A Porn Poll after an interesting conversation with hubby

Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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So we don't typically watch porn. Why? I don't know, I guess I don't feel like it's necessary to warm me up, I don't have a lot of extra time, and my kids are around all the time. If my hubby grabs me and starts to make out with me like we're teenagers, that's enough for me at this point.
But we were having a conversation about porn recently and he revealed that he would rather read porn stories than watch porn on a video. I thought this was fascinating and it made me curious about other people's preferences. He also explained that there is a difference in the quality of the stories too just like the videos, which I had never considered (not ever reading them). He would rather read the erotica stories (better written, more thought, better storyline--his words, not mine) than the XXX hardcore stories.

What are your thoughts about porn? Do you watch porn? or read porn? or NO porn at all? and it would be interesting if you would post why you choose what you do. Thanks!
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Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
So we don't typically watch porn. Why? I don't know, I guess I don't feel like it's necessary to warm me up, I don't have a lot of extra time, and my kids are around all the time. If my hubby grabs me and starts to make out with ... more
Oops! Not really a poll as much as a discussion. I completely forgot about the polling option!! I wish I could figure out how to post a poll under this post. Is that possible? Or would it have to go in a separate posting area?
10/05/2019
Contributor: Soundside46 Soundside46
We both will watch porn from time to time. Sometimes we will watch before sex to get things going or to warm up. I will go down on the wife while she watches and that is always fun. There is a ton of choices out there now so you can find exactly what you like. With the erotica stories, we don't read them like we used to but the ones that are written with some thought and time are always better.
10/05/2019
Contributor: Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
I've been into porn since the days of Playboy and Penthouse. I use to go to seedy theaters in Philly to get the moving picture version of porn - then it was on to VHS, DVD and finally the internet.

Although I occasionally visit Literotica, I don't read as much porn as I did in the days of Penthouse Letters. Reading those letters were essentially my sex education about what people did to keep their sex lives interesting and hot.

My wife has not enjoyed the genre - although she's a voracious consumer of 'mommy porn' audio books. Since we got married I have been her supplier of hard-core porn!

I spent a lot of time traveling - mostly on planes. I would write up various scenarios of things I'd like to do to spice things up.

When the traveling slowed down and internet porn blossomed, I started creating x-rated 'greeting' cards to give her - but they were all snapshots.

To get some action into the mix I create PowerPoint presentations using GIFs from various sites - Tumblr (before they shut down adult content) and now from BDSMLR.

On the occasional Saturday evening she'll come up to my computer and fire up a few PPTs 'for inspiration'. When that happens, I know I'm in for an exciting evening of debauchery!
10/06/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
I've been into porn since the days of Playboy and Penthouse. I use to go to seedy theaters in Philly to get the moving picture version of porn - then it was on to VHS, DVD and finally the internet.

Although I occasionally visit ... more
That is so interesting!!!
10/06/2019
Contributor: Happily Married, little sex but it's OK Happily Married, little sex but it's OK
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
So we don't typically watch porn. Why? I don't know, I guess I don't feel like it's necessary to warm me up, I don't have a lot of extra time, and my kids are around all the time. If my hubby grabs me and starts to make out with ... more
What a fascinating question! I love it!

I think this touches on personal history, so briefly - my wife and I are 46 together for 28 years, married 21. She's my fave...but she doesn't love sex the way I do, so she doesn't watch it. I need a release so I do.

I actually prefer pictures - with ZERO judgement (props for zero judgement on yours btw)...

1. I grew up with pictures and inserted my own fantasies into them - Playboy, Penthouse. Maybe it's just habit?

2. Some of my best fantasies don't do well on camera -

3. I do pay for porn for when I watch it - they deserve to be compensated as much as anyone - but a lot of it is weirdly exaggerated. The sounds, slurping (ew)....

I participated in a poll with the company that I'm subscribed to and noted the extreme difference between the content and actions in the top rated free/stealing "tube" sites and the paid sites. Tube sites are stealing, but they also will show the most common interests. Just weird how paid sites are still pushing "gonzo" stuff.

Great question anyway - I like pictures
10/07/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
We both like looking at beautiful pictures. She appreciates beautiful women but says not pictures of men's genitals. At least so she says.

Occasionally we want tasteful adult movies . We both prefer beautiful people ( no ink, excessive piercings etc) with beautiful bodies. Real boobs over enhanced ones. She always says she should have gotten a boob job when in her twenties. . For both of us we prefer the men to be in good shape and well endowed

Once we viewed a fucking machine site. We were both so excited, we got it on right there in the living room.

Reading erotica and fantasy also gets us heated.
Well, since even R- rated stuff gets us excited, guess we just.......fun loving people.
10/07/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
So we don't typically watch porn. Why? I don't know, I guess I don't feel like it's necessary to warm me up, I don't have a lot of extra time, and my kids are around all the time. If my hubby grabs me and starts to make out with ... more
My husband is REALLY INTO BOOBIES!!!! and @Happily Married, little sex but it's OK -- PICTURES are what he likes!!! He can look at boob pictures all day long but after a while, it starts to get on my nerves. I told him that as many sex stories as he has read, he should be able to write them now. He won't even try to write any!! I think he would be good at it! (by the way, he is the one that calls them "boobies". Not me)
10/07/2019
Contributor: orgasmicfarmer orgasmicfarmer
We don't watch porn. Never together and hardly ever alone. The reason I do not like porn is largely because it isn't interesting. Big cocks, small women, forceful situations, pain as pleasure and humiliation as pleasure.... It just doesn't get me going. I'm sure someone out there makes good porn, as I deem it, I just don't know where to find it. I read a book recently, "Three Women" that was full of interesting sexual descriptions, but it was completely geared toward women. "Mommy porn" as Gunsmoke terms it. I think there's a large opportunity for porn that is more sensual and more inclusive, but not solely geared to women.
10/07/2019
Contributor: slammadew slammadew
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
So we don't typically watch porn. Why? I don't know, I guess I don't feel like it's necessary to warm me up, I don't have a lot of extra time, and my kids are around all the time. If my hubby grabs me and starts to make out with ... more
We don't typically watch porn together but I watch frequently alone. We have on occasion watched together, typically like when on vacation or something. It was nice watching together and helped to get us going but at the same time, not really necessary.

As I mentioned, I watch a lot on my own, mainly because, as someone else said, my wife doesn't seem to want sex as often as I do so it's an outlet for me. As far as what type of porn I consume, I do enjoy many types but video is my most regular. I really do enjoy erotic stories, I mean REALLY, REALLY enjoy, but it is typically more time consuming and even after reading some stories I usually revert to video to "wrap things up", if you know what I mean.
10/07/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
Love all the different viewpoints!! All interesting--so thanks!!
10/10/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
My husband is REALLY INTO BOOBIES!!!! and @Happily Married, little sex but it's OK -- PICTURES are what he likes!!! He can look at boob pictures all day long but after a while, it starts to get on my nerves. I told him ... more
My husband loves boobies too! That's how he selects which news station to watch. If his favorite gals are on, he hops stations. I don't mind. It's mine he caresses and squeezes every night
10/11/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
My husband loves boobies too! That's how he selects which news station to watch. If his favorite gals are on, he hops stations. I don't mind. It's mine he caresses and squeezes every night
You do have a very good point!!!
10/11/2019
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Perspicace mais érotique
You do have a very good point!!!
How did you know they are pointed
10/11/2019
Contributor: Perspicace mais érotique Perspicace mais érotique
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
How did you know they are pointed
LOL!!!!!!!!!
10/11/2019
Contributor: VanillaFreeSex VanillaFreeSex
If anyone likes queer porn I recommend Crashpad Series.
10/14/2019
Contributor: Sweetnative Sweetnative
I prefer to read exotica as well
02/20/2020