Surprisingly Plain
Sterilizable, the Ella is good for sharing, however it's painfully pointy on one end, and lacking ribs on the other. I got nothing but frustration from her.Published: June 2, 2010
Pros:
Sterilizable, well made, nice long-term packaging.
Cons:
Plain, no ribs on g-spot area.
So, the Lelo Ella is a beautiful dildo. Made of 100% silicone, it's fully sanitizable, which is excellent if you plan to share it. It has a nice velvety texture that feels very good on the skin and it's packaged in an awesome box, with a satiny bag to slip her in. The velvety texture however does tend to attract fuzz, hair and the like, so make sure to clean it before use. Also, being that it's made of silicone, make sure to not use silicone lube on it.
Ella is a double ended dildo, with one end for mainly penetration, and the other curved for g-spot stimulation. For me however, this dildo did nothing. The end for just insertion is pointed, so it was painful for me. The g-spot end is flat, with no ribs or anything, and I discovered from using the Ella that I prefer some ribs for g-spot action, so it did absolutely nothing to me.
If anything, it was a double disappointment, because the Ella is such a quality toy and well made! I remember using it thinking to myself "I should be feeling something! AAHH!"
Being sanitizable, if you so choose you could use this toy anally. As it's hooked at the end that can act very nicely as a handle so you don't insert it too far in, and if you wanted to use this for anal and vaginal play, just boil it for 5-10 minutes to get it sterile before vaginal insertion. Or really, any play after anal use. Never go from anal directly to vaginal, unless you use and then discard a condom.
Since it's a dildo with no batteries, if you do enjoy this toy it's easy to take into the tub, shower or pool with you! And, the nice long-term storage that comes with it makes it easy for travel.
Ella is a double ended dildo, with one end for mainly penetration, and the other curved for g-spot stimulation. For me however, this dildo did nothing. The end for just insertion is pointed, so it was painful for me. The g-spot end is flat, with no ribs or anything, and I discovered from using the Ella that I prefer some ribs for g-spot action, so it did absolutely nothing to me.
If anything, it was a double disappointment, because the Ella is such a quality toy and well made! I remember using it thinking to myself "I should be feeling something! AAHH!"
Being sanitizable, if you so choose you could use this toy anally. As it's hooked at the end that can act very nicely as a handle so you don't insert it too far in, and if you wanted to use this for anal and vaginal play, just boil it for 5-10 minutes to get it sterile before vaginal insertion. Or really, any play after anal use. Never go from anal directly to vaginal, unless you use and then discard a condom.
Since it's a dildo with no batteries, if you do enjoy this toy it's easy to take into the tub, shower or pool with you! And, the nice long-term storage that comes with it makes it easy for travel.
Follow-up commentary
27 days after original review
Still don't like this one :( It's just not for me. I have to say though, I wish more toys were this quality made, with the great storage it comes with!
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ella vs. others
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I want to get ella as my first she doesn't seem as menacing as the others made of glass or metal but are those materials better sensation wise?
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It comes down to personal preference, really. You're not going to know if glass or metal feels better to you until you try.
A couple things to keep in mind, though: glass and metal have absolutely no give, so they tend to feel bigger than silicone toys of the same size. They're also rather heavy in most cases, and so you need to be a bit more careful when you use them. Being too rough can result in internal bruising. They're very slick and smooth, though, unlike silicone which typically has some drag to it.
The Ella is pretty rigid for a silicone toy, but it's very light and easy to use. It's great if you're new to dildos. :) -
Quote: I want to get ella as my first she doesn't seem as menacing as the others made of glass or metal but are those materials better sensation wise?I have not tried anything like that I hear alot of good things and alot of not so good things. its up to you to try and see what you prefer..
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How Does Lelo Ella compare to Gigi?
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I know that Ella doesn't vibrate, but are there many other differences? I am wondering whether the Ella might be a better shape or size for g-spot stimulation
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Would the Ella work well for a beginner?
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I'm thinking of getting my bestfriend this for Christmas but she is new to toys. Would this be a good toy to give a newbie? I have not tried it myself so I'm not sure how easy it is to master.
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I have the similarly shaped Gigi and found nothing but frustration when trying to thrust with it.
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i think it would be a good option for a beginner.
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I need help the Ella curve is doing me in.
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I am not sure what I am doing wrong. I have read every review and some twice. I can not figure this girl out. I want to write a review but, how can I write a review on something I do not get. Any ideas would be wonderful. Please help me enjoy this beautiful toy.
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What do you not get about it? Not every toy works for every woman. Does it hurt to use? Maybe your vagina is too small for it yet or maybe you just need some lube. Do you not feel anything? Again, nothing is for everyone. Try sqeezing the toy by doing kegels when you use it. Some women say that makes things feel better. Or maybe try tilting it up towards your g-spot. That works for me with other toys.
I haven't used it yet. Just recently purchased a white Ella. And I can't wait! We've got the same name! :D -
If you don't get it you can still write your review from that perspective. I'm sure you wouldn't be the only one who had that experience with it. I have the Ella and she's nice but she's not fireworks for me and that's ok. We all have different experiences with toys and that is what makes these reviews so valuable.
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Dildo vs. Vibrator
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I am having a hard time getting used to the idea of a dildo vs. a vibrator! As far as using one goes, how does one decide which is better for oneself? Just wondering and thanks!
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Quote: I am having a hard time getting used to the idea of a dildo vs. a vibrator! As far as using one goes, how does one decide which is better for oneself? Just wondering and thanks!What I mean by this I think is, is it easier with one than the other, or maybe does it require a different mind set or even is one better with partner play vs. solo? I don't know, LOL, just curious.
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When we started with toys it was all about clit vibes for 'effective' reliable orgasms. But as we got into g-spot and a-spot stimulation, dildos have advantages over vibes because pressure is more important than vibes.
Now we almost always have some of both going on. A dildo for internal and a clit vibe for external - although she occasionally likes two vibes.
The only truism I've found is that what she wants/needs is different almost every time. I use to think 'this worked last time - so lets do it again' - but now I think 'we did that last time - what can I do to mix things up'.
That's why we have dozens of toys - both vibes and dildos.
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Ella for beginners
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Hey! I was just wondering if Ella would be something an absolute beginner could use, someone who's never gone looking for her g-spot before. She seems awfully tempting, but I wonder if I it's too advanced a toy for me?
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Quote: Hey! I was just wondering if Ella would be something an absolute beginner could use, someone who's never gone looking for her g-spot before. She seems awfully tempting, but I wonder if I it's too advanced a toy for me?Ella is perfect for beginners. I had tried several other G-spot toys before Ella. Ella was the first one that worked for me. Several people have had their first successes with Ella.
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Quote: Ella is perfect for beginners. I had tried several other G-spot toys before Ella. Ella was the first one that worked for me. Several people have had their first successes with Ella.I'm glad Ella seems like such a successful toy! I hope she works for me, too <3
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Ella and Gigi
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I've had both the Ella and the Gigi sitting in my shopping cart for days now. I was wondering.. should I get them both, or should I maybe just get one to try, then maybe later on get the other if I want?
They both seem so worth it, it's hard to just pick one! -
Quote: I've had both the Ella and the Gigi sitting in my shopping cart for days now. I was wondering.. should I get them both, or should I maybe just get one to try, then maybe later on get the other if I want?I just bought the Ella and have not tried it yet, but everyone seems to love it. I have had the GiGi for a couple of months and rarely use it, mainly because the control thing is located in the worst possible spot, and I invariably hit it and make the settings change! Argh! I also had no luck with it for g-spot stimulation, and the only times I get it out it is for clit work.
They both seem so worth it, it's hard to just pick one!
Even though I wasn't crazy about GiGi, it seems to do the job for a lot of people, so it might work for you. In fact, I bought it based on all the wonderful reviews. I've come to the conclusion that there is no one toy that will do the trick for everyone. Everyone is VERY different in their tastes and what they need. -
I agree that no toy is good for everyone. I can not get a rabbit vibe that actually works for me by stimulating my clit and vag at the same time. Perhaps its operator error.
Anyway, I love the Gigi. I solved the control issue for me anyway by wiping the lube off the control and my fingers...success. The effectiveness of the Gigi is the vibe plus the design. I don't have the Ella, which is not a vibe but I see it as similar to many of the g spot dils available.
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Wow! Thanks for the review. I hear so many people rave about this, but it just doesn't look thrilling to me. Thought I was a weird-o! Lol. Thank you for sharing. I wish you would've had a better experience though.