That is awful. I don't have a problem with porn at all, but it is like he is using you and your ass is not good enough to look at. Porn when Im not in the mood or out of town or together occasionally is fun, but that is sad.

I would feel the same way... and then some. If we're watching porn together, it's on the computer screen or TV and we both can enjoy it. I wouldn't like this at all... but since you don't seem to mind about the porn (or it's placement) I won't comment as much on that. The volume thing would bother me though, yes.

Oh my goodness, I could not imagine him doing something like that to me! I would be so angry and hurt. I wouldn't be with him if he was the type to consume such material. No way! It made me sad to read that you feel tht way. I would feel like shit to be honest. No way I could be with someone like that. I'm totally turned off by the stuff and thankfully my partner is too. We stay away from porn. It would only destroy our relationship... not to mention my confidence. I had a nasty past experience and that's what brought on such intense feelings about pornography for me.

This is exactly my feelings, that I would not be good enough. Maybe I have more of an issue than most women, in fact, I'm absoluely sure that I do, but goodness it would break my heart. The fact that he'd be interested in ANYTHING besides me during sex would piss me off, but using my good enough body to get off to someone else, I'd never have sex again!

No, we've found that we end up competiting with the couple on the TV and end up having more fun