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Masturbation doesn't have to be alone

Masturbation doesn't have to be alone
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For me, I find masturbating with someone else, whether it be in-person or in the virtual world, to be a much more fulfilling experience than being solo. There is a thrill and shared intimacy in sharing the build-up and climax of an orgasm with another person.

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What a wonderful article! It's so refreshing that someone is talking about this. I often wondered why the stigma remained concerning masturbation, but full on sexual intercourse is all but done in front of us on regular TV. I think it goes back to the ideas that it's selfish, self-indulgent & something embarrassing to be caught doing, let alone admitting to doing. What could be safer sex with someone else than mutual masturbation? It seems like such a natural progression in sexual development, yet it's barely addressed! People think of masturbation as a substitute for "the real thing" & that may be where the problem lies. I think anyone who knows their own body well, will have a better opportunity to be a good lover. Masturbating in front of someone else may not be a thrill for all, but think of what you can learn by watching someone else do it! That is a huge appeal to me because I always want to learn about what turns people on! I'm so glad you wrote this & hope it opens some eyes &, at the very least, gets people to think a little differently! This was really well written & thoughtful & I appreciate that you were so open with your personal experience, thank you!

05/14/2013

Thank you for the thoughtful comment

05/15/2013
spiced  

Great article! I wish I were as brave as you were, to seek out and enjoy those casual encounters. I was always too afraid, mainly of rejection or embarrassment. I get so nervous around strangers sometimes that I'd be afraid I either couldn't get an erection, or else wouldn't be able to cum. And I've never had a partner who really liked mutual masturbation. But it does sound like a lot of fun!

05/16/2013

Hey Spiced. Thanks for reading. I probably had those same feelings and experiences too and just learned to push past them somehow. I was very anti-casual for a long time. Too many broken hearts maybe.

05/21/2013
js250  

LOVE the article!!! My hubby and I are so glad when we hear that another person is as open and fun with masturbation as we are!! The thrill, stimulation and overt sexuality of masturbating for or watching others is indescribable...not to mention the naughty and sensual aspects of letting go.

I am one of the 'few' that loves to watch--not to mention be watched!!! A total and complete Voyeur/Exhibitionist...as is my hubby. Glad to read the article and may have to write one from the female perspective when things slow down.....

08/24/2013

hi! I wrote an article similar to this on mutual masturbation for Sexis several moths ago- I am with you 100%on this one! kudoos

09/04/2013

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