it.
  • Contributor: Trysexual
    Thanks for the comments.
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