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Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
I tend to seek porn that I think is sex between real people. Not actors getting paid to appear like that are enjoying themselves. What I want to see is real sex between real people.

So here is my observation. In this porn I have seen, it seems that the women are way more attractive than the men they are with. The women typically have shapely/toned bodies while the men are pudgy and not muscular. Sure, sometimes the men have big cocks but that is about the only thing they have going for them appearance wise. Am I alone in this observation?
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I agree, the women seem much more attractive
28  (85%)
No, the men seem more attractive than the women
Actually I think the people in amateur porn are usually pretty well matched
5  (15%)
Total votes: 33
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Contributor: js250 js250
It is also like that in the paid porn as well. I joke with my husband that it can be better if we never see above the man's belly button....sorry--I know that sounds rude, but there is such an inequality in most sexual movies or clips. I have found some good ones though!
03/18/2013
Contributor: chicmichiw chicmichiw
You noticed that in amateur porn? I always felt like I noticed way more 'real' looking people, and that the couples were a whole range of shapes and sizes, which I appreciated.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
Quote:
Originally posted by js250
It is also like that in the paid porn as well. I joke with my husband that it can be better if we never see above the man's belly button....sorry--I know that sounds rude, but there is such an inequality in most sexual movies or clips. I have ... more
it is so true in mainstream porn. my wife gets frustrated too. mainstream porn is made for men, thus the higher paid stars are women. the better looking men are in gay porn. my wife likes how they look but does not like gay porn.
03/18/2013
Contributor: libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by Bubba29
I tend to seek porn that I think is sex between real people. Not actors getting paid to appear like that are enjoying themselves. What I want to see is real sex between real people.

So here is my observation. In this porn I have seen, it ... more
i agree
03/18/2013
Contributor: jr2012 jr2012
Quote:
Originally posted by Bubba29
it is so true in mainstream porn. my wife gets frustrated too. mainstream porn is made for men, thus the higher paid stars are women. the better looking men are in gay porn. my wife likes how they look but does not like gay porn.
I have heard of straight male porn stars doing gay porn because it's way better paid. So that's where they all went!

I bet if our male stars got paid as much as the female in straight scenes, we would probably be seeing a lot more fantasy type guys in professional videos.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
Quote:
Originally posted by jr2012
I have heard of straight male porn stars doing gay porn because it's way better paid. So that's where they all went!

I bet if our male stars got paid as much as the female in straight scenes, we would probably be seeing a lot more ... more
on a whim, i recorded the gay porn awards. my wife was both mad and wet when we watched it. the guys turned her on but also made her mad because she would only want to watch them with women.
03/18/2013
Contributor: Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I like to see people actually enjoying the sex and not faking it all
03/18/2013
Contributor: KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I think the women tend to be more attractive. However, it doesn't matter to me. They are real people and not acting, so I enjoy it.
03/18/2013
Contributor: noway noway
Women are more attractive
03/18/2013
Contributor: GirlOnGirl GirlOnGirl
I think the women are more attractive but I think that kinda fits with the expectations that our society has in general with regards to gender. Women are expected to spend more time, effort and money to look attractive are judged more on their physical appearance.
03/19/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
Quote:
Originally posted by Adnerbmw
I like to see people actually enjoying the sex and not faking it all
ME TOO!!!
03/19/2013
Contributor: epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
It's hard to find good porn, it's way to superficial.
03/19/2013
Contributor: Bubba29 Bubba29
Quote:
Originally posted by GirlOnGirl
I think the women are more attractive but I think that kinda fits with the expectations that our society has in general with regards to gender. Women are expected to spend more time, effort and money to look attractive are judged more on their ... more
you are probably right. i find myself watching and thinking, "how did that nasty, sloppy dude get that hot chick?" of course i am also assuming they are real amateurs and a real couple.

i have to wonder, are women in general disappointed in the appearance of the men their age.

my opinion is, in general, people don't take care of themselves the way they should. it's not just a man thing, it's an america thing. people are too busy working, playing angry birds, and watching american idol to get off their flat, fat butt and dedicate themselves to what it takes to improve their appearance. i commend those who have enough self respect to make the continual effort.
03/19/2013
Contributor: twelve13 twelve13
Normally I find the women more attractive, too. However, I tend to prefer women, so I might be biased.
03/22/2013
Contributor: snowminx snowminx
Yeah I think most of the time the women are more attractive. Then again they are prob getting paid a lot more. Also there's that thing about having the "average man" so guys can better pretend like they could get with that porn star.
03/24/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
I like amateur stuff best
04/26/2013
Contributor: llellsee llellsee
I have definitely noticed this alot. I do have more of an attraction to women's bodies but they do generally be in better shape too.
04/26/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
Women.
04/29/2013
Contributor: Rokmai Rokmai
I think the only real solution here is to stick with lesbian porn.
04/29/2013
Contributor: BrittaniMaree BrittaniMaree
I agree, the women seem much more attractive
04/29/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I think women are more attractive looking in general. I'm much more likely to look at a women and think she's attractive than a man.
05/03/2013
Contributor: vittmsk vittmsk
I like amateur
05/04/2013