Does it ever bother you if your partner watches porn while doing you?

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Does it ever bother you if your partner watches porn while doing you?

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Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
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Sometimes my boyfriend puts his iPhone on my butt while hes doing me doggy style and watches porn. It usually doesnt bother me but sometimes I feel like Im competing with the moans and groans of the lady on the porn.

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03/24/2012
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Contributor: Rossie Rossie
I find that ridiculous and insulting. Why doesn't he just get one of those realistic vaginas instead.
03/24/2012
Contributor: js250 js250
No big deal for us, we both like porn and love to watch it while we are having sex. It adds to the experience for us.
03/24/2012
Contributor: spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
Seems to be degrading to me. I would have a talk with him.
03/24/2012
Contributor: CuteDee CuteDee
Its not the porn that I mind... I guess its more the volume. I like porn and watch it but while we are having sex, I wish he would turn down the porn volume and listen to my pleasure sounds! hee hee
03/26/2012
Contributor: married with children married with children
my wife and I sometimes watch it together. But when I am busy pleasing her, I am not watching the tv.
03/27/2012
Contributor: LusciousLizz LusciousLizz
I think Porn is okay to watch for solo masturbation or as a couple only. It is great for arousal and foreplay, but once a couple has started the actual act...it needs to go away. He should be concerned with the pleasure he is giving you, and being turned on by your moans and screams, not that of another/other woman/women. If he really enjoys being with you sexually then he shouldn't need that. Maybe he wants you to compete and let him know that he pleasures you more than the men in the pornos pleasure those women. I would confront your man and see why he does it.
04/04/2012
Contributor: pinkzombie pinkzombie
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Originally posted by CuteDee
Sometimes my boyfriend puts his iPhone on my butt while hes doing me doggy style and watches porn. It usually doesnt bother me but sometimes I feel like Im competing with the moans and groans of the lady on the porn.

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That is awful. I don't have a problem with porn at all, but it is like he is using you and your ass is not good enough to look at. Porn when Im not in the mood or out of town or together occasionally is fun, but that is sad.
04/05/2012
Contributor: JessCee JessCee
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Originally posted by CuteDee
Sometimes my boyfriend puts his iPhone on my butt while hes doing me doggy style and watches porn. It usually doesnt bother me but sometimes I feel like Im competing with the moans and groans of the lady on the porn.

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I would feel the same way... and then some. If we're watching porn together, it's on the computer screen or TV and we both can enjoy it. I wouldn't like this at all... but since you don't seem to mind about the porn (or it's placement) I won't comment as much on that. The volume thing would bother me though, yes.
04/05/2012
Contributor: garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
this sounds kind of demeaning
04/07/2012
Contributor: Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by CuteDee
Sometimes my boyfriend puts his iPhone on my butt while hes doing me doggy style and watches porn. It usually doesnt bother me but sometimes I feel like Im competing with the moans and groans of the lady on the porn.

Comments??
WOW I can't imagine either of my guys doing that to me...or being around for long after. Then again if you aren't upset about it I guess different strokes (pun not intended)!
04/07/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by CuteDee
Sometimes my boyfriend puts his iPhone on my butt while hes doing me doggy style and watches porn. It usually doesnt bother me but sometimes I feel like Im competing with the moans and groans of the lady on the porn.

Comments??
Oh my goodness, I could not imagine him doing something like that to me! I would be so angry and hurt. I wouldn't be with him if he was the type to consume such material. No way! It made me sad to read that you feel tht way. I would feel like shit to be honest. No way I could be with someone like that. I'm totally turned off by the stuff and thankfully my partner is too. We stay away from porn. It would only destroy our relationship... not to mention my confidence. I had a nasty past experience and that's what brought on such intense feelings about pornography for me.
04/07/2012
Contributor: K101 K101
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Originally posted by pinkzombie
That is awful. I don't have a problem with porn at all, but it is like he is using you and your ass is not good enough to look at. Porn when Im not in the mood or out of town or together occasionally is fun, but that is sad.
This is exactly my feelings, that I would not be good enough. Maybe I have more of an issue than most women, in fact, I'm absoluely sure that I do, but goodness it would break my heart. The fact that he'd be interested in ANYTHING besides me during sex would piss me off, but using my good enough body to get off to someone else, I'd never have sex again!
04/07/2012
Contributor: spineyogurt spineyogurt
Turns me on
04/07/2012
Contributor: xilliannax xilliannax
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Originally posted by CuteDee
Sometimes my boyfriend puts his iPhone on my butt while hes doing me doggy style and watches porn. It usually doesnt bother me but sometimes I feel like Im competing with the moans and groans of the lady on the porn.

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No, we've found that we end up competiting with the couple on the TV and end up having more fun
04/09/2012
Contributor: cheesewizz cheesewizz
its not weird if both people are into it, but in this case it sounds like hes being a jerk
04/13/2012
Contributor: PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
Now that is wrong put it on the TV so you both can watch. But I like to watch porn when I am with someone.
04/13/2012
Contributor: LovesAPoet LovesAPoet
I think it's one thing if you two are watching and enjoying it together, but for just him to watch it while doing you is wrong. I would be upset if my partner did this with me.
04/13/2012