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Contributor: Rokmai Rokmai
About six months ago I decided to stop watching porn. I decided on what I call '95 rules -a Victoria's Secret now and again was okay, but otherwise I just had my girlfriend and my vivid imagination.

Anyone else try giving it up? Over the years I started getting the feeling that it was starting to warp my views on sex, and not in a fun direction. And I know more than a few women whose boyfriends or husbands would much rather watch porn than have sex after awhile. And, when they do come to bed, they come expectation that she's going to swallow their cum and love anal.

I like that my girlfriend is the center of my sexual attention. Is this a crazy extreme to go through, though?
04/16/2013
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Contributor: ShadowedSeductress ShadowedSeductress
Quote:
Originally posted by Rokmai
About six months ago I decided to stop watching porn. I decided on what I call '95 rules -a Victoria's Secret now and again was okay, but otherwise I just had my girlfriend and my vivid imagination.

Anyone else try giving it up? Over ... more
Absolutely not! It's really great that you were able to see that it could have negative effects on you, and I'm glad that you have made your girlfriend the center of your sexual attention. I'm sure she appreciates it. It's unfortunate that some men (and I'm sure a few women) end up that way. Not even my toys could replace sex with my partner! Much less porn.
04/16/2013
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
I have never watched it.
04/16/2013
Contributor: meitman meitman
Quote:
Originally posted by Rokmai
About six months ago I decided to stop watching porn. I decided on what I call '95 rules -a Victoria's Secret now and again was okay, but otherwise I just had my girlfriend and my vivid imagination.

Anyone else try giving it up? Over ... more
My spouse and I don't watch porn. It's our personal and religious beliefs. I also didn't like how it effected me. I've never regretted giving it up.
04/16/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
I think that you have made the right decision. Porn tends to warp peoples reality on sex. My wife and I hardly every watch it. Maybe once or twice a year we will put one on in the background. I am like you though. I want to concentrate on pleasing my wife, not watching porn.
04/17/2013
Contributor: C&K0143 C&K0143
My husband and I have a strict no porn policy (not including our own of course).
07/14/2013
Contributor: wicked48 wicked48
Hardly ever watch it.
07/16/2013
Contributor: xladyzoeyx xladyzoeyx
I love porn, but I do think it influences our expectations, like you pointed out.
07/21/2013
Contributor: SoloJoe SoloJoe
I watch it
07/21/2013
Contributor: Trysexual Trysexual
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Originally posted by spunkmonkey
I have never watched it.
With a name like that, I find it hard to believe.
07/22/2013
Contributor: Aesenthia Aesenthia
I've never seen "porn" per se. I've watched hentai and read like H manga, but no porn (not sure if that counts as porn or not).
10/10/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
Quote:
Originally posted by Rokmai
About six months ago I decided to stop watching porn. I decided on what I call '95 rules -a Victoria's Secret now and again was okay, but otherwise I just had my girlfriend and my vivid imagination.

Anyone else try giving it up? Over ... more
We like a break every now and then. Currently we are taking a break and froze our Sugar DVD membership.
10/10/2014