Unless you feel like you NEED some form of porn in order to get off, I don't think it's a big deal. The mainstream porn industry has always been very... theatrical, and now a lot of the amateur stuff is not actually amateur anymore because the industry has realized that people are losing interest in their over-the-top stuff. Unfortunately, along with the production of "fake" amateur porn, a lot of other material the industry is producing is becoming increasingly extreme and harmful/violent (talk to the docs who tend to the actresses... ugh) in an attempt to hold everyone's attention.

But yeah, I definitely agree, I'm bored and even disgusted at points. I too am irritated by fake everything and am bored by porn in general after years of watching it. I don't even remember the last time I sat through an entire clip without fast forwarding to the "good" parts, which are increasingly few and far between... but really, unless there's no other way for you to feel aroused, it's no big loss. You can always try written erotica, or sit and fantasize on your own